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TTC #1 thread 1 2019

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Waiting2bMum · 07/01/2019 13:47

Hi Ladies,

Thought it would be good to start a 2019 support thread for all of us who are trying to conceive. Any one welcome, please join!
I will start:
Age: 26
TTC: baby no.1
Trying: 20 cycles with 2 chemical pregnancies
Currently: 2 ww, due on tomorrow with negative HPT's so far

Would be great to hear your stories and support each other along the way. Wishing you all baby dust☺️💐xx

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FaithPeaceProsperityLove · 04/02/2019 13:53

I'm sorry not trying to turn this thread into a morbid grief thread

Please don't feel obliged to reply i mean it because I understand its disturbing & too much
I just needed to tell someone, say something

FaithPeaceProsperityLove · 04/02/2019 13:45

I lost my son in july2018, he was 6months old. He was such a precious, beautiful, happy, sweet baby. The memories torture me. I feel depressed z& grief stricken. Swinging/or fading between 2 states of mind... 1.) Absolutely Hysterical with grief..çrying, wailing, screaming & it feels like my brain is going insane,literally. I can't explain it its like shock & horror...like the REALITY of it all has FINALLY set in & its UNBEARABLE 2) I feel numb, intense shock & zombie like, it feels weird, again like I'm losing my mind. Again can't explain it.

Sorry to be so heavy with this but I've never spoken about it & i needed to just say Something...I have wanted to talk & "deal" with it but I have zero support system so it has just festered & festered to this state

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 13:10

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove thank you, that's very kind of you. We are all here for each other so you honestly have no worries xx

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FaithPeaceProsperityLove · 04/02/2019 13:09

@lizzie198 thanks for the info.
Yes its early days but I understand that even in the early days it still is so disheartening....i remember.

Really good to know this is a supportive thread with nice people x

Tryingforno2 · 04/02/2019 13:09

@Waiting2bMum thank you, I'm really hoping the faintest of faint lines I saw this morning was the start of a bfp for us 🤞🏻🤞🏻I have felt like AF is coming for the past 3 days it's so weird I keep checking and nothing, I'm not due on until the 7th - 9th cycles are a min 28 days max 30 x

FaithPeaceProsperityLove · 04/02/2019 13:01

@waiting2bemum Congratulations on your pregnancy! Really exciting but nerve wracking for you I understand but please relax & stay so so positive as you rightly said to me....i believe it helps it stay & stick when we are.
So sorry to hear of your struggle & m/c's. Its a hard road. Praying this is the one for you. Thank you for your kind words

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 12:59

@Tryingforno2 your not alone I promise, everyone is lovely on here. I started the thread for our journeys to be travelled together. You will be fine with us all xx

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lizzie198 · 04/02/2019 12:55

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove you will normally get an email saying you have been mentioned or there's a new post on a thread you are on but sometimes it comes after you've checked lol.

There's also a little pin in the bar at the bottom of the app which says I'm on and you can find all the threads you've posted on.

My OH and I have only been TTC since December so still early days for us so I'm finding this thread and all the people on it a wonderful support xx

FaithPeaceProsperityLove · 04/02/2019 12:50

@lizzie198 I am new to mumsnet...just joined 30mins ago so was still getting the hang of it...sorry slow reply.( is there a way to be notified via e mail when there is a new reply/post on threads that we are on??)
Thank you for saying you'll be on the journey with me this month, means so much.

Tryingforno2 · 04/02/2019 12:43

@Waiting2bMum I know what you mean the early days are so stressful just hoping it's a sticky one but I'm thinking this will be 3rd time lucky for you 😃 xx

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 12:37

@MrsE95 ahhh I'm excited and happy but so cautious! I still have faith for you. Yes send a pic xx

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MrsE95 · 04/02/2019 12:35

Also @waiting2bmum I’ll post a pic when I get home but you deffo won’t see anything 🙈 xx

MrsE95 · 04/02/2019 12:35

@waiting2bmum they are amazing!!! 😁😁😁😁 lets hope it’s a sticky bean! 💖💖

I’m starting to loose faith now though which isn’t good. 😭 praying AF doesn’t show up tomorrow! 🙏🙏

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 12:34

@Lemurville thank you☺️😘xx

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Lemurville · 04/02/2019 12:33

Wow big congrats @waiting2bmum that defo looks like a +ve to me! xx

lizzie198 · 04/02/2019 12:32

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove I will be on the journey with you in February 😊

Really sorry for your loss at the end of last year though and hope you can get another bfp and it's a sticky one xx lots of baby dust xx

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 12:28

@lizzie198 thank you😘❤️it don't seem real xx
@Sienna9522 ahh thank you😘❤️ I had a feeling but wasn't sure!! When should I do a cb digital??
@FaithPeaceProsperityLove I know exactly how you feel, been trying for nearly too years with 2 chemicals. I am so wary now with this positive. Don't know if this really helps but just be so so positive that it has been happening for you and it will happen and stay xx

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FaithPeaceProsperityLove · 04/02/2019 12:22

Hi all, out as AF started 31st jan. I had 2x miscarriage back to back October & 23november 2018. Trying again this month. Feeling low & empty. Need some encouragement & support please..... Anyone??

Sienna9522 · 04/02/2019 12:18

@MrsG7718 what a lovely photo! 😊

@Tryingforno2 welcome and I’m pretty sure I can see a faint line.

@Waiting2bmum, I knew it! From the very first pic you posted, congratulations and fingers crossed 🤞🏼 for a successful pregnancy x

lizzie198 · 04/02/2019 12:11

@Waiting2bMum no doubting those results congratulations 🎉🎉 fingers crossed it's a sticky one xx

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 12:09

@Tryingforno2 thank you!! Yes my first been trying for nearly two years with two chemicals. I hope this one sticks I really do xx

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Tryingforno2 · 04/02/2019 12:08

@Waiting2bMum congratulations! How exciting!!! I'm so happy for you will this be your first!? Xx

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 12:04

Top one fmu I saved, bottom third wee of the day. Can't believe it!! Xxx

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Tryingforno2 · 04/02/2019 11:56

@Waiting2bMum aha! I've downloaded the app and I can yah now thank you! Xx

Tryingforno2 · 04/02/2019 11:44

@waitingtobemum hmmmm it doesn’t bring up names I just have to remember who I’m replying too, how strange, ooooo how exciting 🤞🏻🤞🏻 I hope you get a line! I think I might pop and get a first response today and use that in the morning xx

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