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Another "is this a line"

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tryingnottrying · 16/12/2018 13:55

Af due today, no sign so far... feel like I can see something! What are your thoughts?

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HopeHopity · 19/12/2018 18:45

@tryingnottrying damn AF arrived an hour after I wasted my money!
Next month I will force myself to wait until CD29!!!!
Sorry for you too 😫

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tryingnottrying · 19/12/2018 17:57

I knew it anyway but you still get your hood up slightly... after a crappy day at work it was the last thing I needed😫😔 but oh well onto the next cycle ... ahhh it's so hard to resist the temptation to buy isn't it! I very nearly went out and got one this morning but I'm so glad I didn't after AF's arrival ...you still never know though people get there late BFP's ... are you having PMS?

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HopeHopity · 19/12/2018 12:44

Staring at the negative test
Ever so sad and money wasted 😔

HopeHopity · 19/12/2018 12:43

Bah 😔
Wasted £10.50 on FRER test which was negative at CD28
Last time I had a clear positive at this date 😫
Now to cry it all out and wait for AF
I hate the disappointment

HopeHopity · 19/12/2018 11:14

Ffs sorry @tryingnottrying 😫😫😫😫

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tryingnottrying · 19/12/2018 11:12

Nope! AF just well and truly arrived😫...

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HopeHopity · 19/12/2018 11:06

Oh dear
AF due today and I have sore boobs but I also feel it is imminent
@tryingnottrying I had brown spotting for 3 days with my first pregnancy
The nerves

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tryingnottrying · 19/12/2018 09:56

Brown discharge today (sorry if tmi) .... I think she is on her way. Period cramps too!

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tryingnottrying · 19/12/2018 07:55

Ahhh! We'll keep me updated anyway, you never know. Still no AF for me! I still haven't bought an FRER yet because I just feel like I should wait a few more days, AF could show at any time as it's normal for a period to be late. If still no AF by Thursday then I'll buy a test for Friday ... but I feel like she'll arrive. I just don't want to waste my money to get disappointed😔

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HopeHopity · 19/12/2018 06:11

AF due today and run put of tests which is good because I am sure I would waste my mkney

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tryingnottrying · 18/12/2018 11:22

Thank you @Sunshinegirl82 ... I know I don't really trust the cheapies but it was all I had!
Haven't had time to buy digital or FRER yet, still no AF but I do feel as though she's on her way, not had any cramping today but other symptoms I normally get before my period are present😞 I tried a cheapie again this morning and BFN, if I was I would expect to see something - it's probably my body playing tricks on me to be honest ...

Ahhh @HopeHopity ... thank you anyway but until she arrives your not out... you never know. We'll see

Don't actually know how I'll cope waiting a whole month again! 😣just wanted it to happen so badly

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HopeHopity · 18/12/2018 08:16

Negative this morning 😫
And I feel AF is imminent
I hope better luck for you!!!

Sunshinegirl82 · 17/12/2018 22:28

I wouldn't trust the cheapies. I did one on the day AF was due (expecting a negative as was first month trying for DC2 and had taken nearly a year to get pregnant with DS) and it was pretty much negative except for the tiniest, faintest, had to hold it in the light at a funny angle something on the test.

I assumed negative but it niggled me all day. In the end I did a clear blue digital and came up pregnant 1-2, now 19 weeks! Took a good 3/4 days before I was getting a decent line on the cheapies even though FRER's etc were clear positives.

If no AF tomorrow I would get a Frer or a digital. Good luck!

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tryingnottrying · 17/12/2018 21:25

If I were pregnant something would've showed on that test this morning, surley!

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tryingnottrying · 17/12/2018 21:24

Well good luck! And thank you @Tobebythesea ... I think I'm out for this month though ... have a feeling AF on the way😞

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Tobebythesea · 17/12/2018 20:29

I have everything crossed for you both.

HopeHopity · 17/12/2018 20:18

Oh I hope it happens to you too@tryingnottrying
Yes, I have a DC who was a bit if a miracle and hoping for another miracle. Trying for a year but I count my blessing that I have one so trying not to be too sad if it doesn't
💙

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tryingnottrying · 17/12/2018 20:09

You never know! Until AF shows, anything can happen, people have there BFP's a few days after there period was due... your not out yet! Every pregnancy's different too and the symptoms are different...

So this is number 2 your trying for? This is my first! Never fell pregnant before and to be honest, thought it would happen quicker for me, I'm on cycle number 4 now so I just want it to happen for me this month😣. We aren't planning it properly, I've taken LH tests on previous cycles just to track my ovulation day etc but this month I haven't done any tests and just kind of DTD every few days so we'll just have to wait and see... I came off this pill in September and have heard it can take around 4-6 months for things to get back to normal, I had very regular periods before so all this business of guessing when AF will arrive is painful! Fingers crossed for us both ... 🤞🏽🙏🏽

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HopeHopity · 17/12/2018 19:18

@tryingnottrying I was pregnant before and my boobs were very sore on the day AF was due. I feel nothing now so I guess I know AF is imminent damn it 😫

HopeHopity · 17/12/2018 19:17

@tryingnottrying I would be 🤔🤔🤔 let me think. I would be 12DPO on CD 28
I tested today like a fool, at 10DPO and nothing.
I bet period coming 😫

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tryingnottrying · 17/12/2018 19:14

@HopeHopity how many dpo will you be? People have had the BFP's as early as 9dpo! I'm rubbish at waiting too, it's so hard, you just want to know either way, the waiting sucks! But your not out until AF appears and she hasn't yet but reading what @Tobebythesea has said, you can have period cramps and still get your BFP, that's kept me going a-bit as I felt as though AF was on her way today but the cramps have completely gone now! Although I'm not that hopeful as if it was a BFP I would've expected it to show on a test by now... good luck to you!

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HopeHopity · 17/12/2018 17:05

@tryingnottrying tomorrow will be another day
I should really wait until wednesday (28CD) to test but I suck at waiting
I hope you get a BFP tomorrow
I don't want AF to show up tomorrow but I can feel things down there 😫

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tryingnottrying · 17/12/2018 15:57

The cramps I have are just coming and going but do feel like light dull cramps (like a period) we'll see, I will let you know tomorrow Smile

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Tobebythesea · 17/12/2018 15:20

Yes. It felt exactly like my period was due. Good luck!

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tryingnottrying · 17/12/2018 15:06

@Tobebythesea really? That does give me hope, yes I'm going to buy one after work this evening! I'll hold out until first thing in the morning before I test! Thank you for that x

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