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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Need some TTC buddies

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Lammoshay · 06/01/2019 16:38

Hi lovelies
Started actively trying this month so thought it would be nice if anyone wanted a journey buddy.
I’m 35, DH is 42.
Had 2 pregnancies in past (2002,2011) ending in MC
Married now for 9years so yeah looking to start a lil family.
Currently 2dpo and wait is already horrendous and symptom spotting is in place 😂
So tell me all about you and your journey 💋

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Lammoshay · 20/01/2019 22:14

@louise I see a faint line! Eeeeek year again tomorrow as see if any stronger or try a FR x

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Lammoshay · 20/01/2019 22:13

When do you ladies class your dpo from?
I’m due between 22-28 jan.
I think I ovulate between 22-24.
So what would you class as dpo if your not aware of OV actual date. X

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Louise392 · 20/01/2019 20:38

Here @hopeful31. Its defo there just really hard to see on a pic.
I have a frer left so going to do that tomorrow with fmu.
Thank you me too :)

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hopeful31 · 20/01/2019 20:33

I've never used those ones. Where am I looking for the line?? I really really hope it's ur bfp!!!!!

Louise392 · 20/01/2019 20:28

Hi Everyone,
So yesterday i didn't test and had really bad pains in my right side again and my back was in agony.
Today i have been at a wedding fair all day stood up exhibiting (I am a wedding florist), had really 'wet' discharge, a toilet visit and pms pains, thought i was going to come on af but then nothing happened.
Came home and thought i would POAS my last one step strip and i think i see a line :) ive attached a pic but its not great as its so faint its only just noticeable eeekkk!! line eyes please people.

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hopeful31 · 20/01/2019 16:10

Haven't tested today. No sign of af. Going to try to hold off until Tuesday

Viennawaits4you · 20/01/2019 15:47

Managed to take a test yesterday, bfn Sad but still no sign of af so going to test again in a couple of days

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Lammoshay · 20/01/2019 15:01

Anyone tested over the weekend x

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Louise392 · 19/01/2019 14:31

@viennawaitsyou yes ovia and just downloaded the fertility friend one, although I don't think it's as easy as ovia

@hopeful31 nope no sign and no cramps or anything today although feel like I have a cold today

hopeful31 · 19/01/2019 14:21

Which one do you use ?

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Viennawaits4you · 19/01/2019 13:04

@Louise392 I use Ovia too, ive found it easier than some of the others I’ve looked at.
Af due today and no sign yet. Staying with family this weekend and so can’t test until Monday Sad

hopeful31 · 19/01/2019 12:34

@Louise392 any sign of af?
Yes I've 2 apps. It's so confusing but because I am irregular I think I need them to keep me slightly sane lol

Louise392 · 18/01/2019 20:12

Have you been using any apps @hopeful31?

I have been using that Ovia which is pretty easy to use and you put in when you think you ovulated, i have not tested for mine, just kinda know and put Monday 7th, making me 11dpo, just downloaded the Flo app and that has predicted that i would have ovulated the Saturday the 5th which would make me 13dpo.

So confusing but i dont want the added stress of having to do opk tests all the time.

I am going to wait til at least sunday to do my other frer, thats if af doesnt arrive.

hopeful31 · 18/01/2019 19:43

@Louise392 that makes me feel a little betters. Still no sign of af and no cramps or anything.

If u can wait then wait until Sunday then do it. But I don't know if I could lol

Louise392 · 18/01/2019 19:22

Evening,

@hopeful31 some people have negatives weeks after af is late then get a bfp so dont count yourself out just yet.

I was bfn again this morning I am 11dpo today, my Ovia app is saying to test tomorrow but sure its gonna be a bfn again :( wondering whether i ovulated later than i thought.

hopeful31 · 18/01/2019 16:01

Ur right... I ment to say 🙈

hopeful31 · 18/01/2019 16:00

Ur eighth. I should be seeing at least a faint bfp. So I've kind of lost hope at this stage. Must be just a late af

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Lammoshay · 18/01/2019 13:27

@hopeful
I would test both morning and afternoon as if your pregs your hcg levels should be on the up x

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hopeful31 · 18/01/2019 07:42

I've also been testing first thing in the morning. Should I wait until second pee? Or afternoon

hopeful31 · 18/01/2019 07:32

Yes thats my cycle. It can vary from 30-34. I did a fr on the day I was due and a cb yesterday and today. Again bfn.
Thanks for ur comment xx
I'll just have to wait it out and hope for the best .

Hope ur enjoying the beautiful castle in wales x

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Lammoshay · 17/01/2019 23:26

@hopeful
Ah ok so a day late an 20dpo- are you around a 33/34 day cycle?
From everything you have said it’s all pointing to a positive but you possibly should be showing a light + at 20dpo based on if the above is correct, however I’ve also known people get there bfp a few days after missed period so fingers crossed for you.
Have you taken a FR or CB? X

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Lammoshay · 17/01/2019 23:07

Welcome @sleepingstandingup
Xx

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hopeful31 · 17/01/2019 23:06

@Lammoshay currently 20dpo x

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Lammoshay · 17/01/2019 23:06

And yes what you have described Hopeful about CM is another positive x

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Lammoshay · 17/01/2019 23:04

Hopeful- How many dpo are you now? X

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