TTC December 2018

Hello I would like to join this thread but not sure if I am a little late. I had a MC two months ago but we would like to TTC again. I am on CD 15 I have been using Ovia fertility tracker which said I should be O now but my CB ovulation kit only arrived this morning. When I tested after work it said negative! I am now worried we have missed fertile window. We DTD on CD 9 and 13 but feel we may have missed this months opportunity.
Wishing you all a BFP this Christmas x

@agteacht, I'm sorry for your loss. Keeping my fingers crossed for your rainbow baby.

I was naughty and tested yesterday with a cheapy but had a high detection rate. BFN. Last month I was also a week late and thought it was the month. I'm just going to wait now and see if AF comes. Fed up of seeing and overly scrutinising blank test windows.

It took 14mo for me to fall pregnant with DS. I only got the faintest of positives on the day AF was due with him. My periods were incredibly irregular back then too.

Since January this year I've been regular for the first time ever, so I had hoped it would have been easier. Been using FF for 3 months now and temping / OPK's. If no luck this month, going to GP to check mine and partners fertility is okay.

Are you planning on testing before friday?

Aw fingers crossed @KernowBee

We have been TTC for a similar time. We started 14 months ago, I got pregnant this time last year (found out NYE) but miscarried a few weeks later. Then it took about 4 months before my cycles got back to a normal-ish state.

Will you test before next Friday?

@agteacht

AF is due on 21st also. Nervous. Hoping this month (making it a whole year TTC) is the month. Christmas baby dust to you.

Hi all
Sorry to hear if you are out and fingers crossed still for those still in.

I am on CD33. I have long cycles, my last four have been 35-46 days.

I think I ovulated a week ago around CD 26. So with that I guess AF is a week away and due this day next week...

The waiting, the waiting...

Hi ladies. TTC month no 2 for baby #1. Just entered my fertile window according to my app (Ovia) but no sign of LH increase on my Clear blue ovulation sticks as yet. Still DTD just to be safe! Sending baby dust to all you ladies x

Pfft mind games and it’s always worse around Xmas for some reason? Perhaps the abstaining from drinks for possibly no good reason?

14DPO, my cycle fluctuates between 21-28 day so I’m either 2 days late, or due in 5 days. After POAS and getting raging sulks, I’m not risking it again until Monday...
So this is going to be a long few days...

Hello everyone -
This is our first month TTC #1; I've been tracking my stats for the past few months, but this is first month we've tried - fingers crossed and best wishes for everyone

Thanks mamma. I'm ok, disheartened but ok x

So i posted last thursday this: flo is telling me im in my fertile period and there is a “chance to get pregnant” as of today predicting O day on Saturday. however, clue tells me not in my fertile window until saturday and O day on Monday.

But now flo said i ovulated Monday (had ewcm sunday night so dtd) and clue is saying i should ovulate today....havent dtd since sunday night and dh is too tired tonight. Im concerned we’ll miss our window now.

What do you think? Why would clue change days so drastically?
I did get ewcm on sunday, and had cramping all day sunday. Then felt sick on monday and tueaday randomly... felt fine today, no ewcm until clue sent me an alert saying “ovulation today” and now i have pains in my side. Pretty convinced its just placebo though....

Ah the mind games that ovulation gives you

Not my month either! AF arrived yesterday- 6 days early. This has never happened me before. It's so confusing and annoying and bloody frustrating. Harrumph. 🙄

Hi, can I join please? DH and I were going to wait until January but we decided to just get cracking now. A colleague at work just announced her pregnancy yesterday so now I am even more keen to try!

We are TTC#1 and I guess this will be our first month. I've been off the pill for a few months now and have the FLO app which indicates fertile period is coming up this weekend so we will give it a go. I don't want it to turn into a chore so we are still more of the attitude of see what happens. Fingers crossed all!

Mamma, for you, it's a total mind game isn't it. Why have you written it off for this month? I'm feeling low in hope too, I must admit. Aside from just not feeling any different to any other month I have had so many unavoidable social events and have drank much more than I usually would- just 1-2 glasses here and there but it feels like a significant lot for me (so old an dull I have become...!)

Hi this is our first month properly TTC. Im hoping I'll kvykare tomorrow as got a positive opk late last nighr/early this morning. We dtd thur Sunday and tonight luckily so hoping that I'm covered as don't think will get another chance. Never been in this position before. Guessing I'll try a first response test on maybe 20th!?

How's everyone getting on? New week more chances

Hi everyone
Hope you all are doing okay. I am crossing my fingers that we DTD on the right days etc but who knows. Had a positive OPK on 5th and have tested on OPKs every day since because last month I had a second surge and missed it. But negative / completely clear ever since so fingers crossed. Planning to test on 20th Dec if all goes well. This cycle is exactly a year since I got pregnant but then miscarried in January. It would be amazing to get good news. X

@whoatemytwix waiting until af is a good thing, so many if us are just impatient! try www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/when-to-take-a-pregnancy-test.php and www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/results-by-day-past-ovulation.php

I find stats help me from over thinking things

@GemmaJen thank you. I don't know when I can test- I've always waited to the day AF was due before now.... in my lengthy four months of experience in this TTC game (first DC was conceived straight away). I'm so ignorant about it all it's embarrassing.

So confused

Been temping and yesterday my temp changed my FF info to 3 DPO. Now this morning it's recalculated again and put me at 6DPO??

I wonder if I'll change again tomorrow

Hey all
I'm on my two week wait.
First month of trying but got pregnant with dd2 first time.
Eek! Exciting

@Mammy32 sorry to hear this, was it definitely AF?

@whoatemytwix welcome! Fx for implantation, you never know, when do you think you'll test?

I managed to hold out till today, sadly bfn. Though if I look closely I can almost convince myself there's something there, in the right light at the right angle! probably an indent, but a girl can dream still only 10dpo so fx something appears.

Hi all, I have come to join if that's ok. This is month 4 of trying for our second.
I tried the ovulation sticks for one month but drove myself to absolute distraction with it all, so trying to be a bit more relaxed this month.
Odd scenario tonight- DDT and noticed afterward light pink spotting. Tres weird. AF not due for another 8 days. Worrying. Would love to convince myself it's implantation bleeding (is that even possible?) but I daren't.
Anyway, sending lots of positive vibes to you all.