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TTC FIRST BABY THREAD NO.5!

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Delilah7 · 27/09/2018 19:29

Hope all my lovely ladies have found it again. Thread no.5. Best mumsnet group ever 😍😍😍

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Delilah7 · 29/09/2018 15:15

@mrsof20118 just keep an eye on yourself and write down everything 😘

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mrsof20118 · 29/09/2018 14:59

@delilah7 thanks. Felt like I was overreacting last night and when I woke up this morning but definitely got worse and feel crampy. Wouldn’t say it’s painful but just hard not to have a bad feeling. Out of hours gp was very reassuring that some women can bleed in the first trimester but I think the time wise makes me think the worst.

mrsof20118 · 29/09/2018 14:55

@validuser thanks

@babysquid think they will say the same when I get there to be honest. Without tmi and prying too much was yours very heavy bleed to start with or got heavier? Xx

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Delilah7 · 29/09/2018 14:54

@Lougg yes Hun. But since the MC my cycles been two days late. So it's normally 28 day's. After MC it was 30 day's last month and right now I'm at 31. I just want it to hurry up if it's gonna show it's face! Xx

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Lougg · 29/09/2018 13:45

@Delilah7 hi! How you holding up? You one day late, is that right?

FivexFive · 29/09/2018 13:33

DoveGreylove, aaah the kenundrum of dtd on the regular! My advice is Get Naked! Get naked and sit on him, hopefully enthusiastic bonking will ensue :)

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Delilah7 · 29/09/2018 13:31

@mrsof20118 hopes all is ok? Xx

@Lougg hey lovely 😘

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EssJayyCee · 29/09/2018 13:27

Just to add to my issues. I got a water infection yesterday so now DTD is off the cards until it goes Angry

EssJayyCee · 29/09/2018 13:04

@stormtrooperjulien is it the one step opks you use?

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Delilah7 · 29/09/2018 13:01

@Kescilly aww we miss you! Thank you xx

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Lougg · 29/09/2018 12:59

Hi all 👋, I've been AWOL for a few weeks trying to be more chilled about TTC and getting the new house sorted.

A recap I'm 32 TTC #1 cycle 4

Didn't do any OPKs or anything this month so don't know when I ovulated could have been Thursday, Friday or today. Had a quickie this morning then took my niece trampolining so hoping the bouncing helped get everything where it needed to be 😉

I haven't caught up on the whole thread yet so hope everyone's keeping sane 😘

Kescilly · 29/09/2018 12:38

@Delilah7 I haven’t posted on your threads in a few months but I’ve enjoyed them. I appreciate your starting them and also your enthusiasm to keep them going. Hope you’re feeling better today.

BabySquid · 29/09/2018 12:16

Oh man, fingers crossed for you that it doesn't get heavier. They told me there wasn't anything they could do as 6 weeks is too early to scan. Hoping you have a better outcome than I did. Xx

ValidUser · 29/09/2018 12:02

Hoping everything will be ok @mrsof20118. X

mrsof20118 · 29/09/2018 11:52

Expected to be around 5 weeks but had spotting last night and now seems like heavier fresh blood. Have managed to get an out of hours appointment at local hospital. Being a woman sucks!

DoveGreylove · 29/09/2018 11:50

Hi All, I got my first flashing smiley this morning which is great news... Cycle 2 of TTC has officially started for us!

The problem i'm facing is husband is very tired / stressed with work and just hardly ever seems in the mood for sex. How do I get him to DTD every other day (at least) if he just isn't feeling it? :( It's stressing me out.. I know it's pressure on the man but why can't we just enjoy sex for the next week!?!? Any one else had to deal with this?

cupcakesandglitter · 29/09/2018 11:47

@Delilah7 oh I know, but we're all going through the same ups and downs together - I'm glad we all have each other for support xx

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Delilah7 · 29/09/2018 11:45

@cupcakesandglitter I used to be so positive when I first made these groups and now I'm this hahaha x

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cupcakesandglitter · 29/09/2018 11:40

@Delilah7 fx for you sweet xx

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Delilah7 · 29/09/2018 11:31

@cupcakesandglitter yeah I think I'm gonna have to aren't i if she doesn't come. Just doesn't feel like she's coming which is the same as last time x

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cupcakesandglitter · 29/09/2018 11:27

@KatBeCool that's the problem, I have no idea 😂😂 my chart is literally all over the place - this is the first time I've had any sort of constant!

@Delilah7 oh definitely, we're a bunch of confused mad cows 😂 test again with a FRER if possible in a couple of weeks? Xx

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Delilah7 · 29/09/2018 10:38

@summer28 thank you Hun. I guess I just didn't realise how stressed out and controlling it would make me about having a baby again soon. I wanted to just relax and not be so consumed by it but I guess now I know I can get pregnant it frustrates me more. And more so when I feel I feel the same way as I did before... going to go take a relaxing bath I think! X

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summer28 · 29/09/2018 10:02

@ValidUser this means we pretty much match I'd say! Hopefully.... cycle 3 is the one for us! 🙂

@Delilah7 sorry to read you had a MC, and honestly I know that learning it's happened and then just carrying on with TTC can get the better of you at times, but just give yourself the credit you deserve. It's a big thing, can take a lot to get over and don't put yourself under pressure when you don't have to. Having irregular cycles for a few months afterwards is completely normal and doesn't mean that you aren't ovulating and won't get pregnant again really soon. X

MrsMcNtobe · 29/09/2018 09:46

Hey ladies! I’m 3dpo and feel like I’ve woken up with weird pelvic feelings, more like pressure than pain/cramp and MASSIVE hunger. AF not due til 11th October-ish am I just imagining things or could this mean something?! Sad

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Delilah7 · 29/09/2018 09:39

@summer28 welcome 😘

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