TTC First Baby Massive Thread.

@Ronetta28 when you say you both serve... do you travel a lot? If so this can mess with your cycles quite a lot... I didn't realise till I came back from my honeymoon to Thailand and barely had a period, but felt like I ovulated twice.
Speak to the dr though and see what they say.

@Delilah7 we're here if you need to vent. X

Yeah I think I'm just going to wait it out and if nothing by Friday I'll make a doctors appointment.
My heads all over the place at the moment. I'm stressing myself out.

No I don't temp, I wouldn't even know where to start. 😂

Hi everyone, This is is my first post on here so bare with me as I need to vent TMI warning!!!!( end of my tether TTC!). So my partner and I are both serving so can be difficult to be in the same place . On August the 10th I got a peak ovulation on CB Digi and also the 11th my partner came home early the 11th and we BD twice that day and then every day up untill the 26th August (minus the 24 we were tired !). So on 28th I started getting spotting only when wiping and a big clump of thick dark brown almost black thick discharge and then nothing other .... ( Point to note I have been hpt testing since 21st August 🤦). All bfn and also after the spotting . I didn't class the spotting as AF as there was no blood or flow and definetly wasn't my normal ! . So come my next due AF the 21st I had a clear bit of mucus then nothing (usually I have a bit of brown then few hours later I bleed for five days) . So after the clear mucus I thought hmmm good sign maybe ... Nope come the 22nd I start brown spotting and thought you she is coming ! But no nothing ! Yesterday I got some really dark brown almost black thumb nail size clot and also some thick thick snotty mucus when I wiped with some light pink in it ! So I have booked an appointment with a gyno as I am so stressed with it ! . Now this morning nothing on my pad and my temp was 36.73 this morning . Also I tested for ovulation this month and I peaked the 7th then again the 14th ( I don't see even how that is possible)! This morning I tested with fmu and still BFN I don't even know if I am possibly pregnant or my body is playing a game with me ! I need some advice or success stories of really late bfp or anything similar to my situation as I have traveled and can't find anything 😫. Please any advice or anything would be grateful I see the nurse today so hopefully I'll find out what the hell is going on . ( Sorry for the long post ) x

Bfn for me too 😢 not even a squinter of a line on a frer.
Temp is still high but it is 12dpo so I don't think there is a chance now as it would def show something by now.
Def feels like AF will come but it will prob be tomorrow. 😩

Morning @KeltiBug that's exactly what my FRER looked like too 😩 I'd say wait until you're a week late (or more) do another test and then visit the gp if AF doesn't turn up. Are you temping? My temp still hasn't dropped x

@KeltiBug that is a negative, yes, I'm sorry 😞. With AF I think if you're more than two weeks late is when you need to worry. Hopefully either bfp or AF happen for you soon.

Morning ladies. I think it's safe to say I'm out.

Just done an FRER and that's negative right?

I thought I saw something but I'm probably just imagine it. 😔
I'm sure with being 5 days late and it being such a sensitive test it would be pretty strong if it was there😒 ..

I think if no AF by Friday I'll call the Docs on Monday.

@Crossfitgirl i guess should've gotten a degree in chemistry had I known there's a horde of crazed women waiting to pee on sticks as much as animals marking their territory. 🤣🤣🤣

@Crossfitgirl hope this helps xx

www.wikihow.com/Feel-Your-Cervix

It's just about getting to know the feel of it and position of it. We've not been doing it long enough long enough to be able to feel a massive difference yet, but checking Cm is a start I think xx

@flapjackered fx for temp staying up tomorrow! I'm hoping to see that rise on mine to confirm ov was today 🤞🤞🤞 but have a feeling that it is gonna be later than I'd hoped. We shall see!

@sunshine1987 I'm with you on that one, would not have a clue How to check my cervix . What's all that about @cupcakesandglitter @mrsc87?

@katbecool we should invent the cheapo FRER. We'd make millions!
@poodlepip it's the done thing. If you're not crazy enough to test too early and waste money that way, it's obligatory to be extra crazy after AF. I mean, she drove us to it right? Didn't even give us chance to come to terms with the fact we didn't get chance to take our tests as she went and showed up on time!

Omg @ValidUser 😂😭 are you temping/using OPKs this month? X

@cupcakesandglitter CD7! I'm an obsessional lost cause!

Ah @Delilah7 don't give up hope okay!!!

@FlapJackered awful isn't it 😂😂😂

I've just got back from the gym - realised how awfully lazy and tired I feel today when I was begging DH to reschedule to never. Will spend the next few days feeling sorry for myself 😂 is pain an excuse to gorge on chocolate?! I'm really craving sugar 😭😭

@Delilah7 @cupcakesandglitter you two! Honestly! What happened to team Wednesday?! 😂😂

@KeltiBug I reckon I will be testing tomorrow too (now I have no self control to wait until weds!) 🤞🏻 for us both, although have a feeling I won't need to as AF feels imminent. I think I will have a temp drop tomorrow 😕

@Crossfitgirl i totally waited until Monday. But I didn't have to poas as the witch showed up. Saved me a frer. Those things aren't cheap. They would've made a lot more money if they were cheaper as the maniacs like us here would be peeing on them three times a day.

@Delilah7 are you still doing OPKs? X

@MrsC87 😂😂 I cant do my own! I don't know if it's the angle or what but I just can't get it right! DH has plenty of practice with his fingers so I figured doing me favour wouldn't be too out of the ordinary 😂 yeeees get to it!!

@ValidUser where are you this cycle? Xx

Missing work! Need the distraction. 😂

Hi ladies, so sorry to hear that @BabySquid I hope you are doing okay 💕
Congratulations @RanchoRelaxo so pleased for you.
@cupcakesandglitter You're not alone, my dh is a pro at checking my cervix 🤣🤣 that's how I knew AF was coming last month!

I'm in the FW so shall be jumping on dh later on 😝😜

@cupcakesandglitter that’s hilarious, I don’t even know how to check my cervix let alone my hubbie 😂😂😂

@Delilah7 😂😂😂😂😂 welcome to the crazy club!!!

Omg @sunshine1987 😂 what can I say 😈

@Crossfitgirl omg you're a member of the crazy club too! 😂😂😂

@FivexFive good luck on holding out!! Hopefully AF doesn't turn up and we get our BFPs (or AF turns up sometime soon so we can move on!)

@poodlepip bless him 😂 I had to teach him, and every time he checks his fingers he spreads his thumb and finger to see what the stretch is like 😂😂 he does think I'm a weirdo though 😂😂😂😂