Hi all, I'm a long time lurker but never posted but I just need some outside advice.
My best friend is getting married Aug next year in Ireland and I have just gotten married in November - she was my bridesmaid and I am hers. Before my wedding, She asked me to wait to TTC until later as she didn't want me to be unable to fly to her wedding (not that she had a problem with me being pregnant in general). I didn't know what to say and at the time it wasn't on my mind but in the last few months I would really like to start trying and I'm worried that if I was to fall quickly then I would be 8 months and unable to fly and I would have ruined my friendship with her.
The reasons I don't want to hold off are I've been on the pill and I know it can take a few months to get back to normal and ovulate at all but also (and mainly) because I had long term undiagnosed chlamydia (2 years) and I am unsure if I can even have more children and don't really want to waste more time.
I'm torn between what I feel is right for my family (I already have a 7 year old) and doing what's right for my friend, I'd be gutted if I waited and it turned out there was a problem and we could have started earlier so we could have tests etc done but also I know there is a small chance of falling pregnant immediately!
I just genuinely need some outside opinions - I've only spoken to my mum and she says it's unfair for my friend to ask me to wait but I know she would also love more grandchildren so maybe she is biased!
Thanks in advance