Active discussions

Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Original poster

The July '19ers - knocked down, but never beaten

961 replies

Frazzlerock · 03/12/2018 09:41

Hey @TinselBee, @Rose68, @BettySwoll0cks

Here is the thread I promised us.

Somewhere for us to help eachother, pick one another up, cry, scream, laugh..

Some of us may be looking to try again, some may be putting things on hold. Whatever our plans, lets get through this together.

(I don't know whether conception was the right choice of topic, I can always have this moved to a more suitable topic if anyone would like me to)

I will look through our threads again and see if I can @mention anyone else who might like to join us

OP posts:
Thread gallery
99
Rachyrach83 · 04/01/2019 17:06

Send one just saying...
‘....Naked 😉.....’

ratherbeshowjumping · 04/01/2019 16:59

Well that went down like a lead balloon 😩😂😂😂 ffs.

Any news Twittle?

The July '19ers - knocked down, but never beaten
Original poster
Frazzlerock · 04/01/2019 16:56

Good luck @rather! Grin

OP posts:
ratherbeshowjumping · 04/01/2019 16:54

@rachy that's hilarious I love say yes to the dress
@Frazzle good tips, thank you!
Right, I've sent the initial friendly text, asking if he wants to go in the hot tub tonight.....

Rachyrach83 · 04/01/2019 16:11

I love sexting!!
I swear my DH thinks I'm actually sat at home on my day off playing with myself in lingerie when I'm actually watching say yes to the dress or out walking the dogs!! The result is the same tho.... I get what I want that night 😏😂

Original poster
Frazzlerock · 04/01/2019 16:03

@twittle (btw, I mean just before and during ovulation, not the whole chart)

OP posts:
Original poster
Frazzlerock · 04/01/2019 16:02

@ratherbeshowjumping tell him what you wanna do to him later. Don't just jump in with it though. Send him the odd friendly text, then tell him you're really horny... and build up to what you want to do. Then, when he walks in the door, be all sexy around him and super helpful with dinner and stuff. Give him the look too.

He'll either love it or think you've gone nuts, I don't know your DH though Grin

OP posts:
Original poster
Frazzlerock · 04/01/2019 15:57

Haha! 😂

@TwittleBee is it weird that I have noticed our charts are spookily similar? We even BD'd on the same days, as well as CM and OPK tests

I feel weird writing this 🤔

The July '19ers - knocked down, but never beaten
The July '19ers - knocked down, but never beaten
OP posts:
InDreamland · 04/01/2019 15:57

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ratherbeshowjumping · 04/01/2019 15:56

God I've never sexted anyone in my life before no wonder DH is having performance issues 😩 what do you even say? Terrified to search "how to sext my husband" on works wifi 😫🤣
I'm sat in the office genuinely opposite someone who looks like Fat Bastard from Austin Powers... not feeling particularly inspired 😂🙈

ratherbeshowjumping · 04/01/2019 15:50

😂😂😂 I just spat out peppermint tea in the office reading that

Original poster
Frazzlerock · 04/01/2019 15:45

keep sending him raunchy text messages to get him in the mood

OP posts:
Original poster
Frazzlerock · 04/01/2019 15:44

Yeah go @rather! Slip some viagra into DH's dinner

OP posts:
ratherbeshowjumping · 04/01/2019 15:35

Little update, I did another test just now and got a solid smiley... little cramps on my left side so hoping that's ovulation. Absolutely hoping and praying dh doesn't have "performance problems" again tonight Blush

ratherbeshowjumping · 04/01/2019 15:24

I agree @rachy do a test Twittle.... we are all rooting for you!! xxx

InDreamland · 04/01/2019 15:19

For blood tests I was told in November when I had one that HCG below 5 meant not pregnant.

Rachyrach83 · 04/01/2019 14:52

Everyone is being ever do polite.... for the love of god @twittle do a test!!!!! 😂

I decided to do a digital test myself just to double triple check my levels were low ebough not to register .... £14 for a twin pack.... BOTH came up with error and no reading!!!! 🤬

Got blood test tomorrow and can discuss scan if results not 0 on Tuesday.....

There can’t be retained product if it’s 0 can there??

InDreamland · 04/01/2019 14:36

@Twittlebee I had something similar in my pregnancies, strange discharge stuff some was jelly like in the very early days before I actually took a test. Use a FRER first thing in the morning and fx it's a BFP for you.

I think AF has started, little pink when I wiped after using the loo. That's all chances of being pregnant by the time first baby's due date gone - I should be 37 weeks today.

Kinsters · 04/01/2019 14:25

I agree you should do a test, if you're getting pregnancy symptoms then you should be able to test. It would be annoying to waste a frer though if you're only 5dpo, I agree with edidxb though and think you ovulated earlier.

Original poster
Frazzlerock · 04/01/2019 14:24

Ohh @Twittle what could that be? I remember you saying something about the plug in our July group. But surely not this early on!?
When does the plug develop?

OP posts:
edidxb · 04/01/2019 14:17

@twittlebee you need to use one of your Frers. If it's positive I think we Can you are pregnant. If it's negative I think at this stage it's probably negative.
I think you are pregnant! That's what I am putting my money on!!
You are right though. What an absolute head messing game this is.

TwittleBee · 04/01/2019 13:29

Ffs, I am so sorry this is all about me atm! But I just went to the loo and I had, what can only be described as, mucus plug in my pants... can't really mistake it for anything else. Big jellyfish, bit green on colour. Had this last pregnancies too... so mind fucked.

TwittleBee · 04/01/2019 13:07

Don't we usually have around 10miu in our systems anyway? So perhaps I have around 15miu as still bit residual and that's from MC but still low enough to ovulate?

Fuck knows though, you're right. complete mind fuck. Gonna have a drink tonight, fuck it

Kinsters · 04/01/2019 12:59

I guess that could be the case Twittle but whatever you do to your chart it looks like you ovulated prior to the positive test. Is it possible to ovulate with residual HCG in your system? I guess maybe it is because isn't it HCG they use in ivf to trigger ovulation? I'm not sure though.

Like I said upthread this whole thing is a mindfuck.

TwittleBee · 04/01/2019 12:23

So rather getting a BFP on my birthday I will hopefully have conceived on my birthday instead... ah well...