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TTC FIRST BABY THREAD NO.5!

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Delilah7 · 27/09/2018 19:29

Hope all my lovely ladies have found it again. Thread no.5. Best mumsnet group ever 😍😍😍

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Delilah7 · 16/10/2018 07:37

@FlapJackered let us know how you get on. It's not self pity it's how you feel and it's important. My cycles have just been crap since MC so x x

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FlapJackered · 16/10/2018 07:31

@Delilah7 I am sorry your cycle is going to be rubbish too.
It just feels like every cycle is different for me and they are all long which is not ideal for getting pregnant. DH and I had a chat yesterday and have decided we will try for 2 years and then accept that we won't have any children. I agree with it as I find all this ttc really hard and I couldn't do it forever, but having a time limit does make it hit home.
Sorry self pitying rant over. I am seeing the doctor today to talk about my scan and my cyst so I can blub to her.

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Delilah7 · 16/10/2018 07:21

@FlapJackered I feel you babe. I know I haven't ovulated yet but not using sticks so I know I'm going to have a shit cycle too :(

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FlapJackered · 16/10/2018 07:20

Still a flashing smiley 😩
I should have ovulated yesterday so yet again my body is crap and I am going to have a longer cycle. It's so upsetting, there is no obvious medical reason why I should be so irregular. Not feeling great this morning, I am just so fed up of this.

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Delilah7 · 16/10/2018 06:31

@stormtrooperjulian thank you ❤️

@rj995 thank you xxx

@KatBeCool thank you lovely means a lot.

OH managed to cheer me up last night. I GOT THAT D! 😍😂😂

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ValidUser · 15/10/2018 23:44

True!

KatBeCool · 15/10/2018 23:29

@ValidUser haha it's a lot cheaper though!

ValidUser · 15/10/2018 23:27

@KatBeCool but peeing into the toilet with no stick involved is so much less entertaining!

KatBeCool · 15/10/2018 23:23

@ValidUser fingers crossed bfp will show up clearly in a couple of days. You gotta stop peeing on sticks so frequently 😂

@stormtrooperjulian it looks dry. If you waited more than ten minutes, those tests get significantly darker so it's hard to tell if it was positive within the time limit. If not dry, the test line is slightly lighter so your within hours of positive, so you can consider it positive.

@Delilah7 hugs! You'll get through it. It's impossible to always be in a good mood, especially when wanting something so bad. You're doing great. Most important thing here is not giving up.

sunshine1987 · 15/10/2018 22:30

Hope you’re all ok, sending love and good luck vibes to everyone today 💜

ValidUser · 15/10/2018 22:09

Thanks @rj995.

You new? Don't recognise your username. If so, welcome!

ValidUser · 15/10/2018 22:09

Thanks @rj995.

You new? Don't recognise your username. If so, welcome!

rj995 · 15/10/2018 21:55

@ValidUser fingers crossed you get something more definitive in the next few days!!

@Delilah7 not silly at all, got to allow yourself to feel all these feelings in order to come to terms with it and move on, all your feelings are 100% validSmile

ValidUser · 15/10/2018 21:45

@EssJayyCee you're always welcome here, even if you're postponing. X

rj995 · 15/10/2018 21:33

@stormtrooperjulian looks positive to me Smile

stormtrooperjulian · 15/10/2018 21:18

What do people think about this opk..... +ve or not quite there yet?

@Delilah7 it’s not silly to be upset still, developed or not that was your baby

TTC FIRST BABY THREAD NO.5!
MrsR16 · 15/10/2018 21:15

@EssJayyCee you've gotta both be on the same page for babymaking to work well! 😊 you'll have a baby when the timing is right for you xx

EssJayyCee · 15/10/2018 21:00

@flapjackered Yeah I am fine now. Although still a little heart broken.

Basically at the weekend we booked a holiday abroad for March. OH had been thinking about it all today and worried if I got pregnant now I wouldn't be able to fly come march or do all the things we want to do while we are away.
Also, he is currently paying off a debt which should be all paid off by next November in time for us to have a baby so that's almost £100 extra a month that could go on baby. And then finally, it's my sister's wedding next June.. so being heavily pregnant as a bridesmaid wouldn't be the greatest..

@Delilah7 I'll definitely stick around! But by the time I get around to TTC again you will all be baking your little buns so you'll all be in a new thread "Pregnant with baby number1" fingers crossed Grin

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Delilah7 · 15/10/2018 20:56

@MrsR16 true that 😘

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MrsR16 · 15/10/2018 20:53

@Delilah7 don't forget hun, we're all here for the same reason! We're all desperate 😊

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Delilah7 · 15/10/2018 20:43

@MrsR16 I hope so. Just would like it to happen this year. 😔 guess it sounds abit desperate lol x x

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MrsR16 · 15/10/2018 20:42

@Delilah7 just think, when you do end up with that gorgeous bundle in your arms, you'll look back at this horrible time and think "every single moment was worth it"! Xx

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Delilah7 · 15/10/2018 20:37

@MrsR16 @ValidUser thank you guys. Just being abit silly I guess....
we haven't been trying much this month due to OHS chest infection so baby making has only happened once and that was last week!. Although I haven't had any EWCM or pains yet so hopefully I haven't missed ovulation. Although flo says I have. X

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ValidUser · 15/10/2018 20:26

I second @MrsR16 - a developing baby is still your baby.

MrsR16 · 15/10/2018 20:25

@Delilah7 definitely do not feel silly!! It's perfectly natural! As far as I'm concerned, when we get pregnant, we have a little human inside us and when we lose that, we've lost a child. I don't care whether it was born or not or how far along it was, it's still your baby! You're allowed to feel like this - don't forget that xx

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