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4 days late - too scared to test!!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 17:50

Hi All

I am literally a poas queen! Ttc no1 for about 2 years and nothing! Have been late a few times but not in a little while now. The problem is I now seem to have developed poas-phobia! I just feel different this time, like randomly feel this is the month of my bfp but can't shift the fear! Anyone else had this? Please help me get a grip haha!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 16/08/2018 09:29

Desmondo2016 oh trust me, it has been more than suggested.

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Desmondo2016 · 16/08/2018 08:58

Sorry to hear that. After 2 years ofunsuccessful ttc I think if be suggesting partner gave up smoking quite frankly.

cakesandphotos · 16/08/2018 08:22

Sorry OP Sad but do remember that you aren’t out until AF shows. My friend didn’t get her bfp until she was about a week late, she just got bfn’s

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 16/08/2018 08:03

Please ignore the dirty blanket Blush I just knocked over partner's tobacco pouch!!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 16/08/2018 08:02

Sorry with pic

4 days late - too scared to test!!
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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 16/08/2018 08:01

Bfn on a frer this morning :(think I might be out this month! Good luck to everyone!

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DartmoorDoughnut · 16/08/2018 07:00

Good luck this morning Flowers

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 20:32

Thank you!! Desperately looking online to find out what people have to say about the boots strip tests and getting incorrect bfns on them haha! I'm seriously a woman possessed!!

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leanne9312 · 15/08/2018 20:12

Hope you get a positive !!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 19:59

Will do! I woo update tomorrow. Thanks everyone!!

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iggleypiggly · 15/08/2018 19:24

Keep positive and try again in morning Flowers

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:47

Thank you moleeye I'm not even that upset, because I don't believe it! Which is so stupid and backward thinking but I just can't seem to shift this feeling. Probably setting myself up for a big fall

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moleeye · 15/08/2018 18:41

*TTC number 2! Not 3

moleeye · 15/08/2018 18:41

We have been TTC number 3 for over two years. I too stopped POAS because the disappointment was overwhelming.

Last month my period was late so I waited 3 days after it was due and tested. It was negative.

Still no sign of AF. 8 days after AF was due I tested again (first morning wee) and got a BFP. I'm now 7+6 and still in complete shock.

It may just be too soon, wait a couple days and use your first wee.

Good luck xx

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:22

Tbf that was like my 3rd wee of the hour, maybe it was too dilute - desperately grasping at straws!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:21

Weird DartmoorDoughnut I couldn't see it either then posted another pic and they came up!

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cookielove · 15/08/2018 18:21

You need a frer!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:20

Yeah I think I will try the FRER in the am but not holding out too much hope now, I really thought this was the month! Oh well always next month!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:19

Sorry pic

4 days late - too scared to test!!
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ThunderOnlyHappens · 15/08/2018 18:19

I would hold my pee for a good few hours and use the FRER. Good luck OP

DartmoorDoughnut · 15/08/2018 18:18

Oh can see it now Sad

Try the FRER in the morning x

DartmoorDoughnut · 15/08/2018 18:17

Can’t see a photo?

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:16

Pretty sure that's a bfn :(

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holycityzoo · 15/08/2018 18:14

Omg come on!!!!!

DartmoorDoughnut · 15/08/2018 18:13

Eeeek! Everything crossed as I reckon you’d be a due date buddy for me Grin