Eeech! It's so hard to keep up with this thread!
@hayleyfx I'm so sorry chicken. This is the worst. I think you're right not to try for a bit (join the club!) Focus on Christmas and heal for a while. Big hugs xxx
@Holly5633 I've also had a few losses this year. Currently not trying and it has been surprisingly restful. I was dreading it and wasn't very careful the first month of not trying and think I had another loss (though I didn't bother testing). I've got my first RMC appointment tomorrow so will let you know how that goes.
MeghanV07 Stay strong. xxx
@TinselBee There is definitely no need to wait 6 months to try again. I saw a doctor after my surgical managed miscarriage who said I could try again straight away; even before my first normal period, if I wanted to. Not sure what drinking lots of milk would help with. 
As far as I'm aware adult humans don't really have a nutritional need for milk.
As for the surgical management. I had it and would opt for it again if needs be; it was a lot better than going through medical management which didn't actually work for me twice.
They gave me some tablets to soften the cervix before the procedure which I had some side effects from, but that was short lived (felt very sick but was given an anti-sickness injection) and had a bit of diarrhea (sorry, TMI). But that wasn't as bad as what I'd experienced with the medical management and I think my tummy is just very sensitive to these medications.
I woke up from the surgery with period pains (but nothing worse than that) and had heavy bleeding for about an hour but after that it was like a normal period, and I felt well enough to go home about 4 hours after (it would have actually been quicker than that but they waited for my blood pressure to rise as it was very low). Felt a bit groggy from the anaesthetic for a day or two but was up and about very quickly.
My advice is wear your comfiest clothes, bring lots of layers and big cosy socks and bring a few distractions with you (books, magazines, knitting, puzzles/games) in case you have to do any waiting around. Would also advise you bring a second pair of knickers and bottoms as I bled through mine.
@Justincase87 How are you hun? Sending you hugs. Stay strong.
@InDreamland Welcome back from your holiday. I hope you're feeling well rested. I'm not dreading Christmas but I have had a couple of wobbles and I just can't get excited about it this year, so totally understand.
@Yukka Thanks for sharing your experiences with acupuncture. I started it about a month and a half ago. I'm hoping mine is miraculous as yours! How is the pregnancy going atm?
@Lilimum5 My HCG took over 4 weeks to go back to normal after surgical management under ultrasounds. I had no retrained products, it just took a while for it to go down. I also had spotting for about 3 weeks after too. I really hope everything gets back to normal for you soon. Are you still bleeding? Healing hugs xxx
@Boboelephant I can sympathise, I'm finding the thread hard to keep up with now that I'm waiting for RMC referral and officially not trying. I really hope 2019 is a better year for you. IVF isn't an easy ride, but I know you're strong enough to hack it and I'm really hopeful for you that it will be successful. I'll keep all my fingers and toes crossed.
@SerenaOverjoyed Congratulations on seeing a heart beat! I hope everything continues to go well. As others have said, measurements are unreliable at this very early stage. Stay strong in there little bean! xxx
@TinyPaws I'm thinking of you and sending as much baby dust as I can find your way. Really hope it's successful. Are you managing to stay away from the testing?
Sorry if there's anyone I've missed.
Thank you for the well wishes for my appointment tomorrow. I'll let you guys know how it goes after.
I'm bricking it a little bit, worrying about if they're dismissive or what have you, but trying to stay strong and will try to go in there assertive and coherent!
Sending hugs to those who need them.