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Can I have a hand hold please?...AF 2 days ‘late’

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WhatelsecouldIbecalled · 18/11/2018 19:04

I’ve been ttc 2.5 years. We have confirmed MFI. In the process of applying for IVF. Have sacked off opks and temping and trying just to enjoy sex before IVF starts but with a focus around the essential week as it were. According to FF AF is 2 days ‘late’ now I could have ovulated late causing a lengthy cycle. If I ovulated around the same time as I do normally I would be around 14dpo ish. Normally I would be spotting by now with first day of AF on CD29. Its CD31 with no spotting and white CM. I keep getting a crampy type feeling like AF will come but it hasn’t yet. And my boobs hurt.

I need a hand hold not to get my hopes up or excited. I don’t want to test and get my hopes up in case it is just a case of late ovulation until I am officially late like CD36 or something. My DH is working away for a while so I’m in this on my own as I don’t want to get his hopes up either.

Please hold my hand??!

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Sexnotgender · 19/11/2018 09:30

Are you planning to pee on a stick today?

Sexnotgender · 19/11/2018 09:29

Still holding your hand.

Hope it’s your time x

RudolphsJinglingBalls · 19/11/2018 09:27

Fingers crossed for you !

Icklepup · 19/11/2018 09:25

Hope it's your time

WhatelsecouldIbecalled · 19/11/2018 09:21

So update: now 3 days ‘late’ and still no spotting.

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nicnacnew · 18/11/2018 19:38

You would think that I would learn to control myself but I can't. My DH would go mad if he knew how many tests I do a month. In my defense just cheapie ones. Fingers crossed for you x

WhatelsecouldIbecalled · 18/11/2018 19:30

Thanks guys! @nicnacnew I gave up early testing about 6 months ago. I couldn’t cope with all the negatives and then thinking oh it’s braise I tested early etc. There is one way for me guaranteed to start AF and that’s is to pee on a stick! I felt like I might as well pee on ten pound notes early testing.

I’m so hoping it is our time but so trying to keep a level head so as I am not heart broken if it’s just a shit trick by my body

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thejollytrolleydolly · 18/11/2018 19:25

Big hand hold from over here! I really hope this is your month 🤝❤️

nicnacnew · 18/11/2018 19:25

Wow, I definitely would have tested by now, well done on holding out. We have been ttc for 3 years, and although we already have 2dd's its still rough. AF due Tuesday for me and I will probably test tomorrow hahaha x

WhatelsecouldIbecalled · 18/11/2018 19:20

Thank you

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Babycakes1989 · 18/11/2018 19:20

Everything crossed for you xx

Sexnotgender · 18/11/2018 19:19

Hand hold here Flowers

WhatelsecouldIbecalled · 18/11/2018 19:18

It’s tough isn’t it. You don’t want to get excited as to see a stark white negative test is awful.

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Sshsecretenclosed · 18/11/2018 19:16

Hand holding all the way my love. I feel you. Been ttcing for nearly two years. I hope it's your time x