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TTC #1 thread 1 2019

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Waiting2bMum · 07/01/2019 13:47

Hi Ladies,

Thought it would be good to start a 2019 support thread for all of us who are trying to conceive. Any one welcome, please join!
I will start:
Age: 26
TTC: baby no.1
Trying: 20 cycles with 2 chemical pregnancies
Currently: 2 ww, due on tomorrow with negative HPT's so far

Would be great to hear your stories and support each other along the way. Wishing you all baby dust☺️💐xx

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Andromeida59 · 04/02/2019 17:25

False alarm for me. This is why I wait because this has happened before. Just seems particularly cruel that in the first month we try, AF is late.
Sad

MrsE95 · 04/02/2019 17:12

Fine here you go @waiting2bmum they are horrible. 😂

So my symptoms are

  • weird cramping first on right side now on left never all over.
  • nausea
  • random non dehydration related headaches
  • exhaustion
  • constipation (this is the worst bloody symptom hate it!)
  • the sorest boobs I’ve ever had in my life.
  • loss of appetite
  • weird smells
Anyone have similar and get their BFPs?

If I’m not preg I’m trading in my body for a new one as it’s clearly broken in some way. 😂😂😂 xx

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Sienna9522 · 04/02/2019 17:08

@Waiting2bmum yes, lots and lots of cramps. I remember worrying the first time round and all was fine, so I’m not as worried with the cramps this time. Everything is stretching and growing to accommodate xx

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 16:52

@MrsE95 sorry forgot to say, that's sounds good that's what I had xx

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 16:52

@MrsE95 ahh ok, I still think you should so I can do some line spotting for you😁😁fingers crossed for the morning!! I am still very positive for you xx

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MrsE95 · 04/02/2019 16:49

Welcome new ladies, hope you all get your BFPs soon!!

@waiting2bmum I’m not going to post my tests from this morning as they are embarrassingly BFN 😂 I felt stabbing/pulling pains on my left side today but didn’t feel like AF pains. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Got my delivery of FRERs waiting for me too. Going to test again in the morning. Hoping and praying we see something and not my period as it’s my husbands birthday. 😂 xx

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 15:54

@Sienna9522 I haven't got one yet, was going to get both. Feel a bit worried as feel like I'm getting a cold and got quite a lot of cramps like AF😫did you have this? X

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Sienna9522 · 04/02/2019 15:52

@Waiting2bmum, which digital have you got? I think the weeks indicator ones are less sensitive 50miu (if that’s the correct abbreviation for the measurement 🙈) but the certainty ones that just say pregnant or not pregnant are 25miu. I’ve just received two weeks indicator ones and plan to do one tomorrow with FMU. I’m hoping to see 2-3 weeks as I should be 4+2 tomorrow. If I do I will wait another week to do the other one and check that’s it’s gone to 3+ And that will give me some reassurance that HCG levels are rising. X

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 15:46

@HayleyD84 glad to see you back, lovely picture!!💖was it negative you didn't say?? X
@Tryingforno2 I'm as bad as that!! I just done a third test because I'm worried x

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Tryingforno2 · 04/02/2019 15:37

@HayleyD84 you think 7dpo is bad I've been testing since 1dpo 😂😂 I'm aware that's it's absolutely pointless and I obviously have some sort of problem 😬

Sienna9522 · 04/02/2019 15:14

@HayleyD84 lovely pic 😊

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove I am so truly sorry. I cannot even begin to imagine how heartbreaking that must have been. Please talk about it as much as you want, we are all here to listen. I hope you have real life support too x

Tryingforno2 · 04/02/2019 15:09

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove so so sorry to read your story I can't even begin to understand what you must be going through right now, life is so cruel I'm so sorry xx

Amy39 · 04/02/2019 14:59

@HayleyD84 lovely photo x

HayleyD84 · 04/02/2019 14:57

Me, my hubby and son at our wedding 18 months ago.

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HayleyD84 · 04/02/2019 14:55

Hi all,
I have been quite for a while but I have been keeping up with your messages, which have been getting me through the annoying TWW.

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove I am so so so so sorry to hear you lost your beautiful son, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through! sending you massive hugs. You are so brave for speaking out. Hopefully you can find some comfort with these groups Flowers
xxxxxxxx

I caved! I done a test this morning (7dpo with FRER) I know prob too early. Dreaded AF due on Friday, hurry up this week!!

Was lovely seeing all the pics of you all. I'll add mine too x

Amy39 · 04/02/2019 14:51

@Waiting2bMum Like a deep brown red although it does keep changing to bright red. No I'm not having to use anything just keep wiping when I go to the loo. I did use a pad yesterday for extra precaution but there wasn't enough to transfer on to the pad (sorry if that was tmi)

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 14:49

@nwlv also sorry to hear about your MC. You may have ovulated late maybe that's why it's not showing. Are you using opks to see what you did? Thank you☺️☺️x

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nwlv · 04/02/2019 14:47

@Waiting2bMum It was a First Response but I have a stash of these and some cheap ones so will try again soon although i may be being a bit optimistic because i know these can pick up a positive pretty early. I think i work myself up like this every month haha
Also big congratulations to you!!

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 14:40

@Amy39 what colour is it and are you having to use something? Also have you had your first bleed yet? X
@nwlv welcome☺️☺️it might have been a bit early to test, what test did you use? X

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Amy39 · 04/02/2019 14:35

@Waiting2bMum Oh I really hope so! I didn't know if it was abit to heavy to be anything like implantation and I wasn't sure if it would have been abit to soon for that as my fertile window was the the 26th-31st xx

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Waiting2bMum · 04/02/2019 14:30

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove don't be sorry for letting it out, it's good that you are and we are all human, we need get things out. I am very sorry to hear that😔your doing a great job, I really hope that you get a positive soon xx
@Amy39 welcome to this thread☺️fingers crossed it's a BFP, spitting can be a good sign x
@MrsG7718 thank you!!😘I feel quite nervous it's like a waiting game. When shall I do a digital? 5 days before missed period at the moment xx

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nwlv · 04/02/2019 14:28

Hi everyone can i join?
TTC our first since July, but we had an early miscarriage in October

AF was due yesterday but had a BFN a few days ago.
Although i am feeling super tired but do think i just look for any symptom around this time. Trying to wait out a bit before testing again but its so hard!

MrsG7718 · 04/02/2019 14:24

@sienna9522 and @waiting2bmum thank you Grin

Wow yes @waiting2bmum looks a lovely BFP. Sticky bean XF xxx

Amy39 · 04/02/2019 14:14

Hi everyone.
Thought I would join in on this thread. I'm new to netmums (infact im new to anything like this) still don't understand the abbreviations yet lol!
I'm 25 and this is the first time trying for me. We're in our first month of trying and I'm currently in my 2ww. I am due on on the 12th but I have been spotting for the past 4 days :( think I'll be probably be out this month! Xx

lizzie198 · 04/02/2019 14:06

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove firstly huge hugs to you I can only make an attempt at considering what you must have gone through and still are.

However, I know from personal experiences with other types of grief if you can start to speak about it you are taking a step towards a more positive future.

Let's hope you get your sticky bfp soon and can start to enjoy the experience of a new baby and it will give you some hope xx

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