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TTC December 2018

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90mammasophie · 01/12/2018 21:02

This is our fourth month TTC baby number 2. Would love a bfp result just before Christmas :) of course unlikely, but here's to hoping!! My fertile few days starts tomorrow .. and then the dreaded two week wait from next week. If anyone would like to go through this month's journey, ups and downs, it would be nice to have some company. And some TTC top tips and advice for the 2ww. I felt very down after my last negative result in November. Good luck to anyone in the same boat Smile. Let's hope for an extra special Xmas surprise.

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Lee54 · 28/12/2018 16:11

I am also out! Is there a January group already going?

agteacht · 28/12/2018 15:47

@Boo2you @KernowBee
Sorry to hear you both are out too. Making my way to the January post...

Boo2you · 19/12/2018 09:54

Is there a January post already? Guess I won't know til January I'm cd 26 so guess I'm in for a long cycle this month!!

KernowBee · 19/12/2018 09:49

@agteacht I'm out also. See you on the January post? Smile x

Boo2you · 19/12/2018 09:36

Ok so almost a week late finally got a positive OPK so I guess have to DTD as much as possible and the 2ww starts here - last month my period came exactly 2 weeks after my positive OPK!

KittieKath · 19/12/2018 09:30

@tinatsarina

Totally worth BDing today! The 24hours after ovulation is prime time.

Have fun!! 😜

KittieKath · 19/12/2018 09:27

Hello!

I am new here, but have been creeping around in the shadows for many months... finding out lots of very useful information. So thought it was finally time to join the convo!

We are TTC #1 - and after months of being casual and just hoping it would happen, I am now getting veeeery serious!!

I am nearly 35 so quite old to be trying. Due on the 1st Jan, so probs gonna test on New Year’s Eve.

Good luck and baby dust to everyone! 🤗

tinatsarina · 18/12/2018 20:19

Hi can I join TTC #2 dunno what cycle but I'm cd 14 apparently ovulating today but have DTD the past 4 days and early hours of this morning so fingers crossed. Would it be worth DTD the next two days just incase or will I have missed my chance if I've ovulated today?

Lee54 · 18/12/2018 18:30

@whoatemytwix .... I started testing on the recommend cycle day for a 30 day cycle and it has not shown a smiley face. I am now on cycle day 19 so am wondering whether I ovulated early. It is very complicated isn’t it!! I would definitely DTD just incase.

whoatemytwix · 18/12/2018 17:56

@agteacht hugs!

Ladies I have questions... what's OPK?

I have tried using FR Ovulation tests once before and started again this week; Because I had a very short cycle last month and the instructions say to test according to the shortest cycle in 6 months.

After one dodgy test yesterday (I can't even tell you what I did in my state of stupor at silly AM) today I got a flashing smiley face. Which would suggest ovulation is close- but how?! It's only cycle day 8/9?

Why does this mission have to be so complicated 🧐

Lee54 · 17/12/2018 10:36

Sorry to hear this agteacht x

agteacht · 17/12/2018 09:47

Unfortunately AF has started earlier. Gutted :(
January it is so...

agteacht · 16/12/2018 12:36

It could well be @KernowBee - I'm not temping but might try that next month if it comes to that.
So what dpo did you originally think you were?

The cramping could be a good sign.

When I was pregnant before we had only just started trying so I wasn't paying enough attention to dates. When I tested I was already 7 days late (oh how times have changed and now I test far too early 😂)

Anyway over that week I had cramps the whole time, so was expecting AF. So my limited experience is that cramps are a positive sign, however also clearly easily confused with AF itself!

KernowBee · 16/12/2018 11:58

@agteacht I've had light cramping randomly on and off the past few days. Mostly in my left but some in the right. If I'm 11DPO that would explain why my prior test was a BFN. I'm going to wait until Tuesday which is when the second app predicts AF and test with FMU. Hoping my temp might go back up tomorrow morning and it's a implantation dip Grin wishful thinking? When are you testing?

agteacht · 16/12/2018 11:50

Hey @KernowBee you got me interested so I downloaded Glow! I've been using Ovia. Glow looks more accurate though - Ovia has been saying AF is due tomorrow but it can't be if you believe my OPKs. Glow however said that I ovulated on 7th and AF due on 21st which is what I've been reckoning. We will see which is right!!

I have light cramping this morning though... when are you planning to test?

KernowBee · 16/12/2018 10:59

Morning @agteacht

I downloaded another app (glow) put all my info in the same as FF and Flo and I have 3 different predicted AF dates which is fun! Confused today, Tuesday and Friday still?!!

I woke up around 6am this morning and thought I'd temp, was at 36.94. Went back to sleep and woke up at 8am and temped as usual and it was down to 36.62. Logged that one as its my usual temping time. Its updated my cycle and changed my O day, so I'm back at 11DPO according to FF. It's also caused a big drop in my Temps. Sore breasts on the sides, so I'm assuming AF is on the way.

Trying to hold out as it isn't over until she shows, but feeling the pain of that making it a whole year TTC creeping in.

Keeping everything crossed for you. Keep us updated! Grin

agteacht · 16/12/2018 10:26

Morning all

I took a test this morning and a very clear negative. Today I'm 9DPO. AF due around next Friday. Now a bit annoyed at myself for testing early 😬😂😬

whoatemytwix · 16/12/2018 08:51

@holly866 I think it was definitely AF- it was too heavy and lasted too long to be implantation. I'm trying not to freak out about the sudden change in cycle length.
@Frillyfarmer sorry it's not your month either.
We are staying with family for a long period over Christmas- sleeping arrangements are such that this mission will pretty much be on hold unless I ovulate this week. Sad

agteacht · 15/12/2018 22:13

Sorry to hear this @Frillyfarmer
Keep going x

Frillyfarmer · 15/12/2018 22:11

I’m out. I’d quietly been quite sure I was pregnant so I was quite upset when AF arrived yesterday.

Hey, ovulation due Xmas day - so that’s something to go for!

Baby dust and fingers crossed for you all still in. X

holly866 · 15/12/2018 00:11

@whoatemytwix - it could be implantation bleeding as oppposed to AF?

Lee54 · 14/12/2018 22:09

@90mammasophie so sorry to hear this. Also sending a thank you for setting up this thread and lots of luck for a BFP in 2019

@agteacht I will continue to test over the next few days, thank you.

agteacht · 14/12/2018 22:03

Aw @90mammasophie so sorry to hear this. Thank you for starting this thread. Wishing you a New Year BFP ❤️

@Lee54 welcome, if I were you i would keep testing on OPKs for a few days yet as easy to miss the surge.

agteacht · 14/12/2018 22:00

Thank you @KernowBee Thanks

Oh it's hard not to test though isn't it!!

I am going away on Friday until Christmas Eve so definitely will test before then as otherwise won't see my husband until the 24th. But ideally if I could hold out until Thursday... unlikely though 😂
I took an OPK today because I'm paranoid about ovulating late even though I'm sure i ovulated already. A couple of cycles though I seemed to have a second surge. Anyway the OPK was completely clear so that kind of says to me that there's no point in taking a HPT just yet (not sure if my logic follows).

I am also planning on going to the docs in January if nothing this month. The positive thing about a MC though is knowing it's possible to get pregnant. I'm 35 and it would be my first so the clock is definitely ticking so keen not to wait much longer. Unfortunately post MC we wasted about half a year because my body was messed up so that's a real shame.

Onwards and upwards though and praying for us both to have good news ❤️

90mammasophie · 14/12/2018 22:00

I knew it was coming but a BFN test this morning. AF due on 18th/19th

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