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Can I get pregnant the day after ovulation?

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Lottierose1989 · 28/10/2018 21:22

I'm a mum of 4 kids under 6. Me and hubby had a little time to ourselves this morning when my MIL had the kids. So we DTD and condom split. According to my flow app I ovulated yesterday. We had decided last year after a post partum haemorrhage and 2hrs in surgery that we where finished.

So what are the chances I will get pregnant? Hubby is freaking out but doesn't agree with me taking the morning after pill

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Notacluewhatthisis · 29/10/2018 10:31

He to doesn't need to agree though. That's what's concerned people, that you have to sneak to do it. Not that he doesn't like it.

Hope the MAP works for you

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Lottierose1989 · 29/10/2018 10:27

Let's get things straight. I'm in no way, shape or form scared of my husband. He just doesn't agree with me taking the MAP. That's all.

And he's not misleading me with the waiting list being that length as I was the one who phoned to see why he hadn't received a letter and to see where he was on the waiting list

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MachoManRandySavage · 29/10/2018 10:05

I got pregnant the day after my period finished. Hope all works out ok for you

Notacluewhatthisis · 29/10/2018 10:03

Op how sure are you thatits a 2 year waiting list?

For the snip? I think he is misleading you.

I get what uni is saying. It's your body. He would rather you got pregnant and risked you health or life than take the MAP?

If you arent scared of him, why not tell him?

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Lottierose1989 · 29/10/2018 10:00

Went and got the map. Here's hoping it works. The pharmacist didn't really give much advice

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Lottierose1989 · 29/10/2018 09:58

Really unicyclethief you've swore at me. In my opinion that's not nice. And no I'm not scared of him.

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Leatherboundanddown · 29/10/2018 08:24

I don't think the MAP will work if you have already ovulated

Unicyclethief · 29/10/2018 08:24

I haven’t said anything that is not “nice”. Are you that scared of him?

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Lottierose1989 · 29/10/2018 08:19

Unicyclethief if you've nothing nice to say bugger off. And if you'd read my above comment I'm going to the chemist this morning to get it.

Jent13c it was awful when I took it when we were younger. Fingers crossed it works ok for us both

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Jent13c · 29/10/2018 07:51

I took it this weekend, I ovulated the day of the deed and the condom slipped off. I had a couple of days of feeling very flat and down emotionally but feeling much better this morning.
I asked the pharmacist specifically if there was much point in taking it as I had already ovulated and she recommended I still do. The effectiveness rate decreases the longer you wait to take it. Just need to wait for a couple weeks and see what the outcome is!

Unicyclethief · 29/10/2018 07:41

Oh ffs, it’s your body. Just get the morning after pill

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Lottierose1989 · 29/10/2018 07:35

Thanks Labradoodliedoodoo. Heading straight for the pharmacy once I drop the kids off to playgroup and Halloween camp.

Unicyclethief I use the app to keep track of me period. It's really heavy and I like to be prepared for it but can lose track of when it's due without the app because I'm a busy mum who also runs a house and a business. My husband has his views on the MAP that's why.

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MunchyMunchkin · 29/10/2018 07:32

Yes it’s 10 x more effective than the morning after pill. Failure rate is 1 in 1000.

Take the morning after pill if it’s all that you can get but be prepared that it might fail.

There will be an emergency coil service in your area via GP or family planning.

Labradoodliedoodoo · 29/10/2018 06:43

Morning after pill over the counter. Will work fine

Unicyclethief · 29/10/2018 06:38

why Are you even using an app? Unless you want to get pregnant? And why the fuck would you need to hide getting the morning after pill from anyone? Wow.

ParisNext · 29/10/2018 06:34

Here the pharmacies inside supermarkets open on a Sunday- they give the MAP you just ask to speak to the pharmacist.

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Lottierose1989 · 29/10/2018 06:31

Hogtini chemists and drs don't open here on a Sunday. And the reason I said try was because I don't think my gp does emergency coils.

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QOD · 28/10/2018 22:53

My surrogate got pregnant the day before her period was due
Therefore I guess anything is possible!!

(We’d been using ovulation prediction tests- nothing all month. Temperature spike the day before period and ping! Peculiar and dd is now 19)

Hogtini · 28/10/2018 22:50

You could have gone to a chemist/OOH Dr earlier today and you're going to 'try' and get in with Dr tomorrow...Hmm

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Lottierose1989 · 28/10/2018 22:37

We enquired last month and apparently on the nhs it's a 2year waiting list. I've no sexual health clinics anywhere near me. Will try in the morning to get a phone call with my GP and see if they can do it a copper coil. Is it really that effective?

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MissConductUS · 28/10/2018 22:13

He's been on the waiting list for a vastemony since last February.

Head explodes. It's a 40 minute outpatient procedure ffs.

MunchyMunchkin · 28/10/2018 22:11

The morning after pill is unlikely to work if you have already ovulated as it works by delaying ovulation.

Go to sexual health and get an emergency copper coil. It is ten times more effective than the MAP and works up to 5 days after ovulation.

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Lottierose1989 · 28/10/2018 22:03

I'll have to go tomorrow and get it behind his back. I'm so scared of the thought of going through that again. He's been on the waiting list for a vastemony since last February. We took the map once when we were 18 over 10yrs ago and It made me so ill. But I couldn't face another pregnancy after what happened to me last December..

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TheVanguardSix · 28/10/2018 21:44

Yes, of course you can get pregnant! So, if your DH doesn't want you to take the MAP, what next? Baby number 5, with such a traumatic medical history? I'd be on that MAP as well. That's just so dodgy to risk having another child having suffered so much after your last delivery. You must feel terrified.

florenceheadache · 28/10/2018 21:43

Consider requesting a tubal ligation and avoid future worries, once you’ve sorted the map...

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