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Need some TTC buddies

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Lammoshay · 06/01/2019 16:38

Hi lovelies
Started actively trying this month so thought it would be nice if anyone wanted a journey buddy.
I’m 35, DH is 42.
Had 2 pregnancies in past (2002,2011) ending in MC
Married now for 9years so yeah looking to start a lil family.
Currently 2dpo and wait is already horrendous and symptom spotting is in place 😂
So tell me all about you and your journey 💋

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Lammoshay · 23/01/2019 23:58

Hi gals
Just checking in- due to start again tomorrow and feeling really nervous this month and I don’t know why?
Thinking if I can do it or not but in waves as in one minute I’m like yes yes yes and then I’m scared the next min- prob normal and I should be enjoying the planning :(

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Louise392 · 23/01/2019 22:35

Had mainly brown blood all day, stringy and very little red blood, sorry if tmi.
This is not usual for me at all as i usually have brown to start then the rest of the day for 4 days is heavy and red, dunno what is going on, there is not much of it either.

hopeful31 · 23/01/2019 16:49

Looks like we r all in the same boat this month. Maybe next month we can all get bfps together.

Louise392 · 23/01/2019 12:28

af come this morning .... :'(
stomach is hurting

Feel like giving up, i have 3 other children and they were all easy to conceive why is this one so hard?

hopeful31 · 23/01/2019 07:04

It will be our month. I can feel it lol. How many months now have u been ttc @Lammoshay ?? Xx

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Lammoshay · 23/01/2019 00:10

@hopful you and me both hunni- I’m gonna temp this month and also opk so fingers crossed for us both x

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hopeful31 · 22/01/2019 19:39

In just happy I know now. And I can start fresh next month . I've ordered some pressed lube and bbt thermometer. ☺️ I'm currently having a take away and a glass of wine 😆

@Louise392@Viennawaits4you Fingers crossed for u both 😘

Louise392 · 22/01/2019 17:01

Hi @Viennawaits4u tested this morning BFN! had some brown stuff when i wiped about an hour ago, may be sign of af on her way, hope not, not had any spotting or anything yet so far till now, 2 days late.

I will wait for the outcome of this brown till i test again

Viennawaits4you · 22/01/2019 16:01

@hopeful31 sorry to hear that Flowers. Hope next month works out better.

@Louise392 I’m 5 days late now, still no sign of af. Tested yesterday and got bfn, going to try and wait a few days before testing again. Have you tested again?

Louise392 · 21/01/2019 23:48

Sorry @hopeful31 least the waiting Is over now

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Lammoshay · 21/01/2019 23:36

Awe sorry to hear that hopeful :( new month though soon ❤️

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hopeful31 · 21/01/2019 23:09

I'm out 😭😭😭😭

Louise392 · 21/01/2019 21:58

@hopeful31 sounds like a good sign, I've just been reading some people having spotting before a bfp so fingers crossed.

@Viennawaits4u I am only a day late so far and no sign of anything, keep getting cramps like af is going to start but then nothing arrives.
When did you last test?

Viennawaits4you · 21/01/2019 21:27

@hopeful31 I’m 5 days overdue. Don’t know how long I can wait to test again. I know I should wait a few days.
I had a good cry earlier, finding it really hard this month.

hopeful31 · 21/01/2019 20:19

Had some spotting today. Only once. Mixed in with white cm. ( sorry about tmi) any ideas

hopeful31 · 21/01/2019 18:39

@Louise392 good luck. Wish u all the best. Let us know how it goes xx

Louise392 · 21/01/2019 16:50

@hopeful31 I have been out and bought some 2 clear and simple 99p cheapies and a 2 pack of clear blue non digi just to test every morning and see what happens.

hugs to all

hopeful31 · 21/01/2019 16:27

@Louise392 so r u going to wait and do another test tomorrow?? I really hope it's an early positive for u!

@Lammoshay thanks . I think I've lost hope this month and just wish af would come

@Viennawaits4you I'm the same as u. How late r u? It's so hard. I got my bfn this morning then fought with my dh. 🙈 then cried

Viennawaits4you · 21/01/2019 16:18

Another bfn Sad just want af to come now so I can get back on track with trying next month

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Lammoshay · 21/01/2019 15:19

Hugs ladies xxx

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Louise392 · 21/01/2019 14:21

Hi @hopeful31 I am gutted there was defo something there, hoping its just still too early for it to show on other tests.

I know how you feel, last night i was so excited i cryed getting that line and now feel deflated again and feel like crying with sadness, dont know why our bodies do this to us :'(

hopeful31 · 21/01/2019 12:40

Sorry I'm not sure I can see a line. Hopefully it shows up on ur test later. I'm now 5 days late. Bfn this morning. I feel like my body is playing a horrible cruel trick on me. Had a good cry this morning.
Hoping she shows so I can get on with it

Louise392 · 21/01/2019 07:02

Bfn on frer this morning :( going to buy some others later and see what they say.

Louise392 · 20/01/2019 22:31

@Lammoshay thanks I will test in the morning with my frer :)

My fertile week was 2nd til 7th and I think I ov on 7th as I stopped having ewcm, was dryer so I classed today as 13dpo.

Oh that's great :) love doing weddings but standing at wedding fairs all day can be knackering.

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Lammoshay · 20/01/2019 22:16

P.s- Fab job Louise- I’m a bridal hair and makeup artist full time :)

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