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9dpo and negative test

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Marshmallow1992 · 02/10/2018 19:58

I wondered if anyone else would like to share their experience with me! I am 9dpo and took a test this morning and it was BFN. Is this way too early to test? I see lots of people getting BFP at 9dpo and wondered if there should definitely be even the faintest line? I’m so impatient and the wait is killing me. I tested using the FR 6 days earlier test so really if going by that, I should have shown positive as AF is due on Friday. I’d love to hear other people’s experiences as I feel I can’t really speak to any of my friends as they all conceived first month of trying and wouldn’t understand. We are on our third cycle of TTC and I know this isn’t long at all.
Thanks in advance xx

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MrsMcNtobe · 20/10/2018 16:21

Hey girls! Was away for a few days was so good to forget about ovulation stress but here we are nearly time for OPK’s again!!

Martina2311 · 13/10/2018 13:51

*skipped cycles I meant

Martina2311 · 13/10/2018 13:50

Hi girls! Hope you are all well! :) Went to see the Star is born last night @emma88P was really good and emotional! Loved the songs and Lady Gaga surprised me with her acting, she was brilliant!
By the way Im on a CD 37 with no sign of AF still. Dont know whats going on. Starting to think that I've done this to myself by thinking of it a lot this month 😔 Does anyone have an idea when would GP check me up if it still doesnt arrive? I tired to google and someone said they would wait even 3 months/stopped cycles until they refer you!!??

JillieHunter · 11/10/2018 12:20

Oh no!! Keep focused it will happen eventually ! X

emma88P · 10/10/2018 22:00

Right i guess i get a week off thinking about preg! Gona start ovulation tests again in 10days. Will try BD everyday once im ovulating! Will chat soon ladies, hope you all get positives soon! I will keep following this chat! Xx

Martina2311 · 10/10/2018 21:20

Hey @emma88P sorry to hear that. I hope next month will be luckier for all of us. I am not officially out yet, but not counting on a BFP so late now. Are you going to use ovulation tests or meassure your temps this cycle? @MrsMcNtobe I checked the Sperm meet egg plan. I've done something similar this month. Not as properly but kind of. Did BD every other day and 2x the day before positive ovulation test.

MrsMcNtobe · 10/10/2018 20:51

Hey how is everyone? AF is being a total bitch to me this month, so heavy and sore 😭 was babysitting my 7 week old niece for a while tonight and omg I’m exhausted 😂

emma88P · 10/10/2018 17:02

Flo just arrived...😔

Martina2311 · 10/10/2018 11:50

@emma88P Great, thank you for the tip! :) glad you had a good night.
What type of tests have you been using? And are you usually regular?
Im so confused. My cycle is usually 28-32 days, today is a day 34 and no sign of AF still with a negative FRER this morning. Starting to be a bit frustrated. Dont know whats going on. 😑

emma88P · 10/10/2018 11:44

@Martina2311 thank you, its a great movie would def recommend, cried bucket loads!!

emma88P · 10/10/2018 11:43

@MrsMcNtobe aeful when flo comes like that! I still have no flo! Tested neg yesterday. Might try a more expensive test tonight

MrsMcNtobe · 09/10/2018 20:24

@Frillyfarmer got mine in boots last week! X

Martina2311 · 09/10/2018 18:18

Oh nooo, what a witch! 😑 @MrsMcNtobe Sorry to hear but I guess at least you know and you can focus on this month. I really hope this will be your lucky one! Xx
In regards to your spotting question, I think you shouldnt consider anything pink yet. Think I've read somewhere that anything before the noon, you can consider as a first day, especially if it gradually becomes a proper AF colour.
I'm feeling a bit crampy now as well, but not exactly "inside" more on the lower back again and tummy but from the general bloating I have today. I will test tomorrow and update xx
You get cosy and relax it out today!
@emma88P Enjoy your night, good idea to distract yourself a little. :)

MrsMcNtobe · 09/10/2018 18:00

@emma88P amazing you’ll need to let me know if it’s any good I’m buzzing to see it! 😁 AF came early for me, cramp is never usually this bad but it’s hit me like a train today!

emma88P · 09/10/2018 17:57

@MrsMcNtobe no none yet! 😀 going 5o the cinema tonight with the girls to see the lady Gaga movie, also to take my mind off it! Praying flo stays away!! What about you, any sign?

MrsMcNtobe · 09/10/2018 17:54

@emma88P any sign of AF? X

MrsMcNtobe · 09/10/2018 17:52

@Martina2311 AF is officially here.. early!! 😭 never had cramp like this before I’m in agony! Bed, hot water bottle and strong painkillers for me!

Let me know how you get on testing 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Hopefully if you feel different that’s a good sign! X

Frillyfarmer · 09/10/2018 16:52

Afternoon all.

I’m 10dpo and due on Friday, not sure whether I can resist POAS until then.

Where does everyone get their frer from, Ive hit three supermarkets today and all they’ve got are CB 😩

We’ve only just decided to go for it with no2, but I’ve remembered how absolutely obsessed I am with everything once I start. Im feeling sick and dizzy like last time but I know my body can play tricks on me!

Martina2311 · 09/10/2018 15:14

@MrsMcNtobe oh dear...Do you usually get crampy before AF? I only get a small cramp on the day followed with the flow right after so I can't predict by that. My CM has changed a few times already since my O so kind of lost at that now as well. But my cervix seams still high and soft and somehow I just feel like AF is not coming. I just don't have my usual PMS. This cycle everything seams so different with me but I know I might be causing it by focusing on myself a lot. Today I feel pretty bloated still and a little less appetite. Hmmm..I don't know if I get a negative tomorrow again, what else to think about this.
Thank you for the tip, I will Google it up. Surprised I haven't bumped into it yet with the amount of googling I do nowadays 😆

MrsMcNtobe · 09/10/2018 14:05

Just been to the toilet the lightest pink when I wiped could barely even see it but I think it’s AF (sorry TMI)

does everyone count the first day of their period from spotting or first full days bleeding?

emma88P · 09/10/2018 13:35

Still no flo, due today at some stage

MrsMcNtobe · 09/10/2018 12:06

@Martina2311 it’s the sperm meets egg plan - google it, defo worth a read!

I had to take painkillers and go to bed early had the worst cramp, negative cheap test today and some watery CM! How you feeling? I think AF will come tomorrow or Thursday 🙁

Martina2311 · 09/10/2018 11:56

How about you @emma88P ? You are due today right? X

Martina2311 · 09/10/2018 11:55

@MrsMcNtobe Hey! Just realised I didn't answer. What is the SMEP plan? How are you today? Due tomorrow right? No sign of AF here again, my cycles are 28-32 days long and today is day 32. Skipped testing today but testing tomorrow if the witch doesn't show up by then! Got a slight raise in temperature today and my CM has changed. How about you?

Martina2311 · 08/10/2018 21:33

Welcome @TwinkleDay! Wow, really short cycles! Good luck, I hope this is your month 🤗

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