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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Delilah7 · 03/09/2018 13:18

New thread ladies ❤️

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Crossfitgirl · 10/09/2018 09:34

@stormtrooperjulian I have had about 3 days of spotting before my last few periods, and i had the same as you this time- I had light, red blood flow with one wipe so thought AF had come full force, but then it went back to spotting for another 2 days. I got my hopes up for IB, but AF then came 3 days after the initial bit of blood and looks like it will stay for the usual 3 days of my cycle. Not even sure how to track that properly in flo! I tracked it as period, then spotting, then like a 2nd period, but flo has actually stayed with day 1 as the first bleeding.
I am a little worried to be honest, I've read on good old Google that spotting before your period can sometimes mean you have low progesterone.
I plan to go to the doctors about it if cycle 6 is another BFN, but I do have PCOS and had a cyst removed when I was younger, and PCOS does play with your hormones.
If you're worried, no harm in doing to see your GP.
I think you can worry too much about things you read or hear, it might mean absolutely nothing for you, as your cycle can vary each month anyway, even if you're usually like clockwork - which is why I plan to see my own doc about it rather than worry unnecessarily!
Hope that helps
Xxx

BambiOnIce80 · 10/09/2018 09:22

Sounds like it could very well be a sign of ovulation @cupcakesandglitter and also sounds like you've got plenty of DingTD in 😉 You'll be joining me in the TWW then 🙂

sunshine1987 · 10/09/2018 09:21

@cupcakesandglitter when did you get your positive? Around 3/4 times before ovulation, we start day 10 and then every other day til positive. We’re on CD11 today and not had sex this month though yet so I dunno what this month is going to be like. We were going to do SMEP again but CD8 and CD10 passes and neither of us fancied it so I dunno 🤷🏻‍♀️

cupcakesandglitter · 10/09/2018 09:14

@sunshine1987 I have no idea 😅 this month was the first time I had success with OPKs - and I'm still doubting it 😂 I've always thought I've ovulated early, not sure why 😂 I think also because my cycle messed up last cycle I'm just hoping that my body returns back to normal this one! I hate the feeling of not knowing 😩 how often do you DTD around ov? Xx

sunshine1987 · 10/09/2018 09:05

@cupcakesandglitter would it be abnormal for you to ovulate then? I ovulate day 18 with a 28 day cycle xx

cupcakesandglitter · 10/09/2018 08:59

@stormtrooperjulian I agree with @BambiOnIce80 - test!! It could be IB ☺️ if it is though, it may take a couple of days or so for a BFP. I had this this cycle too - AF was a week early, way lighter than usual and lasted for three days 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm counting it as an anomaly x

So last night I wiped and I had very very clearly EWCM (slightly yellow tinged) - I've never seen it as clear as this!! I've been quite wet with watery CM for the last couple of days or so (again, unusual) but we've DTD each night since I've had it. Not sure if it is ov though because I'm on CD18 😩

BambiOnIce80 · 10/09/2018 08:43

Might be worth doing a pregnancy test @stormtrooperjulian if a super light period isn't normal for you...

stormtrooperjulian · 10/09/2018 08:10

Congrats @Patapouf, that’s so exciting!

Looks like my af has finished so dtd can commence for cycle 2! Strange af though, one day of light flow then one day of spotting.... does that mean my lining isn’t good? Slightly worried about it.

BambiOnIce80 · 10/09/2018 07:44

Congratulations @Patapouf! 🎉💐🎊 Keeping everything crossed that you will have a sticky bean 🤞🍀

I like the idea of a ceremonial OPK burning @FlapJackered🔥😂 I'm very much wishing that I hadn't bought a job lot of 50 IC OPK's now that I've fallen out with them! 🙄

I'm CD17 today, so start of the TWW for me again. Still got a good week to go before SSP kicks off (I hope!).

cupcakesandglitter · 09/09/2018 23:18

@Patapouf congrats!!!! Please do stick around ☺️☺️ xx

RanchoRelaxo · 09/09/2018 21:52

Yay congratulations Patapouf!! How exciting!

