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still TTC your first baby? want some glastonbury luck?

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fifilou · 18/06/2007 14:14

hi ladies from the old TTC thread, time to start a new one you think? Its gone way past 500!

Right.go on then, a little bit of magic is fun!

am off to Glasto this weds, and aparantly its good luck to run around the stone circle 3 times.

I'm doing it once for myself and some of my TTC buddies, but if you fancy a little of the glasto luck your way... pop your name here!

(its only a bit of fun!)

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fifilou · 28/06/2007 14:01

thanks treenie! BBC3? Right will do! Will force DH to watch it too.....tee-hee!

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Treenie · 28/06/2007 13:55

Fi I can't really help you with this I'm afraid as only every had a very small ammount of if it. I suggest googling and you might get pics - ewh I know, but will help.
But remember mucus is not the be all and end all. I would say for you on cd 28 do another test tomorrow and if (and we hope not!) AF does come then keep a very close eye on things next month and note it all down.
Also you have to watch a programme on BBC 3 tonight at 9pm called make me a baby - quite informative last week I found.
x

fifilou · 28/06/2007 13:50

also, can i ask a really gross question about vaginal grossness as i cnat seem to find it anywhere on here.

I know about the sticky stuff meaning ov can anyone tell me the stages of it? pls?

I know its gross. but if i cnat ask here where else can i!!!!

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fifilou · 28/06/2007 13:45

cna i just say i love this site, and i love having you lot to talk to! non of my mates know i come on here, its a secret that i love to have!

I can chat away about the stupidist things and not feel stupid. I can talk about my worries and not feel daft or annoying.

Noone knows im ttc, and i love it that way!

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Treenie · 28/06/2007 13:37

Oh Ready and Nomore I feel so sorry for you both. Haven't even been ttc for a month and I'm going off my head with worry and anticipation - must be horrendous a year down the line.
Not having an experience or wisdom to share all I can say is that you've only really explored the natural route (I think?) and there are no so many treatments to help you - IVF etc. This is by no means the end of the road. Waiting is hellish when you want something so badly, but at least your not five years down that road - I know a woman who took 17 years to fall pregnant and spent a fortune on IVF. You are nowhere near that and it's highly unlikely you ever will be.
I don't know if that helps at all but I think it's nice to know people care - even those you don't know i.e. us lot. No matter what you are going through in this ttcing game there is always a woman somewhere who can relate - and she's prob on here somewhere!
x

fifilou · 28/06/2007 13:17

nomore....good luck at the doctors my lovely, am sure it will be fine. Be strong. Read the old crappy mags there to take your mind off waiting!

ready, big hugs.

i feel all confused myself, all crampy,all sicky,so tired, maybe im just knackered form glasto. Maybe AF is on her way tomo. oh i dont know, its all a bit annoying.

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nomoremagnolia · 28/06/2007 12:57

it's kind of like hitting rock bottom though - bad (awful) when you're there, but at least it's the lowest you get and then it gets better.
CAT me if you like?
When do you get your test results? I'm going to docs at 5pm today (eek) and am feeling quite nervous about it!

Ready · 28/06/2007 12:44

Crossed with you there nomoremagnolia (((hugs))) back. It's so unlike me to be down and negative. Sigh. I'll get there. I always do.

Ready · 28/06/2007 12:43

Thanks for your message fifilou - bless you for taking the time. I know what you are saying, but I am not really stressed as such. Down and dissappointed, certainly.

Fingers crossed you fall quickly. I hope your running round the stone circle brings you luck! I thought of you when I watched some footage over the weekend!

nomoremagnolia · 28/06/2007 12:41

(((Ready)))
Feel so for you, that's how I was a few months ago (when I took a break from mn) it's the most horrible feeling.

fifilou · 28/06/2007 12:35

ready, as the hippy of wisdom fresh back from glasto, here is a hippy hug and some love. Its really crappy isnt it? Im early days, so can only sympathise my lovely. My poor friend is in your boat too, shes been trying for 18 months and is getting so down and stressed. Im sure it will happen for both of you, its easy to say dont get stressed, but its scientifically proven that stress isnt great for ttc. try some relaxation techniques, yoge, or maybe some running/walking to boost your emotions.

hope ive helped.

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Ready · 28/06/2007 12:32

Cor blimey, this thread moves far too quick for me!

Hope everyone is ok?

I know what you mean nomoremagnolia, and of course I mean no offence either.

I am really down in the dumps at the moment... never felt so pessimistic in my life. Normally I am the Positivity Princess - but the bubble has burst, tomorrow will be CD1 of Cycle 11 and I just can't see a time when I will be pregnant. It's sad.

fifilou · 28/06/2007 11:16

hello!

feel a little better today, but did something really stupid. (i know i know,go on you can tell me off) I tested! Weirdo freak am I not?

