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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Need some TTC buddies

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Lammoshay · 06/01/2019 16:38

Hi lovelies
Started actively trying this month so thought it would be nice if anyone wanted a journey buddy.
I’m 35, DH is 42.
Had 2 pregnancies in past (2002,2011) ending in MC
Married now for 9years so yeah looking to start a lil family.
Currently 2dpo and wait is already horrendous and symptom spotting is in place 😂
So tell me all about you and your journey 💋

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Anon93 · 05/03/2019 14:07

@ImMeantToBeWorking I’m using Flo and Fertility Friend at the moment, I like the FF app because you can log a positive OPK and it changes your test day to be more accurate

Anon93 · 05/03/2019 14:05

Having that dreaded dull before period ache today and I’m due on Saturday so have a bad feeling I’m out this month 😢

ImMeantToBeWorking · 05/03/2019 11:58

@Louise, don't worry about the bloods, you will be 100% I am not sure we get that kind of attention in Ireland, I have never heard of it anyway, I think we have to go in for all our tests. I am 50mins to an hour from the nearest maternity wards and nearest maternity hospital is 2hours from me (which is where we will need to go if there is anything wrong) so the appointments will be fun!! Just need to get pregnant first.

@Anon93 - not that you need it now, but I use the chart on the Flo and Ovia apps. Using the two of them for the min. Not sure which one is better.

@Lammoshay you are very patient, I couldn't wait that long if I am honest!

Holiday16 · 04/03/2019 21:14

Thankyou for the well wishes Smile
I am really tired all the time, feel sick for most of the day and my appetite has completely gone. I have also had mild cramping for past two weeks. In general I just Feel awful and bloated all the white!
Hoping I will start to feel more human as the pregnancy progresses x

Anon93 · 04/03/2019 20:43

Congratulations @holiday16 💐

@ImMeantToBeWorking I bought a thermometer and fertility chart off eBay and haven’t managed to figure it out so it’s now been dumped in the back of my wardrobe 😂

So I’m suffering really bad again with nausea, it’s not just in the mornings it comes in waves throughout the day and I feel it so bad right now so fingers crossed that’s a good sign even if all my other “symptoms” disappeared! 😊

Louise392 · 04/03/2019 17:46

Not long now then @lammoshay, It is still early, i had hardly any closer to the time really.
Feel so bloated today and having pms pains off and on since i found out so its all very strange

Lammoshay · 04/03/2019 17:38

Hey Louise- can start testing 9dpo so wed/thu or may just leave till AF.
I don’t feel pregnant if your suppose to feel any type of way, but you never know x

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Louise392 · 04/03/2019 17:24

congratulations @holiday16 I am 6 weeks on Thursday :)

Sounds promising @Lammoshay fingers crossed for you, How long til you can test?

Louise392 · 04/03/2019 17:22

@immeanttobeworking I am just going to leave it a while and see how i feel a bit further down the line. I spoke to her on the phone last week and she did the booking in with me early, she is coming this Friday round the house to chat again and meet face to face and do my bloods, not looking forward to them at all :(

ImMeantToBeWorking · 04/03/2019 08:54

@Louise392 I hope it all works out for you, maybe an elected csection would be your best option. Was it Friday gone you met the midwife? How did it go?

@Lammoshay, I have everything crossed for you! We need some more BFPs in here.

Welcome @Anon93 Grin

Congrats :Holiday16, I hope it all goes well for you Flowers

OK so I have been temping the last while, and I am none the wiser. I was taking pain meds for my broken toe, and my friend made a comment about how that would affect my chart when I showed her, and also I had a flu so that could affect it as well as the cold and flu tablets I was taking. So broken toe happened on the 9th Feb, flu started on the 16th Feb until around the 22nd, according to Flo Ov was the 28th of Feb, but look at my charts, it seems to me (first month temping so really I haven't a clue) that I Ov on the 3rd? Or am I totally wrong on that? Help needed from you lovely ladies who have temped before!

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Lammoshay · 03/03/2019 23:38

Felt really tired today and a can’t be bothered feeling 🤞

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hopeful31 · 03/03/2019 08:23

Fantastic news @Holiday16 congratulations. Wishing u a healthy pregnancy x

Holiday16 · 03/03/2019 07:21

Hi all, just an update as I joined this thread in January after one Month of ttc. I can now confirm I am 6 weeks pregnant. Thankyou
For the support you have all shown me and I wish you all luck on fertilising your eggs Smilexx

hopeful31 · 03/03/2019 07:09

@Lammoshay sounds promising 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Lammoshay · 02/03/2019 22:54

Fingers and toes crossed hopeful 🤞

My update: feeling a bit nauseous tonight, had some stabbing pains last night and a little crampy today- also feel very wet down there and boobs feel “different”.
🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

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hopeful31 · 02/03/2019 17:36

I started the smep todsy! Fingers crossed!!

Anon93 · 02/03/2019 15:12

Thanks for the warm welcome ❤️

I felt a little nauseous this morning but apart from that I have no other symptoms today, really trying to stay optimistic!

Hopefully one of us get caught this month! @hopeful @Lammoshay

Lammoshay · 01/03/2019 23:00

Me to @hopeful
Been symptom spotting- feeling a tad crampy and boobs a little tender 🤞

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hopeful31 · 01/03/2019 20:56

@Louise392 I'm sure there is no rush on ur decision . So just think it over xx

Hi @Anon93 I'm only day 8 of my cycle so I have a long way to go 😭😭

@Lammoshay I'm really hoping that this is ur month 😘

Lammoshay · 01/03/2019 20:15

Hi @Anon93 and welcome 💐

I know how you feel about the dreaded 2WW- im only 4 days in!
Sending lots of baby dust to you ❤️

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Anon93 · 01/03/2019 19:10

Hi ladies! Hope you don’t mind me jumping on this thread. It’s been 10 days since my positive OPK and have another 8 days until AF is due, the waiting is killing me!! I’ve had a couple of symptoms like nausea, mood swings and increase in appetite. I also feel tender from the outside and I know this might sound crazy but I just feel like there’s something in there Shock I don’t want to get my hopes up as last month I was really upset when I got my BFN Sad who else is waiting to test? x

Louise392 · 01/03/2019 11:02

Hi @Lammoshay, She based it on my BMI being 40, not really weight as such but BMI being high.

To be honest the last csection was the best birth i have had out of all 3,

first was horrendous being induced, doing full contractions, labour then having an emergency c section put to sleep and getting an infection, ended up staying in hospital for 10 days.

Second was natural birth but had to have forceps and an episiotomy, when they did that they cut my vein and so i had to have a blood transfusion so was in for about 5 days.

3rd i elected a c section and was awake, had a spinal and was out of hospital in 2 days, very easy no complications at all so if i can do that again i possibly would.

Lammoshay · 28/02/2019 20:52

Hi Louise
What do they class as “overweight” if you don’t mind me asking- can inbox me if needed as I’m not the smallest and a c section would worry me to x

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Lammoshay · 28/02/2019 20:47

Hi hopeful yes I think so as all really faint after that and been getting fainter and fainter.
Have no idea how many dpo/ do I go from the actual day I OV or the start date of my fertile window?
So would either be 19th or 25th.
So would either be 9dpo if fertile or 3dpo if from 25th OV?????

Yeah smep was ok however I was a bit scared to do every other day incase I missed it so ended up doing 2 days on, 2 off and then 3 straight x

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hopeful31 · 28/02/2019 20:26

@Louise392 that's tuff. Sorry to hear that. Although if having a c section is safer for u both, is it the better option? Hope ur ok x