Delilah7 and ProseccoBee I'm also in my fw now too, looks like we will be 2ww buddies this time 😁 we can help keep each other level headed haha

Patapouf · 09/09/2018 21:09

Thank you everyone!

I’ve been taking pregnacare conception and using OPKs for 3 months now so I could pinpoint exactly when I ovulated, and this varied a little because my cycle is 27-28 days. We kind of did SMEP but missed two lots of DTD, one 3 days before ovulation and one post ovulation. We weren’t using preseed or similar but it was in my amazon basket for next cycle if I’d had a BFN!

It seems very strange to be 3+4, AF isn’t late yet and I think I’m more terrified than excited but at least now I know we can get S to meet E, even if this bean isn’t sticky.

Good luck to all of you, I hope the TWW isn’t too torturous and that you enjoy SMEPif you are doing it Wink I’ll linger on this thread if you’ll still have me and I’ll keep an eye out for you all on the ante natal threads!

FlapJackered · 09/09/2018 20:52

Oh my godddddd! @Patapouf congratulations!!! 🎉🥂🎉
Loving all these bfps coming through!!!!

@Crossfitgirl have an amazing holiday! Enjoy the time to truly relax! Have a Gin for meee!
🍸🍸🍸

Starting the Clearblue sticks tomorrow! I have given them a talking to that they are not to give me more than 7 flashing smilies or there is going to be an ovulation monitor ceremonial burning! 🔥

Dimblebimble · 09/09/2018 20:42

Congrats @patapouf! Smile

sunshine1987 · 09/09/2018 20:08

Congratulations @patapouf!!

mrsof20118 · 09/09/2018 19:55

No positive opk for me either. Maybe I've missed the window?!

mrsof20118 · 09/09/2018 19:53

Congrats @Patapouf

MrsR16 · 09/09/2018 19:48

@Patapouf congratulations!! That's fantastic news xx

Delilah7 · 09/09/2018 19:26

Do talk us through what you done @Patapouf xx

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MrsC87 · 09/09/2018 19:16

Congratulations @Patapouf great news 💕
Am I right in thinking you did SMEP this month?

Delilah7 · 09/09/2018 18:32

@ProseccoBee I'm with you darling. I'm in the fertile week too and would really like a BFP this month. No positive OPK yet and I'm only trying those due to MC last month. Good luck to you lovely x

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ProseccoBee · 09/09/2018 18:28

Oh excellent news @babysquid and @patapouf! Congrats to you both!

Also having kitchen envy from everyone’s photographs we bought a “doer upper” and knocked down walls full electric rewrite, bathroom fit and basically every room needed to be done again. The kitchen was the only one that was half decent so just put a lick of paint on to tide us over! But now seeing all of your lovely pictures I want it all!
Will have to wait til next year as we’ve just put on a new roof and I’m getting my windows and doors done in five weeks which is a sign that I am clearly getting old because I am ridiculously excited for my new front door. Ours currently looks like the poor house on the beautiful estate and I can’t wait for it to look lovely!

@crossfit girl so jealous of you being on holiday hope you’re having a lovely time! Which resort are you staying at? We’ve been to kos twice in the past and we loved it!

Hope everyone else is having a great weekend! According to clue I’m in my fertile week so have been trying to DTD as and when just really hoping for a BFP this month also! If not I think I might bite the bullet and buy the ovulation tests for next month but I don’t want to fall into the trap of it becoming a chore!

CookieWaffle · 09/09/2018 18:19

@BambiOnIce80 Oh yes, google is great at finding all sorts of fatal conditions for me!

Wow @Patapouf thats a very definite BFP there, congratulations!! xx

BabySquid · 09/09/2018 17:58

@Patapouf yaaaay congrats. This weekend is turning out to be lucky for us both ❤️

Delilah7 · 09/09/2018 17:57

@Bettyhop relax darling hopefully the sun will be able to stop you from thinking of POAS. After a MC it's defo harder I think not too pee on one. I'm desperate to have a baby right now, hoping that urge will go away abit tbh! Xx

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