BFN of course. what a silly girl i am.

I dont know if ive even ov'd yet. what was i thinknig?

Am on cd28 today. But who knows whats going on, might have to give in to the ov tests, but im all confused.

grrrrrrrrrr.

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toomuchtimeonline · 28/06/2007 10:11

Treenie - glad you're feeling better!! Sperm can live for up to 5 days so your last few bd sessions should still be in there waiting for the egg anyway so I wouldn't worry! Also I'm sure once a day doesn't make it run out!! Good luck!

Cd10 for me today and not feeling anything yet..

Treenie · 28/06/2007 09:57

Hi Ladies
how are we all today?
I am so much happier. Had ov pains all yesterday, tingly boobs today and now lots of mucus - tmi I know! So reckon I am oving!
So pleased because I was convinced it was never going to happen! Obviously want to get preggers this month but even if it doesn't happen I'll still be happy just knowing my cycle is back on track.
Have decided opk are not for me - way to stressful and better to look for natural signs.

However, being an insesent worrier, I am now concerned that poor old dh will have run out of sperm for bding today! Have been doing it at least once a day for the past week so think he may have run out! Is that possible?! Am I mad?! er yes! How long to sperm live?

Nomore and bella - totally know what you mean about being addicted to mn - dh has told me I have to stop posting on here and do some work! And I am so not an 'internet person'. No facebook, myspace etc. But love it here!

And hello to the preggies! So lovely that you pop back in. You inspire us and hope be joining you soon!

x

nomoremagnolia · 27/06/2007 20:19

ha ha!
but you've got an excuse to sit down all evening, I haven't!
Actually today is day 2 in a row, so I'm hot on your tail! Have been known to spend best part of a whole sat afternoon on here...

BellaBear · 27/06/2007 20:15

I'll see your one evening and raise you ... four in a row!

nomoremagnolia · 27/06/2007 19:58

HELLO!!!
Good to hear from you, glad you're still lurking. All those symptoms sound positive - real proper pregnancy stuff!!
I've found myself spending a whole evening on mn lurking around active convos!

BellaBear · 27/06/2007 19:49

nomore here I am!

I am lurkmastergeneral at the moment, all over mumsnet. My typical evening goes:

  • get out of school as soon as I can. I'm not really doing my job as properly as I have once done. ahem.
  • drive home (walk to the station far too fatiging))
  • turn on laptop and television
  • consider carefully which foods I could a) eat and b) be arsed to buy or prepare

hours pass

I go bed.

All the fun! Feeling sick, tired, lazy, and the whole sense of smell think stinks (pardon the pun) - for a few days I was wondering why everyone seems to have forgotten to wash and wear deodorant before I twigged. Obviously, it is all great. really. Roll on 26th July (scan) and hopefully I'll start to feela bit better (and more positive!)

How is everyone else?? I'll pass on some good luck fertility hormones to you all!

nomoremagnolia · 27/06/2007 19:44

Hello all,
Gilly - could you have had a anovulatory (not ov-ing) cycle? Apparently they happen occasionally.
toomuch - glad you're getting some sun, can you bring us some back? Stick to OPK testing mid afternoon and see how you go for this cycle.
fi - can't believe that your docs is so crap. You have to book smear at mid cycle point, so you need to book it in advance, don't they understand that? getting on your behalf.
bella - how are you doing? Come back to see us, I miss you.
ready - same goes, where are you? Miss the old crowd (no offence to new crowd )
PE - nice to hear from you, glad all's going well for you, will you put the scan on your profile for us?
everyone else - hello

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Treenie · 27/06/2007 17:39

So Gilly you reckon I could quite easily have missed the surge?
I keep worrying that I haven't ov at all, but I reckon that's not that common really - or is it?
What signs do you get that you are ov?

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Treenie · 27/06/2007 17:07

Toomuch if you have a 28 day cycle, ov on day 14 then you are prob too early, but since you don't know I would say keep going and don't worry yet. Am on day 21 and still nothing. But I think I missed the surge. The first time I used these I did it in the morning and it worked so did the same this time and nothing.
really the best thing to do is just keep at it and that way you won't miss ov when it happens. Test more if you like though cause it is possible for it to be all over in 12 hours I read somewhere. Have a look at peeoneastick.com
So maybe pick another time of day, maybe late at night and try then too.
Hope that helps
x

toomuchtimeonline · 27/06/2007 16:56

Treenie - fingers crossed we all get pregnant at our next ovulation!!

I'm worried about opks now - when does everyone think I should test - I'm cd9 now and have tested at 3pm last 2 days..

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