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Really scared I have PCOS

30 replies

LailaDay · 04/11/2018 12:42

OK, I know I should not get too freaked out, but I cannot stop obsessing.

I'm 33, married for nine years, and have been off birth control for five years. We've had "careless" sex during those years - we didn't really want a baby yet, but it wouldn't be unwelcome, so we used condoms together with the classic coitus interruptus. No accidents and no pregnancy. I thought we were just lucky.

Now we've been TTC since August. It turns out it is actually hard.

My cycles are long but regular-ish: between 32-37 days or so. I have never skipped one. I've used Clearblue Digital OPKs and got a positive test almost immediately both times (day 15 - so very early in my cycle). When I keep testing it seems my LH levels are all over the place. My cervical mucus as well. I have bad PMS.

Reading more about PCOS I have a lot of the symptoms although in a mild form: scattered dark hairs around my nipples (about 20 or so), acne (mild, but every month, usually in the second half of my cycle), a bit of an apple shape (BMI is 22 though - all fine - no history of thyroid issues).

Supposedly you have to try for a year before seeing a GP. With my story, do you recommend getting checked out early? Any recognition from ladies with PCOS? Or am I just too nervous and making too much of small abnormalities that are actually perfectly normal?

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LailaDay · 04/11/2018 13:10

These are inspiring words. Thank you! ^^

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MrTumblesSpottyBum · 04/11/2018 13:08

I have PCOS, have been on Dianette & Metformin at various times & was told by doctors I'd struggle to conceive. They said they'd try me on Clomid when I was ready.

But - I've been pregnant 'naturally' four times and the longest it ever took me to fall pregnant was 2 cycles. So you never know! Good luck.

LailaDay · 04/11/2018 12:59

Thanks both!

@Birdie69 - we never used both methods at the same time. We either used a condom, or we pulled out.

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Birdie69 · 04/11/2018 12:54

I'm pretty sure you're panicking for no reason. If you had PCOS you'd know - your "symptoms " are very minor and really just what any normal woman would have.

You probably didn't get pregnant all that time because you were using two forms of contraception .Using condoms and pulling out is hardly what I'd call "careless ". No wonder you never got pregnant !

In reality you've been TTC for 2 months . Most women will get pregnant within about 12 months with no contraception.

physicskate · 04/11/2018 12:48

Honestly 80% of couples will conceive in a year. Even if you have raging pcos, many women go on to conceive naturally. Don't medicalise something before you have to...