November bus

Thanks ladies. I'm in shock!

@NoParticularPattern I have bled once after sex before and always after smear/IUI/internal scans so I think I have an irritable cervix.
Bled after bd Friday. Assumed we'd set off af so thought no more with the spotting and cramps. But that's it, brown spotting every now and then, cramps a few times a day on and off. Some proper af cramps so I'm still a bit in dis-belief!

I've spent so long trying to get pregnant I feel totally lost and have no f'in idea what I'm supposed to do now 😂😂😂😂😂

Awww @Wishful30 - made up for you!! Congratulations!

Argh wishful that’s DEFINITELY a line . Congrats!! I had weird episodes of brown/pink mucus withmy daughter (and also with the MCs before that but those progressed from mucus to blood in hours). Turns out that I have a cervical ectropion (I’m not sure if you know what it is but whatever you do don’t google it unless you really enjoy photos of other peoples cervixes 😂). Anyway it’s where cells from the lining of your uterus migrate to the cervix and it makes the cervix a bit irritable and can bleed after sex or a bowel movement etc. My spotting stopped after about 11 weeks (and several very tearful scans) so just to say the pink/brown isn’t always a bad thing!!!

Congrats!!!🎊🎊 @Wishful30

Couldn't wait till the morning. Thinking it may be negative as I've drank loads and peed loads....
seriously I can't believe my eyes!!

We've had such a stressful year, with shock deaths, accidents and being told we may not be able to have children, to thinking after our holiday in Feb we are looking at IVF.
I had a gut feeling my fertility clinic were going about it all wrong.
Which is why I stopped seeing them and went for acupuncture and went all holistic with millions of supplements and heat therapy.

I can't... I'm in shock... I'm going to keep quiet and tell DH on Wednesday if I can as we will both have the afternoon off, and I have some daddy things aside in the wardrobe..

Still brown spotting with stringy bits on and off, still cramping on and off. Hopefully that's just implantation.

Omg I want to cry 😳😱😭😂

I am SO frustrated! I'm ovulating, I've had the best EWCM since mc in July and we can't bloody DTD until I get test results back from cervical biopsy 😩😩😩

@wishful30 definitely a line and hopefully it's a good sign that AF is also late. Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you for good news with the frer

Oh my gosh wishful ! I'm following the thread still and that's definitely a line! Keeping everything crossed for you!

wishful that’s definitely a line. Didn’t even need to open the photo. I’d be tempted to wait a couple of days and take a FRER, see what that says. Although if you’re late and getting a line like that then I’d take it as pregnant. The line I had on my FRER with my daughter wasn’t that bright and I was nearly a week late and had been sick for three days 😂😂 a line is a line I guess (well, unless you’re me and then a line on an IC is clearly a massive evap 🤷‍♀️)

I’m now CD39 and still no sign of AF or a baby! So I guess this is just a weird long cycle again and I imagine she will turn up at some point shortly. Or at least I hope she does! Was always going to be too good to be true that my cycles were actually going to settle so quickly with breastfeeding!

@chocolate89 thanks, there was me thinking it would be the sprinkle of magic I needed. Problem is my DH is struggling with more than every three days. Timing is the key with us 😥 plus just had my AMH results and only 4 so looks like we’re on the IVF bus as of the New year 😭😭😭

@Realitysucks I've been using it for about 6 months now. It is good, but what i would say is dont expect to have the 2 days of flashing smilies and then a peak like it says 😂 one month I got 9 flashing smiles before the peak, then the next month no flashing... and from what I have seen on the groups, thats not uncommon. So it is helpful, but you do still need regular bding to cover yourself. Xx

@taeloverxd good luck! I’m hoping for a lucky November!

@chocolate89 how long have you been using Clear Blue advanced ? I’ve just started this month as had to wait for new cycle. Mine is saying not to test until day 6 of cycle so waiting till Thursday for my first one. I have been tracking my cycle anyway and it looks like I should have my peak days around 19th-21st November. But my cycle is all out of sync and sometime I have gone 41 days between AF. 🙄 I haven’t been taking my temp so should I be doing this as well?

Hi all, got my peak positive on the clear blue advanced opk on Saturday, plus 2 very pos cheap opks. Thought I'd of yesterday but today temp is still the same... We have bd loads, every day for the last 4 days. Do I have to keep bding or do you think that's enough? Hopefully it will be today... If no temp change by tomorrow I will resume bding ( poor DH will have a heart attack)

Hey everyone.. I'd like to join.
Im 9dpo
Cycle is 26-28 days.
I felt cramps today..(Implantation?) Dont know if its all in my head but I also have back ache..
Af expected on 18/11
I dont have an urge to poas..
I'll wait til I'm late/if I'm late.
This would be my first kid.. 😍

Sorry for all the Af's but FX for everyone..!😁😁

@stormtrooperjulian
Yes. I have a FRER. I used the cheap one thinking it will be negative 🙄
I've since had loads of tea.
So I'll take that one same time tomorrow and see what happens.

DH is on early's this week, so I'll be up at 5:30am again holding it in until he leaves the house 😂

@Wishful30 there’s definitely a line there! Can you do another test? Fingers crossed for you.

I've had faint lines before, but always early, then af came anyway....
never had a line when af was late.... which was only the once and I had awful cramps for days and a bad af.
Usually pretty predictable with timings.

Hoping it's true, but I'm still not convinced!

Does sound strange Wishful30. I think I’d have to do another test!

Really keeping everything crossed for you.

I had a squinter on an IC last night, today nothing. Only 8dpo though so I’m just torturing myself.

Hi I’m joining, not sure if too late!

Age -40
CD 3
Cycle 3
TTC #2

@stroan
It said 'read after 3minutes, discard test after 15 minutes'
I literally peed, made a tea, and went back to it. So, about 5mins tops.
It's way after 15 now and it still looks the same.

I could've ovulated late, but we bd thurs night and sat am and not again for almost a week.
I thought I'd ovulated on the Sunday - cd15
So I feel if it was later we would have missed it 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

I definitely see a line @Wishful30

Did it come up in the time period? Fingers crossed it’s right! Is there any chance you have the ovulation date wrong?

Line eyes please ladies
Cd 30 of a 27/28day cycle.
Think I'm 15dpo
I've been having light brown very minimal discharge noticed when I wipe. But not every time.
Mild cramps every now and then.
I'm usually clockwork so very confused.
I was just assuming I'm having a really weird cycle.
So I took a Boots 5day early test this morning expecting a clear BFN. Or answer either way anyway.

But I got this.....

Wtf is that? 🤦🏻‍♀️ surely a bfp 2 days late would be more obvious by now?
Maybe it's a chemical that's not quite failed properly yet? 🤷🏻‍♀️😐

Still not entirely sure if I ovulated 2 days ago or not... but I really can’t be bothered to dtd. So tired. I don’t have the stamina for these long cycles!

@dragonmummy17 thanks. We are trying for number 4 so likewise not expecting much but hoping they can point us somewhere. I should have made an appointment sooner as I'm 39 but honestly I was/am a bit scared.

@loveshinealight sorry AF got you...

@EverythingNow I saw the GP this week and am getting blood tests done and DH is going to ask for some tests too. We've only been trying for 6 months. It's dc2 for us so we won't get much but they seem happy to take this first step.

I'm in the tww now... am sort of hoping that I won't need to worry about those blood tests...