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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Delilah7 · 15/09/2018 10:43

Hope all my lovely ladies have found this group can't tag you all as there is too many!! ❤️

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Charm23 · 15/09/2018 22:16

@FlapJackered I was actually part of a clinical trial so I followed their instructions which was once per day with FMU. No problem getting the highs but no peaks whatsoever. I haven't bothered with OPKs for a few cycles now. I don't track anything nowadays, I just go by what the Ovia app says will be my fertile week.

sunshine1987 · 15/09/2018 22:12

@delilah7 you’ve definetely not missed the boat, from a positive you have between 12-48 hours until you ovulate! Very much still have time to get some DTDing in

FlapJackered · 15/09/2018 22:04

@cupcakesandglitter watery stuff is good! I normally get that just before the ewcm.

@Delilah7 3 times is a good amount and definitely enough to cover bases!

@ValidUser well done on sticking to the mocktails, not sure I could be that restrained. 🤪
When do you think you will test? Keeping everything crossed for you!

@Charm23 I think opks don't work for everyone. I am pretty sure I have ovulated this cycle as my temps are up but still on a flashing smiley with clearblue. If you search there seem to be loads of people who got pregnant with only negative opks, I wouldn't bother with them if they didn't work for you. Did you do them more than once a day?

Charm23 · 15/09/2018 21:56

Had anyone else struggled to get results with OPKs but has regular cycles?

I've used cheapy OPK sticks in the past and never got a strong positive line. This was doing one a day until I got a vvfl, then twice a day.

Also tried Clearblue digital OPKs and only ever got high readings, no peaks.

Don't know what to think? It was causing me to stress out a bit so I gave up tracking anything.

Anyone else had similar experiences?

stormtrooperjulian · 15/09/2018 21:52

Hi ladies. Checking in on the new thread!

Age: 31
Cycle: 2
Had my implant out in July.

On CD8 today and according to Flo my fertile week starts tomorrow, so we’ll be aiming to dtd every two days. That was supposed to start today but we’ve been out all day and had a huge dinner and we both feel too full and tired to do anything so it’ll have to start tomorrow!

ValidUser · 15/09/2018 21:17

@MrsC87 technically I seem to always have a 27 day cycle, but also had a 31 day one last month (AF came 14 dpo) and if she came 14dpo this cycle it'd be a 25 day cycle, so would come on Tuesday.

Basically, I really don't know! Hope she doesn't get you tomorrow.

MrsC87 · 15/09/2018 20:52

Yep FX for us both. When is AF due for you @ValidUser

ValidUser · 15/09/2018 20:47

@MrsC87 on and off!

We might still be in.

MrsC87 · 15/09/2018 20:33

Going to wait until Monday/Tuesday as last night I got a bfn @cupcakesandglitter
Aww Happy Birthday to your dh @ValidUser, I'm due today and 14dpo, and although I spot normally in the run up to AF, it's is never this long 🤔 do you normally spot @ValidUser?

I bet AF will actually turn up tomo and I've jinxed myself 🙄

Delilah7 · 15/09/2018 20:27

@cupcakesandglitter no which is why I'm struggling to feel I've ovulated. Given my nearly there positive this morning and negative a few hours later I'd say maybe I've missed the boat :(

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ValidUser · 15/09/2018 20:20

@MrsC87 I think we've synced. I'm 10 dpo, spotting this morning and it's DH's birthday today!

cupcakesandglitter · 15/09/2018 20:19

@Delilah7 that's not bad at all though!! Just try and do it when you can 😊 have you had any CM yet? Xx

@MrsC87 fx for you!! Are you going to test in a few days? Xx

MrsC87 · 15/09/2018 19:54

No idea @cupcakesandglitter had spotting since Wednesday now but not turning into anything as yet. I really do hope it's IB though! 🤞

ValidUser · 15/09/2018 19:35

Welcome @Charm23.

Thanks everyone for the reassurance! Out for DH's 30th and sticking to the mocktails!

Delilah7 · 15/09/2018 19:32

@cupcakesandglitter sorry DTD three times this week **

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Delilah7 · 15/09/2018 19:32

@cupcakesandglitter we've DTD This week, not a lot I know and plan to tomorrow and Monday hopefully. You get that joint shower girl 😈

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cupcakesandglitter · 15/09/2018 19:27

Ooh I also forgot to add - this is the first weekend DH has not agreed to do any over time (thank god) so I have him all to myself...
Decided to drag him with me to do all the food shopping and I was walking around literally dripping!! Don't know wtf is going on but I am soaked - has anyone else had this? Had a nice big blob of creamy AF, I think all the rest of it is just watery stuff idk? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Looks like I'll need a joint shower... 😈

cupcakesandglitter · 15/09/2018 19:22

Hi newbies ❤️ yes @ValidUser is completely right, no TMI here 😂

@Delilah7 have you been DTD a lot? Or was it just the other day? X

@MrsC87 could possibly be IB? Xx

MrsC87 · 15/09/2018 19:01

So you know how I said Af was on her way.....well nothing....spotted maybe twice today...no cramps....god knows what's going on....

WishingonaStar77 · 15/09/2018 18:54

@validuser thanks for the welcome.

Nothing scares me much anymore.. have nothing to lose but everything to gain. We're all in it for the bean 🤗 so looking forward to sharing the love x

ValidUser · 15/09/2018 18:39

Hello @WishingonaStar77 and @Newlou! Welcome to our world where nothing is TMI and our uterine walls are open for business.

On my cycle one my back went out so we used syringes full of jism. You are complicit in this. Wink

Please don't run away. I'm only scary sometimes.

Newlou · 15/09/2018 18:08

Brand new!!
32
Implant removal on Monday, got vitimans ready, bloody terrified, all my friends have kids and just wanna lecture me on what to do, can you all be my new friends haha x

Delilah7 · 15/09/2018 17:11

So my OPK now looks weaker than before :( but I have drank a little since the last one. Bet I've missed my chance

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WishingonaStar77 · 15/09/2018 17:10

Hey folks,

Am a complete newby to Mumsnet. May I join in please?

41 years old
3 miscarriages 😢
Awaiting recurrent MC test already had some
Signed up for acupuncture for egg quality
Just on 2nd cycle after last MC and in my 2ww

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Charm23 · 15/09/2018 17:04

@Delilah7 Thanks! :) Yeah I'm hoping it doesn't reduce our chances other than wanting to DTD a bit less! But I'm determined to DTD whether I'm feeling crap or not - MUST. MAKE. BABY!!

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