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Anyone TTC after Christmas? :)

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someonekillbabyshark · 14/09/2018 19:30

We have decided to start trying for baby #2 after Christmas, getting my implant taken out in December. We conceived first DD in first cycle she is 2 now !!
Anybody else trying after Christmas xxx

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HJWT · 05/12/2018 20:35

@NextAdventure OMG Iv got you! I am SO scared that I will end up having a C-section and I'm not even pregnant yet 😂 it's just my biggest fear in the world I don't know why, they would probably have to put me to sleep because I'd have a panics attack which then makes me even more scared HA! Probably because Iv never even broke a finger so massive surgery like that really frightens me!, I'm scared about a lot of things now but also very excited...

NextAdventure · 05/12/2018 18:07

Hello! We will also be TTC for our 1st come the New Year. All rather terrifying but also exciting. I’m hoping the Mumsnet club will be a source of comfort for all that is to come... I tend to overthink unnecessarily and am already feeling sick about the actual birth! Not even pregnant yet Confused
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HJWT · 05/12/2018 17:00

Think we have decided to try Jan/feb skip
March early April as don't want a December baby, there's 7 bday for us dec-early jan already 🤭

Hunkyd0ry · 02/12/2018 15:33

Oh bless. They are still so little when they start!

HJWT · 02/12/2018 13:14

@Hunkyd0ry my sister has a August baby and a September baby, the August baby was always shattered after school and went to sleep before she had her dinner 😂

Hunkyd0ry · 02/12/2018 09:35

Glad it's not just me that is hoping for September onwards!
I explained it to my friend (who has children may age) and she said it wouldn't have even crossed her mind. I just think it will be easier for a child to start school at nearly 5 than just 4.

HJWT · 01/12/2018 20:11

@Blondie87 that's very true ! Anyone else getting excited now it's December ?? Im so excited but scared to!

Pastaallday · 01/12/2018 18:46

@HJWT Ah ok so Xmas day hopefully would be ok to start trying. Tbh my cycle is all over the place since stopping the pill so who knows when I'll next ovulate! I'll try hold out until Xmas time then perhaps to start trying properly!

Blondie87 · 01/12/2018 18:35

Saves a year of childcare costs though 😂

HJWT · 01/12/2018 18:23

@boodles101 I think the only reason an August baby bothers me is because my heart would break if I had to send them to school straight after there 4th birthday 😂 I'm so sad x

boodles101 · 01/12/2018 18:13

Can I join? I came off the pill 2 weeks ago and waiting for period to return then will be ttc #2. DS will be 2 in Jan. Fell pregnant on the 2nd cycle with him so hopefully its that quick this time too.
Ive done some opks and looks like im close to getting a positive - its taking everything within me to stop me from jumping on DH! We want to avoid an august baby.

HJWT · 01/12/2018 17:50

@Pastaallday with our first we conceived New Year's Eve and she was due 16th September born 6th x

Pastaallday · 01/12/2018 17:26

@Blondie87 we also would like a September onwards baby for same reasons! When are you actively TTC? This would be my first and I'm holding out till May be Xmas day to hope that would be late enough! Although I know it probably won't happen anytime soon anyway!

Blondie87 · 30/11/2018 17:09

Yep @HJWT I’ll need to cut out sugar and refined carbs to help with the PCOS!
I’m a teacher too so desperate for a Oct baby if possible but to be fair I’ll take a healthy baby any month 😁

HJWT · 30/11/2018 08:07

@Blondie87 I can't wait to indulge this Christmas!! Another reason we have waited is because I will more than likely have gestational diabetes and as soon as I see that second line I will be eating like a rabbit 😂 lots of veg low sugar low carb! Hooray, so Christmas will be very foody for me this year !!

CaramelCluster · 24/11/2018 21:35

Ahahaha #HJWT boggles their minds doesn't it! Well we have some time still so I can hopefully get it into his brain we have quite a journey ahead of us

HJWT · 24/11/2018 20:28

@CaramelCluster I had to explain to my DH that you basically get one day every month to get pregnant ! Not the whole bloody month 😂

CaramelCluster · 24/11/2018 10:23

Well that's weird, all emojis are coming up as wine glasses, must be my phone! Blush

CaramelCluster · 24/11/2018 10:21

Yay a group that's TTC in the new year! Would it be possible for me to join too? We shall be trying for DC#1 and I am currently 31.
The past year my partner has been talking about children a lot and I haven't been ready to...career reasons. Now it's flipmode and I'm talking about having children and he's not! Grin

We've had a lot of discussions since then and decided in the new year, so can enjoy work parties and Christmas with plenty of wine. Does anyone else's partner think it'll just 'happen'? Trying to drill into him that it could take us a long time but he's all in fairyland saying what months he prefers the child to be born in! Hmm

Blondie87 · 24/11/2018 07:52

Hi ladies!
Can I join? Thinking of ttc #3 in January! Still a little on the fence about whether it’s the right thing but I think we’re just going to go for it! Definitely don’t want to miss out on all the yummy Christmas indulgence as I’ve been pregnant or breastfeeding most Christmases for the past 4 years! I’ve got PCOS so it’s taken between a year and a month to conceive so we shall see! FX for everyone!

Crazybunnylady123 · 23/11/2018 21:11

Hi. Thinking of starting ttc #2, our dd is now 19 months. Exciting!

HJWT · 23/11/2018 21:02

@Navy123 Keep is all updated! 😌

Navy123 · 23/11/2018 09:56

Yeah we did too...and third, fifth, and finally seventh was the one that stuck!! Forgot about the conceive plus though so thanks, need to order some!

HJWT · 23/11/2018 08:25

@Navy123 we conceived first cycle, we took vitamins used conceive plus and I tracked with an app! We wasn't even living together at the time as I worked to far away so got very lucky only seeing each other a few days a week and my DH was told previously his swimmers were none responsive, I think mine would of been though the stress he was under with his ex 🤪

I just can't wait now! Keep seeing prams and all the baby stuff on sale for Black Friday ! But I'm not aloud to buy anything but clothes this time till I'm 30 weeks, that's the only rule haha!!

Hunkyd0ry · 22/11/2018 20:37

Hello,
I've been waiting too. I feel like I've been counting down for ages.
I have a nearly 2 year old.
We conceived our daughter quite easily and I feel nervous about trying again as I have plans for a September/ October baby.
Lovely to meet you all!

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