TTC First Baby Massive Thread.

Feeling less sorry for myself today. Seem to have had a raging fever last night which has since resolved- probably a viral illness.

AF due soon. Negative FRER at 11dpo yesterday so probably not my month, but we'll see!

Got to work this morning, all pleased with my first flashing smiley today...
Fertile week is here...
and DH text me to say he has been put in a job away this week!
Bloody great!!

@Delilah7 ewcm is your body's signal to do the baby dance. So you didn't miss it whilst you didn't have it.

@cupcakesandglitter I'm so with you :( and my clock isn't just ticking, it's pounding. And my body isn't even giving me trouble and yet I can't get pregnant from just having sex once like the people you described, drug addicts, abusive parents, or people who don't even want kids.

@Delilah7 oh I can completely relate!! My mc were all unplanned as well so I'm more pissed off that now I want it, it's not happening. I feel like such a failure as a woman which is absolutely pathetic but my womb gives me so much pain and hassle every month, why can't it just do what it's there for!!!

Oh honey, I hope things do get better with him ❤️

@Delilah7 See!! Glad things are looking up, get riding tonight!! X

@starkid welcome!! I give it a week till you're with the rest of us nutters analysing EVERYTHING

@Penguino888 that's made me chuckle 😂 relatable

I had a dream last night I used up all of my OPKs and last pg test (in one go, weird) just for the sake of using them. Thought I wasn't pregnant but then it was a BFP! Cried my heart out, DH cried, in laws were so happy... woke up and just felt so sad 😩 TTC is so irritating. I can really appreciate it takes some women years to get pg and of course I've not been trying that long, but I feel so shitty not knowing what we're doing wrong 😩 this baby is so so wanted, I've waited soooo long to be in the position to finally TTC. Eurgh.

When AF appears... this made me literally laugh out loud 🙊

Hi Everyone,
So I'm finally able to start TTC for first baby this month! Only on CD3 so have got maybe a week until I start going crazy with the OPKs, studying my temps etc.

@delilah7 I do, and it’s our job to stop you lol. If you’ve got EWCM give it a go tonight too. If you feel up to it, won’t do any harm 😘

@delilah7 you’re being too harsh on yourself, maybe try an OPK today, could be positive and then not missed at all. But remember sperm can survive for 5 days and the egg for 24 hours, that’s 6 days to catch it so don’t worry if you can’t one night, it’s life xx

@penguino888 yoga with Adrienne on YouTube is always recommended to me! I’m just about to start her beginners course on there x

Found it. I'm going to be in the background for a while but I'm still here just all getting a bit much. Didn't take AF very well this time. Next Cycle 10!

@cupcakesandglitter fingers crossed for you.

I'm trying really hard not to symptom spot and not even count DPO to distract myself. But then of course I see the parading pregnant women everywhere, it's not helping.

@FlapJackered I've been listening to this -

Completely chilled out and was massaging my tummy a little as if there was already a little baba in there 😩 but it's really just helped me time out and try not to stress. Not done the full hour so can't say if it's all just music but I really liked it x

I'm having AF like pains 😩 first I thought it could be needing the loo pains (any fellow IBS sufferers please say you're with me on this 😂) but I've gone and the cramps haven't stopped :( last cycle was 23 days, and I'm currently CD24. Going to be really really upset if AF comes :(

@crossfitgirl have you found any yoga YouTube videos that you'd recommend? Would love to take this up at home too!

I am trying mindfulness this cycle. There are some good fertility mindfulness sessions on YouTube. Some have had me snorting with laughter half way through but I figure that all helps with the relaxation! 😂

@Delilah7 @Crossfitgirl that was me! 👆🏻I have had multiple surges in one (long!) cycle without ov happening until later. It was when I was super stressed out at work, it was like my body tried to ovulate but decided against it. 🤨 it is very frustrating!

And yes @Crossfitgirl and @poodlepip I think 7 days ish. Can't be sure though as recently came off pill so not entirely sure where cycles are at.
I'm still in a bit of disbelief but guessing in a small percentage if it is bfp for sure and not chemical that it showed up that early.
X

@Crossfitgirl may join you on the yoga

Hello and sorry for not replying Im so new I don’t know how to reply or post on the app lol
And I’ve not told a sole about trying or that my implant is being removed tomorrow!!!
This thread is so lovley and I’m learning so much !!!
I’m just home after having my official last white wine pino 🥂😀 was bloody lovley and looking forward to reading all the messages on this thread and continuing to learn and bond with you all xx

I've joined yoga and am having regular reflexology to try and relax and de stress from work! @Crossfitgirl
Also looking at booking a naughty weekend away with DH as a way of having something to look forward to and relax.

Yup! 😁