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Anyone want to join me in limbo!!

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Rightnow1245 · 28/10/2018 14:32

Hi ladies
Getting really inpatient now because AF was due on Thursday but only 13dpo at the moment.. I have done a few tests but all BFN.. is AF coming or am I pregnant
I just want to know either way 😬
Who wants to join this limbo thread

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pinkstar01 · 02/11/2018 19:53

I'm joining you in limbo now too! AF was due today but no sign of it, no usual bloating and cramping either. I just took a FRER and it was a BFN but I definitely don't feel like myself, I'm constantly hungry and I have so much saliva. Only had that one other time when I was pregnant with my DS. Not sure what's happening!

Rightnow1245 · 02/11/2018 14:59

ContadoraExplorer congratulations 💐

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Rightnow1245 · 02/11/2018 14:59

Did an Asda own this morning and got a BFP then did a CBD and it said not pregnant! So I did a FRER after holding my wee for around 4 hours and got a BFN so the test earlier must of been wrong 😢

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waitingforbaby2 · 02/11/2018 13:30

@ContadoraExplorer congratulations so pleased for you

edinbeezer · 02/11/2018 13:26

Huge congratulations!

ContadoraExplorer · 02/11/2018 13:21

Those emojis are coming up as chocolate bars for me but we're meant to be shocked and grinning face. Random!

ContadoraExplorer · 02/11/2018 13:10

I decided I wanted a drink tonight if it was going to be AF tomorrow (DH can't have a drink tomorrow due to work and didn't want to have a bottle of wine alone) so took the FRER early... looks like there won't be any wine for me! ShockGrin Still in shock right now, literally as much use as a chocolate teapot in work now!

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you all and keep an eye on this group to hopefully see some more good news :) xx

Anyone want to join me in limbo!!
ContadoraExplorer · 02/11/2018 06:18

rightnow tomorrow. Temp up a little bit this morning and the cramps have given way to some pretty bad gas (sorry for the TMI). I am pretty regular so if no AF tomorrow, I'll test again using a FRER.

Rightnow1245 · 01/11/2018 19:56

Sidsparrow* did you test?

ContadoraExplorer when was AF due for you?

SummerMerle where are almost identical.. AF was due on the 25th and I’m also getting lots of white CM.. hopefully we are those ladies getting a late BFP!! I’m on day cycle 40 so I’m going a little crazy!

carsmith sorry to hear that I also got a bfn today! It’s so shit isn’t!! Fx for us all 🤞🏽

lemon sorry to hear about your MC 💐 good news you got a positive opk! Hopefully this is your month 😊

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Lemon1 · 01/11/2018 19:27

Yes I would love to join the Limbo!
I am currently 10dpo and AF due this weekend!
I was 11 weeks pregnant in July and heartbreakingly lost my baby due to a MMC. Have had two periods since and managed to catch ovulation on a OPK this month! Am hoping and praying this month is the month I can get my BFP again!

What symptoms does everyone have?

FX for everyone xxxx

carsmith · 01/11/2018 19:17

@summermerle glad you mentioned about CM as mine was very thin and watery for 5 days after brown mucus/discharge and now it's has gone back to thick and white. I'm so confused to what is supposed to be happening :(. Took another test today whilst in dubai, now 14 days since AF due and still BFN.

Really hoping you all get the BFP you all want xxx

SummerMerle · 01/11/2018 15:11

I will join AF due 25th Oct still nothing. Tick most early pregnancy symptoms, felt like AF was coming last weekend (PMS cramps) then nothing. My CM has increased massively (thick and white) and hugely noticeable but still reading BFN everyday. My cycles are dead on 28 days and now im now 35 CD.

Its so very odd but reading other forums its possible women do not find out until later especially if they OV later in the cycle.

ContadoraExplorer · 01/11/2018 14:36

Thanks all, it's nice to be able to share a little, makes the wait slightly less horrendous!

@newrubylane thanks especially for sharing your experience - it definitely makes me feel slightly less hopeless! AF due Saturday, according to Ovia which has been pretty accurate so far, and no spotting yet despite continued cramps. Might do another test tonight...

@cherrybomb86 I concur, it's the not knowing that's the worst. If it's AF, well I'll be a sad but will have a big glass of red and sort myself out before starting all over again next month.

