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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Jan Bus - new year, BFPs please

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TtcIAm · 03/12/2018 12:48

Af due tomorrow light spotting today so it will arrive early morning 😢 onto cycle 12 for me, so here's my stats.

Af brought on my provera cycle 10 after 142 days

Ttc number 2
recently diagnosed with PcOS
🤞 for actual clear ovulation this month

af due 4th January going by old cycles.

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HJWT · 03/01/2019 15:01

Just took another OPK and there isn't even a second line on it so I give up 😂

HJWT · 03/01/2019 14:51

@stormtrooperjulian had high cervix and EW/stretchy CM high sex drive etc today iv just got a headache 😂

Realitysucks · 03/01/2019 14:34

Right ladies I’m properly confused! Was convinced AF on way today! Had mild cramping last night, sore back and CM that was light brown. CM turned pink this morning so In my head I’m like yup AF on way. However now nothing 🤷‍♀️ Have never had this before or maybe I just have never paid that much attention to it. It can’t be implantation bleed at 13 poss 14 dpos. Now on cycle day 31 which has completely messed up ivf dates for Feb 😪 so frustrated everything has to be delayed by a month now. Just rung clinic and they were well far from helpful! Don’t want to go ahead with saline infusion and scratch on 23 jan if I can’t have treatment in Feb as it seems pointless. They say just wait and see 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️😪

stormtrooperjulian · 03/01/2019 14:33

@HJWT what symptoms are you having? I get ovulation pains for a couple of days before ovulation, but nothing on the day (which I think was yesterday) or afterwards. So maybe yours is coming soon?

thosethreewords · 03/01/2019 14:17

@emcrave I've just done a FRER and I'm 10 DPO too and obvs was negative. Why do we do this to ourselves!!! I'm not testing now until Tuesday!!

HJWT · 03/01/2019 14:11

CD15 and still negative OPK for me 🙄 had all the symptoms of ovulation though so really confused

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Farhana170 · 03/01/2019 13:27

@emcrave isn't 10dpo still early to test? Maybe wait till you miss period or is that easier said then done lol

emcrave · 03/01/2019 13:00

Ive just done a CB test and obviously BFN! Im just accepting now that this isn't my cycle! AF pains getting worse too! Really thought we had timed everything right but looking forward to getting into a new cycle already!

emcrave · 03/01/2019 09:03

Im almost certain AF is on her way! Dull cramps ect!

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Realitysucks · 03/01/2019 07:53

I’m out guys, AF was due end December and 6 days late but started today. Late ovulation on day 18 of cycle so a long one this month 🤦‍♀️

thosethreewords · 03/01/2019 07:25

@GemmaJen I'd not seen that link before but that is so helpful. Motivation for me to hold off as much as possible! So @TtcIAm don't despair - test again in a few days.

@Frillyfarmer I've got some FRERs and some CB digital so I'm going to take those from Saturday. If it's negative I'll wait til Tuesday and then Saturday again!

GemmaJen · 03/01/2019 07:00

@TtcIAm don't count yourself out just yet, at 9dpo even if pregnant you'd be more likely to have a false negative than a positive. www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/dpo-chart.php?dpo=9

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TtcIAm · 03/01/2019 06:32

bfn today cd9 :( think i will be onto the next bus shortly

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LaBelleSausage · 02/01/2019 21:51

I’m not actually sure as I’ve only had one period so far in mid December after having DS in November 2017, but I felt ovulation a few days ago so we’ll see. Expecting the next period to be 15th January if it’s like they were before

Frillyfarmer · 02/01/2019 21:15

Have your cycles gone back to normal LaBelleSausage ? I’m BF my 15 month during the night and my cycles have shortened to between 24-26 days, but since DS the ovulation pain is unreal!

LaBelleSausage · 02/01/2019 21:04

Oh god, it’s insane what hormonal contraceptives do! I’m still exclusively breastfeeding DS at 13 months but the difference in my sex drive is unbelievable now he’s only feeding three times a day and it’s like when I came off the pill the first time around.
DH is definitely going to have to get the snip because I’m not going back on hormones!

HJWT · 02/01/2019 20:32

@LaBelleSausage iv just come of the implant in dec so I'm more bothered about seeing if I ovulate because I didn't have a very heavy first period ! Me & DH have been DTD most nights anyway now I actually have a sex drive Blush haha! X

LaBelleSausage · 02/01/2019 18:36

@Frillyfarmer right now I have an expired FR and a CB that expires in Feb so I’ll probably use both of those, not trust either of them and then clear an entire shelf of boots!

When I was pregnant with DS I had a headache for 5 days CD18-23 and so we were pretty sure the line was on the way.
CD17 today so FX for a headache tomorrow!!

I feel like I’m having slightly random cramp like pains at the moment but that’s probably just from all the shagging Grin

LaBelleSausage · 02/01/2019 18:30

@HJWT I’m not sure how long you’ve been trying but the every other day shagging method seems a pretty good one. Always good to find out for sure that you do ovulate, but I know my DH isn’t the sort to perform on demand so we’ve never put too much by knowing exactly when.
I think it does help that I can usually feel it happen though x

HJWT · 02/01/2019 18:26

@LaBelleSausage ah ok i think i need to chill out abit 😂

LaBelleSausage · 02/01/2019 17:19

I’ve got a 28 day cycle and I’m pretty sure I ovulate around day 15/16. I usually get a pain on day 14.

HJWT · 02/01/2019 17:07

At this point I don't even care about getting pregnant i just want to know I ovulate 😂

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