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TTC FIRST BABY THREAD NO.5!

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Delilah7 · 27/09/2018 19:29

Hope all my lovely ladies have found it again. Thread no.5. Best mumsnet group ever 😍😍😍

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cupcakesandglitter · 04/10/2018 08:42

Sending hugs to everyone ❤️ hope you're all feeling a bit better this morning xxx

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Delilah7 · 04/10/2018 07:49

@Crossfitgirl think I'll probably try ignore her for a while xx

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ValidUser · 04/10/2018 07:19

I'm sorry for all the AFs.

We need a BFP soon. X

Crossfitgirl · 04/10/2018 07:16

@delilah7 it's up to you, if you need her to know then tell her, but there is no harm in just leaving it for a while until you cool off and aren't as bothered about it. Do whatever you think will stress you out less :-)

summer28 · 03/10/2018 21:16

I've felt a bit like that too @Crossfitgirl, but it's felt like it's really about to happen for the last 5-6 days even though it's way too early. I've just not felt like it before really. Xx

Crossfitgirl · 03/10/2018 19:48

@summer28 yes we are, although I'm pretty sure I won't get to Sunday as AF feels like it's gonna be here tomorrow! V bloated and spotting getting darker, it's definitely on the way I think :-(

summer28 · 03/10/2018 19:31

And so sorry to hear what you're going through @mrsof20118 . Really hope you're doing ok and that you've got the love and support you need around you. It's a difficult time. But it does come to an end eventually and you will start to feel better again xx

summer28 · 03/10/2018 19:23

@Crossfitgirl and @CookieWaffle are you both testing on Sunday? AF is due for me Sun/Mon- BUT was hoping to try and wait it out to Tues/Wed if by any chance I was late. Fingers crossed for you both 🤞 And yes @Crossfitgirl I've not really let myself think that they really might be symptoms- I feel like as soon as I do that, boom AF rocks up! And it's only my 3rd cycle, so I know it's still pretty unlikely. Xxx

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Delilah7 · 03/10/2018 17:05

@Crossfitgirl perfect advise Hun honestly. What about if she messages me etc as I want her to know where I'm at x x

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Crossfitgirl · 03/10/2018 16:49

@cookiewaffle deal!

@delilah7 oh dear. You know sometimes in the nicest way possible it's ok to just keep your distance and ignore her for a while. It's not the exact same thing but my SIL is the same, she is a proper selfish cow and only ever thinks of herself and her own family, only ever does things to suit herself. The last straw was at my wedding when I had my niece and nephew in the wedding party, she contradicted every decision I'd made about what they would wear/ do etc on the day. She made it so difficult for me, when it wasn't even meant to be about her, it was our day!

So now, I dont arrange to see her, I don't go to events she invites me to (usually kids parties, she has 5 of them!!) And you know what?

Best thing I ever did.
Because the only thing she ever brings to me is stress. She does not give me anything I value in a friend or family, and quote frankly is a drain.

I see her mainly just at Christmas now and at other family stuff my mum organises, and you know what, I can tolerate her much better for it!!!

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Delilah7 · 03/10/2018 15:33

@sunshine1987 he's ok. MRI this month so fingers crossed x

@Crossfitgirl I might love her deep down but I can't stand her. I don't want anything to do with her, truthfully. And I'm not a cold mean person but she drags me and my mum and dad down and she won't ever change. In her stuck up little bubble. No and she won't ever be understanding. Only to her OH's family. Never ours.

@EssJayyCee try hold out for a few days if that'll make you feel better about it babe xx

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CookieWaffle · 03/10/2018 15:20

@Crossfitgirl deal :) Yeah this is definitely not period cramps for me...

Crossfitgirl · 03/10/2018 15:18

@cookiewaffle test Sunday with me if AF doesn't come??

EssJayyCee · 03/10/2018 15:17

@Delilah7 @Crossfitgirl I don't know. I don't want to be let down again. Would be my fourth test this month. AF is probably just messing with me and will come in full swing. I have cramps on and off but not strong ones too.

Crossfitgirl · 03/10/2018 15:17

@cookiewaffle ooh really? My hopes are slightly raised now lol but tbh for me this feels exactly like AF coming So I'm not holding out. I'm due on Saturday but I have a feeling AF is gonna come sooner than that! Xx

CookieWaffle · 03/10/2018 15:06

Ooh cycle buddies @Crossfitgirl :)

Am due a week today, have only had this pinching with a positive test so my imagination is going a bit crazy now. I will possibly probably most likely test early...

Crossfitgirl · 03/10/2018 15:04

@flapjackered my temp hasn't dropped yet so I will wait it out and see!

Oooh that's exciting going for SMEP! You'll have to keep us updated on how it goes - DH and I have also agreed every 2-3 days for next cycle, I'm anxious about whether words will be put into action though- how's your DH getting on with initiating more and stuff?

Crossfitgirl · 03/10/2018 15:01

@essjayycee are you testing then??
@cookiewaffle I'm also 8dpo and also have brown spotting and pinchiness, but if it's AF I want her to turn up sooner rather than later so I can go get blood test! When are you due AF?

@delilah7 you know you love your sister really, families always know how to push our buttons... just don't let them! Is she trying to be any more understanding about anything?

@charm23 oh that's so typical!! Onto the next cycle... onwards and upwards!

sunshine1987 · 03/10/2018 14:58

@delilah7 Facebook is the worst for stuff like that, gotta laugh at her. How is your dad? x

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Delilah7 · 03/10/2018 14:56

@EssJayyCee ooooooh interesting. Have you tested? Xx

@sunshine1987 done her usual shit not bothered with my mum and dad and then posted on fb a quote saying ' life's to short, spend it with people who make you happy and laugh'. Dickhead. X

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sunshine1987 · 03/10/2018 14:54

@delilah7 what’s she done now 🙈 or said. Least it’s not your brother today lol x

EssJayyCee · 03/10/2018 14:49

I am so bloody confused!
Yesterday I had a big blob of creamy light brown Cm expecting it to be AF today but nothing. Not even creamy cm?

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Delilah7 · 03/10/2018 14:31

@@CookieWaffle ooooh!!!! How exciting.

@Charm23 I'm sorry Hun :( how typical! not sure about binning them.

Anyone who's paid attention on old threads about my sister. Can you talk me out of throttling her please?!?!? Losing the will to live.

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Charm23 · 03/10/2018 14:29

Oh the irony.

So I go to the toilet, unwrap the test, sit down on the loo, look down... AF has arrived in style. Sigh. On to cycle 8 I suppose.

Do I bin the digital test? Its not used, just out of the foil wrap?

ValidUser · 03/10/2018 13:59

Luck!

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