Is anyone else in this quandary of head over heart? Dh and I would both like a third but there's so many practical reasons for us to not...
Dds are 4 and 8.
- Even if I got pregnant instantly, there would be a 5-5.5 year age gap between these two.
- Would need a bigger car
- School fees. We can afford two lots but a third would be too steep and it'd be grossly unfair for a third child to not have the same education.
- Our house is fine for a baby but we'd need to move in a few years - ££
- I had PND after dd2 and remain chronically anxious now.
- Dd1 was a car crash birth, dd2 an elcs so would require another section.