TTC First Baby Mega Mega Thread!

@bettyhop I hope you are having a fab time. Time to chill out and recharge. You can always go out and get a test if you need one, but it might be nice to not worry about anything til you get home. I have brought 2 tests with me that I won't need now. Are you abroad or UKing? Xx

Omg @patapouf that's definitely a BFP!
Congratulations!
Xxx

Congrats @Patapouf!!!

Congratulations patapouf! Just the good news we needed xxx

Also enjoying holidays here too☀️🍷 however still got overwhelming urge to poas. Didnt pack any as after the mc last month I just thought there was no chance. I believe AF may turn up on Wednesday but really not sure! I'm just exhausted had to come for a nap and boobies are so tingly and sore. Think it's all just wishful thinking🤰 will keep you updated x

I had the slightest line yesterday on a cheapie and convinced myself it was just an indent. I tested today at 11 DPO with a FRER and it looks like a BFP! I’m now completely panicking that AF will still arrive and it will serve me right for testing so early.

@CookieWaffle, Dr Google is definitely SSP's evil twin 😄 Have you ever noticed that, no matter what your symptom is, about the 3rd prognosis down is 'cancer'?! I'm pretty sure the main symptom of an ectopic pregnancy would be excruciating lower abdo pain, no?! 😉 Tell SSP to do one 🙂

Good luck on your TWW @ValidUser 🤞🍀

SMEP completed. Now for the wait.

Have a great holiday @Crossfitgirl - looks amazing!

Enjoy your hols Crossfitgirl, hope you have a lovely relaxing time :)

Oh and as for the house thing, we're not sure. I think we need to look at a few more places. It was a good first go though. Get the experience and all that.

@BambiOnIce80 Apparently the tip of your shoulder hurts in an ectopic, along with several other signs. Google (SSP's twin sister) teaches me too much stuff I don't need to know. I wish I could just deselect options in my brain for the things I don't want to remember! Today my shoulder's fine, but I swear I have cramps....or wind.

I've started tidying the place up in the hope that DP gets off his computer games and helps me out, doesn't often work though!

Oh wow @Crossfitgirl I mean, that's going to the extreme to treat yourself on CD1, by the pool in Kos with a rum and coke! Enjoy yourself! I'm due AF in 4 days, I wonder if there's any cheap flights going this week.

@Dimblebimble I can see something faint but I wouldn't like to judge what it is just yet. Hopefully you'll know for sure in a few days.

@Crossfitgirl, are you sure you wouldn't rather be glossing skirting boards than sitting poolside in the beautiful sunshine supping rum and coke?! No??!! 😂 Sorry AF turned up, but at least you can chill, drink and enjoy a relaxing holiday now 🍹☀

@Dimblebimble I had to really, really squint and can maybe see what I'd normally think could be an evap line. 11dpo is way too early and there's a high chance of false BFN's. Maybe wait until 13dpo and get a FRER with a high sensitivity (10IU/ml). Looks hopeful though🤞🍀

@CookieWaffle, you're putting my SSP to shame!! 😂 Is a sore shoulder really a thing for ectopic pregnancies?! Are you going to put an offer in on any of the places you saw yesterday?

I woke up in a foul mood this morning 😒 DP has realised and hastily stopped titting around on computer games and started painting the en suite (his designated task for today 🎨). Had another vivid BFP FRER dream last night (had one last cycle too). Dream me was like "but I'm in my fertile week - that can't be right 🤔" 😂 Really deep purple control line again with a pink test line this time - what's with the deep purple lines?!

Sorry @Dimblebimble read your post wrong, thought you said you would use your frer in the morning, will keep my fingers crossed for a darker line 😊 (I would defo not be able to resist the frer in the morning though haha)

I've bought some internet cheapys for the same reason @Dimblebimble but have seen quite a few posts recently of people getting lines like you have and then finding out they were false 👎 but then there's every chance that your line is real! Will keep my fingers crossed for the frer in the morning

@crossfirgirl, yes I just joined a couple of pages ago but we’ve been trying for around 7 months.

@ranchorelaxo I bought the internet cheapies for the first time this month to avoid wasting money on the expensive tests 😖 I now feel like taking a frer and I have one in the house but it won’t be fmu now, so maybe best to wait and see if it’s darker on the ics tomorrow 🤔

Oh wow CrossFitgirl that looks lovely, I'm very jealous. What better place to forget about AF than beside a pool in the sun with a drink in your hand! Have a fantastic week 😀🍹🍺

@Dimblebimble I can see a faint line but I don't trust those tests, best try a frer if possible

Hi girls, so after a small bleed which I thought was AF coming early, 3 days of spotting and nearly 2 weeks of sore boobs, actual proper AF has finally showed her face on day 1 of our holiday, just as DH was starting to get lovey dovey and feeling me up to get on it like a car bonnet.

Well Fuck you mother nature! I'm now enjoying my rum and coke completely guilt free, in the knowledge he does not in fact have super sperm that can last from 4 days per ovulation, and I am abandoning baby thoughts and house thoughts until a week today.

(Although there are a few cute babies here in Kos with their mummies making me feel sooooo broody it is untrue)

Hope you are all enjoying your weekend and @dimblebimble sorry I can't see a line however I am squinting in the sun and i have had rum so I don't think you can rely on me! Are you new to the group?

P.S. I’m very jealous of all the beautiful kitchens! We’ve been debating whether to ours since we moved in and it really needs it!

Hi everyone,

So after a possible missed chemical last month I’ve just had these. I think I can see the faintest hint of a line on both, both are fmu and came up in the 5 min window. Am I seeing things or could this be the start of a bfp?

I’m 11dpo and period is due on wednesday.

It’s a real squintier so might just be in my head, and there’s not much colour.

@Delilah7 I have the opposite problem, too much stuff and not enough cupboards! We only moved in a few months ago, having a tiny kitchen is driving me crazy. Can’t wait for the building work to start!

Got a static face/peak reading on my test this morning... going walking in a bit with the family, but will have to get the 'fancy frillies' (as my dh calls them!) out for when we get home to entice him into dtd again :)
FlapJackered, don't worry, I'm sure your kitchen is tidier than mine! My mum does a slight eye roll every time she visits! You can actually see her mentally re-organising everything for order! Xx