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Jan Bus - new year, BFPs please

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TtcIAm · 03/12/2018 12:48

Af due tomorrow light spotting today so it will arrive early morning 😢 onto cycle 12 for me, so here's my stats.

Af brought on my provera cycle 10 after 142 days

Ttc number 2
recently diagnosed with PcOS
🤞 for actual clear ovulation this month

af due 4th January going by old cycles.

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Shefliesonherownwings · 04/01/2019 23:07

AF arrived now, back to trying next week.

Chanel05 · 04/01/2019 22:42

Started spotting about an hour ago Sad. AF will be here in full force tomorrow. Off to the February bus I go (if there even is one yet!). Good luck to anyone still in this month.

WatchingTheWheels85 · 04/01/2019 20:40

Pineapple core for conception and brazil nuts for implantation apparently. So you should slice the core and eat one piece a day 4 days prior to ovulation. It says that with brazil nuts you should eat 2-5 from ovulation to 10dpo. No harm trying!

GemmaJen · 04/01/2019 20:37

@thosethreewords ouch that sounds like a pretty rubbish week. I always think negative things come in threes, so your due lots of good luck now 🤞

@WatchingTheWheels85 I'd heard about grapefruit juice, but what are pineapple and Brazil nuts good for? Sorry about AF, she really is a b*tch.

WatchingTheWheels85 · 04/01/2019 20:28

Af got me today a whole 2 days early which never bloody happens! I'm putting it down to all the vitamins I've been taking. Nevermind that's another month to shift some more weight. I'm stocking up tomorrow on the grapefruit juice, pineapple and brazil nuts.

thosethreewords · 04/01/2019 19:55

Thanks guys. Felt a bit crap earlier but picked myself up a bit. Went and had my nails done and pampered myself a bit. Also coincided with a particularly difficult day at work and my mum called to say someone I know from "home" has died suddenly. Happy January!! 😂😂
I'm trying to see the positives in this. 1) the TWW is over 2) more trying 3) I definitely won't have morning sickness for my professional exam in 4 weeks 4) we are actually trying 5 months earlier than my original planned start time so I'm still in the "bonus" months 🤪 anything that gets me through!!

TrashKitten10 · 04/01/2019 19:48

@thosethreewords Sorry to hear you're spotting and hoping it's not the dreaded AF. Like others have said I don't think short cycles are a problem as long as your luteal phase is at least 9/10 days. As a positive, it means you get more tries each year and don't have too long to wait each cycle :)

emcrave · 04/01/2019 19:41

Ahhh glad your finally getting a line @HJWT! But id test in the morning and tomorrow afternoon if I was you!

HJWT · 04/01/2019 19:15

Finally getting a line on OPK !! Should i test again tonight or in the morning ??

Jan Bus - new year, BFPs please
Hangingtrousers · 04/01/2019 18:55

All fingers crossed for you @Nocoffeenotalkie

Nocoffeenotalkie · 04/01/2019 18:35

Hi
I think I joined a different Jan bus. Can I join please?
TTC#2
5DPO
Cycle number 1 million (or it feels like it. Took 3 years to conceive first. Has been 6 years no contraception but not really 'trying'. 2019 is back to OPK's and temping for a last ditch attempt!

Hangingtrousers · 04/01/2019 16:53

Welcome new passengers on the bus!

Well I'm 6 dpo but had achy womb today and feel shattered.

Fortheloveofscience · 04/01/2019 13:09

What is the issue though? Is it because the egg doesn't get a chance to implant before the wall is breaking down?

Might it also be because of the hormone balances? I’ve no idea.

After I took my implant out I had 6 months of clockwork 25 day cycles. Since I started taking pre-conception vitamins my cycle is now 27-28 days, and I find it really odd that a multivitamin has this effect, I think it’s lengthened my luteal period.

thosethreewords what vitamins are you taking? Might it be implantation bleeding if your cycle’s normally longer?

Peaky1 · 04/01/2019 12:57

I did wonder about why short cycles could be an issue. Mine was 26 days last month and typically 26-28 days. I managed to have 2 children so far so it can't be too bad!

What is the issue though? Is it because the egg doesn't get a chance to implant before the wall is breaking down?

Chanel05 · 04/01/2019 12:19

@thosethreewords I think as long as your lp is at least 10 days then it’s supposed to be fine.

thosethreewords · 04/01/2019 11:46

Pretty sure AF is about to show. Had a little bit of spotting this morning.
Totally gutted.
I'm only CD24 today and 11DPO - is having short cycles a problem?

MammaBear18 · 04/01/2019 10:24

Can I join in please! TTC #2 since September.

Currently waiting for ovulation - fw should be starting this weekend 🤞

Chanel05 · 04/01/2019 08:23

Temp still good but af due tomorrow so I’m just waiting for her to catch up with me!

WatchingTheWheels85 · 04/01/2019 08:08

@TtcIAm I'm due af sunday too. I'm wishing away the days so I can start fresh next week (have a 4 day period).

TtcIAm · 04/01/2019 07:32

10dpo and a temp drop today also bfn so definitely think af will arrive sunday as only have a 12 day lp

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HJWT · 03/01/2019 15:39

@emcrave and @Farhana170 thanks guys will keep testing & let u know!! 😄

Shefliesonherownwings · 03/01/2019 15:32

Sorry should have said that DH and I have been just seeing what happens the last couple of months but are counting January as our first official month of TTC.

Farhana170 · 03/01/2019 15:29

@HJWT sounds like you might get your surge tonight, try opk late evening. I got my first positive cd18 last Wednesday night. Then a strong positive at cd19 which was really late compared to the previous month.

Shefliesonherownwings · 03/01/2019 15:21

Hi all, may i join?

DH and I now officially trying.
TTC#1
Cycle 1
AF due - yesterday, currently 1 day late according to Flo app.

Totally psychosomatic i'm sure, but today I feel nauseous, sore boobs, twingy abdomen, and like i'm getting a cold. No doubt AF on the horizon as if I had conceived I would only be three weeks so very unlikely to have symptoms i'm guessing.

emcrave · 03/01/2019 15:17

Sorry you didn’t get your BFP either @thosethreewords! Im glad were on the same cycle though and going through it together! Who knew POAS would be so emotional but I’m just now eager to get AF out of the way and try again next month! Although I’m only 10DPO I just know AF is coming!

@HJWT this is what my OPK’s looked like:
14DPO - nothing
15DPO - very faint line
16DPO - positive
17DPO - positive
18DPO - very faint line

So for me it happened really quickly! Just keep doing that your doing! I was also testing twice a day!

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