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TTC after pregnancy loss - thread 27 - BFPs are coming!

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Yukka · 28/11/2018 19:31

New Thread as we're at 988 messages on thread 26. we'll do a quick roll call:
Age 39
TTC x1
MC x 3 = Sept + Dec 2017 + May 2018
Currently pregnant again 5w4ds
Diagnosed with APS/Hughes Syndrome. On Asprin since October and start Heparin tomorrow. First scan Monday.

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hayleyfx · 28/11/2018 21:13

Hi ladies, will join the roll call.

Age: 25
TTC #1
MMC at 12 weeks December 2017
2 chemical pregnancies (March and Sep 2017)
TFMR in August 2018 lost my son Charlie at 14 weeks

I’m now pregnant again. 6 weeks tomorrow, incredibly nervous. First scan in about 1 week and I’m terrified for it! Taking it one day at a time.

@Yukka glad to hear all is going well so far! I’ve got everything crossed it continues for both of us. I’m so anxious this time around, it’s crazy. Hope you’re staying a little more sane than I am 🙈

@Lilimum5 I’m sorry you had to go through that but I’m glad it’s all over now for you. Hope you can start to move on and feel better soon xx

@KnitKitty that’s great! Glad it’s so soon. Good luck, let us know how you get on Smile

Russkispy · 28/11/2018 21:11

Thank you for a new thread.
I'm 42 and TTC#2 since January this year.
IUI #1 in 2016 = DD is almost 18 months
IUI #2 May 2018 # BFP but ended in a missed MC at 6 weeks
IUI#3 October - BFN
IUI #4 November - BFN
Started IVF/ICSI last week. all treatments are done abroad (back home)
Baby dust to us all Smile

KnitKitty · 28/11/2018 21:05

Hi all,

Welcome to the newbies. Sorry you find yourselves here but it's a really supportive, lovely bunch and have made my life easier since I joined in April.

I'm 31 in 2 weeks.
TTC for a year
TTC #1
MMC in March. Had ERPC at 11 weeks, Little Pea was measuring 6 weeks. Never saw heartbeat.
3 other losses since that in June, September and October and another possible one which I never tested for but am 90% sure was a MC.
Currently taking a break from TTC while waiting for RMC referral...

Got the news today that I've got a cancellation appointment on MONDAY!!!!!!!!!!! Thought I'd be waiting months longer so really pleased, but apprehensive too.

And I have a complicated gynae history including endometriosis and uterus didelphys, so bracing myself for the news that I can't have babies naturally and keeping my options open for other routes to parenthood.

Sending hugs to everyone.

Lilimum5 · 28/11/2018 20:45

Hello all well I've been here for ever

I'm 37 and on mc 5, most recently 31st October but had some problems with this mc so still not had af yet.

Love and support to you all xx

Justincase87 · 28/11/2018 20:41

I'm 31
TTC #1
MMC at 12 weeks, baby had died at 8+4 after seeing a heartbeat at 5+4 and 6+3

Several months of absolute hell trying to decide when to start TTC again, started using ovusense and concieved second month of trying,

Currently 6 or 7 weeks pregnant, had a scan last week and egg sac and yolk were present so counting down the days to next Friday when viability will hopefully be confirmed! Managed to brave booking my first midwife appointment, and now awaiting a date for my 12 week scan too.

I have PCOS but seem to be able to concieve, I am very aware that PCOS has a huge link to MC though so terrified but I'm trying to stay optimistic.

MeghanV07 · 28/11/2018 20:26

Hi all

I need to get better at posting & keeping up! I'm useless atm!

28
Ttc No.2
Miscarriage in September. Think it was blighted ovum @ 7weeks

AF due Friday have had some pink/red spotting yesterday and red today but nothing more than a couple of wipes on the tp

Fingers crossed for us all ❤️

Babycakes1989 · 28/11/2018 20:19

Hi wonderful strong powerful ladies 🥰

29. TTC baby no 1. Mmc in July. 12 week scan, no heartbeat from 9 weeks. No symptoms, biggest shock ever. So sad about it still. I think about it every day. Cycle no 3 Your never alone ❤️❤️❤️

OctoberGirl91 · 28/11/2018 20:17

Hello All,

I am new to this thread although did watch your older one.

Age: 27
TTC: #3
MC at 8 weeks 30th September and ERPC 4th October 2018
First Cycle after AF after ERPC

MC really hit me hard because I was naive too it, I have 2 DD who I am very lucky for but just feel incomplete and really want a #3.

Had my first AF after MC on 9th Nov, this cycle seems to be I shall long and frustrating I was using CB dual hormone ovulation kits and cheap OPKs but ran out of sticks for CB currently on CD19 and still not Peak or Positive OPK! Keep getting nearly positive then stark negatives.

Really would like to be pregnant before new year to fill the void, but all I want is a healthy sticky baby!

Good luck everyone xx

Beaglemum93 · 28/11/2018 20:15

Hey everyone!

Age: 25
TTC #1
Currently still waiting for bfn 5 weeks post D&C for MMC in October (baby died at 12+2)

I'm really hoping that because I've had AF I'll still be able to ovulate this cycle even though I still have low levels of HCG...

Really hope that this thread brings us all some good luck!

Tiniestsky · 28/11/2018 20:10

Hey ladies

Age-36
Miscarriage 2 weeks ago at 6 weeks, finally confirmed today
Was first pregnancy
Waiting for cycle to straighten out and will be jumping back on the horse

MakeLemonade · 28/11/2018 20:04

Hello!

Age: 31
TTC #3 in the New Year
TFMR in October 2018, severe spina bifida and hydrocephalus

Currently on high dose folic acid, inositol and iron tablets.

Lambaman81 · 28/11/2018 20:00

Hello All,

New to mumsnet.

I'm 37, almost 38. I came off birth control just before my 37th Birthday, had been on the pill for a while (some 20 years) and I think it took 5-6 months for my body to settle in a cycle.

Conceived in August. At the 12 week dating scan found that the baby had stopped growing at 10+1. Had surgery to help me along with the miscarriage, as my body was still showing all pregnancy symptoms. It's been almost three weeks since the operation and am looking for others with shared experiences, and discovered this thread. I hope you don't mind me joining you all.

We are hoping to ttc ASAP.

It's been a horrid experience, one which is all too common, yet not really spoken about publicly. Over the last three weeks, these threads have been a source of comfort and much required source of support for me.

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