@waitingforbaby2 i'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you but if its not, join me on the wine and hopefully your cycle will come good again next time :)

edinbeezer · 01/11/2018 13:34

I tested again today (seriously, someone stop me peeing on sticks!) and got another BFN. However I do feel quite spewy and dizzy and have a headache. AF due on Saturday so hoping I might still have a chance. When I got pregnant in March (ended in mmc) I didn't get a BFP until 2 days after AF was due so this gives me a little bit of hope too.

newrubylane · 01/11/2018 12:38

Feel like a weird lurker here, but @ContadoraExplorer I had period-like cramps the day I got my BFP - I only took the test so I could convince myself I could have a glass of wine to cheer myself up! Don't lose hope yet x

waitingforbaby2 · 01/11/2018 09:20

@SidSparrow this is only my first month of trying as I've only just came off the implant mid September so I hope I didn't come across as insensitive having my rant in my previous post as I understand people on here have been trying a lot longer it's just even on the implant the last year I've had a cycle length of 28/29 except in July which was 34 days and now I'm on cycle day 34 again and my heart keeps telling me to test but my logical brain tells me its probably my body adjusting without the implant in my system so I'm not gonna test anymore now I just wish I hadn't left it so long after my first child who is 9 now but it's hasn't been the right time intil now fingers crossed for your BFP soon

cherrybomb86 · 01/11/2018 08:28

I'll join in limbo! 5 days late and three BFN...my mind and heart can't take much more. Of course my Brain is playing tricks on me and I have all these symptoms...🙄
I just wish AF would arrive so we can all bloody move on!

SidSparrow · 01/11/2018 08:17

ContadoraExplorer Same! Not sure I want to waste a test.

waitingforbaby2 How long ya been waiting?

waitingforbaby2 · 01/11/2018 07:07

Sorry to here that you think AF is on the way but it's not over till it's actually here @ContadoraExplorer

I took a FRER this morning and it's definitely still a BFN so I'm pretty sure it's just a waiting game for AF to arrive now so I can start again why does our bodies do this to us

ContadoraExplorer · 01/11/2018 06:24

Ugh I've woken up to some cramps that are distinctly period like; stronger than the ones I've felt before and my temp dropped a little, although not back to my usual AF levels. Nothing confirmed yet but not feeling good about this turn of events 😔

SidSparrow · 31/10/2018 22:37

Ha! Rightnow1245

I'm thinking I've just ovulated first time since having DC, gooey signs have been there... Eeew sorry. And me and the old DP don't take percautions. We would like another. So ya know it's possible. But what's more likely is that my mind is playing tricks. Ya see... last time I fell pregnant my cold sores flared up, I started nodding off whilst meditating (I'm not all that newage honestly) and same this time, though I've not been meditating, I'm just extra tired. Logic tells me that I'm probably just a bit under the weather. Mad baby making brain says... well we all know how that mother operates!

I'll test in the morning, if BFN I'll move on.

Rightnow1245 · 31/10/2018 20:33

waitingforbaby2 yeah it was the closest appointment unless I want to have an emergency one.. I thought next week Thursday is ok because I’ll be 2 weeks late if AF doesn’t show. I’m just got my FX I’ll get a BFP by then.

SidSparrow I’m also BF my son but he’s 14 months and my AF return when he was 6 months and has been very regular since then.. I didn’t think it was possible to ovulate if you wasn’t getting a period? I know you could possibly ovulate and get a BFP but don’t think you would of been ovulating whilst EBF?? I really hope you have just ovulated for the first time since having your DC and you’ll get your BFP!! People think I’m crazy trying for another one so soon..😊

carsmith FX for you that it’s not an MC and you’ll get your BFP soon! Try and enjoy your holiday I’m very jealous 😊

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carsmith · 31/10/2018 19:12

Hi can I join pretty please??

AF due 20th Oct but nothing, tiny bit of brown mucus for a couple of hours, little bit of back cramp but nothing else. 5 BFN tests (last one was Saturday 27th oct). Popped to docs on the 25th and she said it's likely a miscarriage (had 3 previously between 4-6 years ago). Bit in limbo as in dubai at the moment trying not to think too hard about it all but my stomach is so bloated it's hard not to think about it in a bikini ha!! Anyone else still hanging on to hope? Xx

SidSparrow · 31/10/2018 15:08

I'll join in. DD1 is 7 months and is EBF so no AF and only guess work if ovulating. I have been feeling exhausted and other things which would be tmi. Did a HP mid day with no proper flow and well I think I see a very faint line but could also just be seeing things! Argh! Will test first thing tomorrow morning. I think I'm losing the plot!

waitingforbaby2 · 31/10/2018 14:29

@Rightnow1245 fingers crossed for a BFP for you but at least you will hopefully get some answers next week i guess you couldn't get a earlier appointment

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