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9dpo and negative test

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Marshmallow1992 · 02/10/2018 19:58

I wondered if anyone else would like to share their experience with me! I am 9dpo and took a test this morning and it was BFN. Is this way too early to test? I see lots of people getting BFP at 9dpo and wondered if there should definitely be even the faintest line? I’m so impatient and the wait is killing me. I tested using the FR 6 days earlier test so really if going by that, I should have shown positive as AF is due on Friday. I’d love to hear other people’s experiences as I feel I can’t really speak to any of my friends as they all conceived first month of trying and wouldn’t understand. We are on our third cycle of TTC and I know this isn’t long at all.
Thanks in advance xx

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Martina2311 · 03/10/2018 22:22

Hahaha don't worry @MrsMcNtobe I also feel some days like I'm just not with it. I'm seriously so distracted at work, can't focus and keep forgetting everything..
My AF is due Sunday/Monday so hopefully by then I will have an answer but will def test this Friday and then probably over the weekend again. Baby dust to us all x

LatteLover12 · 03/10/2018 22:21

My AF is due Friday or Saturday too...holding off testing again until Friday morning.

Good luck everyone!

MrsMcNtobe · 03/10/2018 22:13

@Martina2311 wait wait wait it’s tuesday AF is due for me.. can’t even keep up with myself 😂

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Marshmallow1992 · 03/10/2018 22:05

@Martina2311 AF is due on Friday for me so I’m waiting until then and if it doesn’t come then I’ll test. Have wasted so many tests this week as I’m a big impatient riot! 😂😭

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MrsMcNtobe · 03/10/2018 21:57

@Martina2311 I hope your back ache isn’t too bad! AF isn’t due til next Thursday so I might test on Sunday!

Martina2311 · 03/10/2018 21:52

Hahaha me too, any new thing I notice..google my best friend :D Think I'm becoming an expert. I also like to watch YouTube videos of all sorts. It's very interesting and amazing anyways, how our bodies work. Smile
I can't wait to go to bed, I've had this lower back ache since yesterday evening and it hasn't stopped since then. Also acne started which I get anyways before my period but hope that both is a sign of something good this month. :/
When will you be testing again ladies? I'm thinking Friday morning. Got myself a pack of First Resp. Early ...they currently have 2+1 free test at Boots.

emma88P · 03/10/2018 21:44

@Marshmallow1992 me too!!!! 🤣🤣

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Marshmallow1992 · 03/10/2018 21:42

The amount of googling I do during the 2ww is ridiculous 😂 driving myself mental! None of us are out yet, I’m hoping this thread is a the good luck thread!!

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Martina2311 · 03/10/2018 21:36

@MrsMcNtobe @emma88P nothing is lost ladies! There is a lot of mums out there who didnt get their BFP until after their AF was due. Its just these BFNs which are taking our optimism away. I feel like my body is just testing me for the last week and a half. There are some days when I feel like I have to be definitely pregnant because of some of the symptoms and then there are days when I feel like my mind is just playing up too much.

MrsMcNtobe · 03/10/2018 21:29

@emma88P totally! We’re driving ourselves crazy!

I’m just googling ‘does everyone experience implantation bleeding’ cos I’m expecting spotting and it hasn’t happened yet 😂

Martina2311 · 03/10/2018 21:27

@Fluddlestix I'm on the same timing! Sunday/Monday AF expexted. Let me know how you go girl! The wait is neverending!

emma88P · 03/10/2018 21:24

@MrsMcNtobe so sorry misses, i think we are both just ready for this cycle to be over now! Hopefully we can get through another few days before testing again! Cannot wait until Sunday to see if flo arrives, but to be honest I wonder if all the stressing is pushing my period back some months... 🙈🙈🙈

MrsMcNtobe · 03/10/2018 21:14

@emma88P just done one too! Neg aswel!

emma88P · 03/10/2018 21:05

Neg! Waiting another 2 or 3 days...

emma88P · 03/10/2018 20:59

@Marshmallow1992 gona try preseed next month too. Thanks for the advice.

Right im gona do a quick test

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Marshmallow1992 · 03/10/2018 19:38

@Chanel05 please post as soon as you test! Got my fingers and toes crossed for you. That’s so strange we are so similar isn’t it!? I think I’m in the minority too. Really not got a good feeling about this month but seriously hoping I’m proved wrong! Xx

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MrsMcNtobe · 03/10/2018 19:30

@Chanel05 I’m gonna try preseed next month if no BFP this month! My cramp is kinda all over now and not just the right side, you think it could still be implantation? I’m sure we’ll find out soon!

Chanel05 · 03/10/2018 19:27

@Marshmallow1992 it is torture! It’s just so satisfying to poas isn’t it! I might do my last frer tomorrow if my temp hasn’t dropped when I take it in the morning. I feel as though we may be on an even more similar journey as I got married in August, together 7 and a half years and started ttc in July! Must be something in the air 😂. I chose preseed too because of the reviews! I bet I’m in the minority statistic that it’s not bfp first month using Hmm. Hope you show no signs of af tomorrow before Friday!

@MrsMcNtobe fx for implantation!!

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Marshmallow1992 · 03/10/2018 18:40

@MrsMcNtobe hopefully implantation pain! I’ve had nothing this month at all. Keep hoping for something to be sore but nope! Fingers crossed for you xx

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MrsMcNtobe · 03/10/2018 18:30

Omg girls I have the worst cramp in my right side and a bit of backache - period due 11th maybe I always get this and I’m just noticing it more this month!

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Marshmallow1992 · 03/10/2018 18:26

@Chanel05 I used up all my tests! Thank goodness! I’m never buying them again in advance it’s torture 😂. I’m going to wait now and see if AF comes on Friday! If it doesn’t (fingers xd) I’ll test Saturday morning. I used pre seed too. I’m a bit worried because every story I read about pre seed is positive, like conceived the first month. I’m just a massive pessimist and think that something is wrong with me! We got married in July and started ttc straight away - been together 8 and a half years. I had never even thought about ttc and thought it was just something that happened when you wanted it too 🙈 I have never felt so drained as I have during this tww. When are you going to test again? Wishing you every bit of luck xx

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Fuddlestix · 03/10/2018 18:19

@emma88P 😂 I'm so tempted, I'm at work for the next 24hours so I can't give in Fingers and toes crossed for you xxx

Chanel05 · 03/10/2018 18:15

@Marshmallow1992
I meant dramatically! Sorry, typo. I have only stared temping this month but I have found it fascinating. I did that, smep, opks and pre seed! Just feel like we’ve covered every base!! How are you feeling symptom wise today? I saw that you tested earlier on :/ sorry for the bfn. When do you think you’ll do another? fx it happens for you.

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Marshmallow1992 · 03/10/2018 18:10

@Chanel05 I don’t temp but I think I might start. I have only been using OPK tests. I don’t really understand the whole temping thing I might read into it! I’m just praying that I’ve implanted late and AF doesn’t come on Friday! So wish I could see inside what’s happening 😢.

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Chanel05 · 03/10/2018 18:04

@Marshmallow1992 it isn’t long you’re right of course. Everyone has their own journey to contend with dont they!
I feel like I’m waiting with bated breath to see if/when af will arrived. My temp went up this morning again I’m just praying that it doesn’t drop dramitallg in the morning or it’s game over.