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TTC after recurrent miscarriage - thread 3

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Miami81 · 14/08/2018 08:50

Hi all. Sorry I hadn't realised other thread was full.
Have tagged who I can remember.
Please add people in.
@AnneLovesGilbert @Labmum @Hopefulforourrainbow @zarala

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FuckMyUterus · 05/09/2018 20:58

miami81 I don't mean count as in count as a pregnancy, I mean will it count towards miscarriage total? I doubt it very much though.
I'm only under a consultant due to family history of blood coots during pregnancy, he discharged me after issuing a run on prescription though.

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Miami81 · 05/09/2018 20:13

I'm so sorry @oddsbobbins I think any pregnancy where they have recorded your hcg should count. I would be kicking up and almighty stink if they don't. I haven't seen any guidelines about chemical pregnancies not counting.

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Miami81 · 05/09/2018 20:11

And also @FuckMyUterus they should totally count this pregnancy. You are making a compassionate decision for your baby and your family, anyone who thinks that this pregnancy doesn't count needs their heads examined.

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Miami81 · 05/09/2018 20:09

Oh @FuckMyUterus I have no idea, but has anyone mentioned testing/ the baby? When dd died at 27 weeks we opted for a full post-mortem which included the placenta and a full chromosomal check of baby. If they had found any genetic anomalies that could have been inherited they would have then checked us as well. She was our third baby after 2 miscarriages. The post mortem helped narrow our issues down to a placenta related problem. I think it's definitely worth you chatting to someone about testing. Have any of your miscarriages been checked for chromosome problems? I think you mentioned that you are on clexane, are you already under the care of a consultant/ rmc? I would try to get back to see them if I were you.
Again my lovely I really feel for you. Take your time with decisions as much as you can, I am thinking of you and your sweet baby always.

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FuckMyUterus · 05/09/2018 19:12

Does anyone know if I'll be eligible for testing through RMC now? I have had 2 recorded miscarriages and numerous chemicals that are not on my medical records. However I doubt this pregnancy will 'count' towards my total, as I'm not having a miscarriage, I'm choosing to end it. (albeit with not much in the way of other options)

MissPMA · 05/09/2018 19:04

I’m so sorry to hear that @oddsbobbins, mine was counted so I really hope that you get your referral. What a week for you, take care of yourself.
Will be thinking of you tomorrow @fmu xx

FuckMyUterus · 05/09/2018 18:37

Oh, oddsbobbins I'm sorry :( are you okay?

oddsbobbins · 05/09/2018 18:29

Will be thinking of you tomorrow FMU.
Bad news for me, HCG is going down, will get a call from consultant re next steps tomorrow. Hoping this will be counted as a mc rather than a chemical pregnancy and I can be referred on to rmc.

FuckMyUterus · 05/09/2018 17:49

Hope everyone is okay.
I have my confirmation scan tomorrow, then i think they'll probably book my termination for over the weekend :( starting to sink in now...

oddsbobbins · 05/09/2018 16:36

I'm so happy to read your updates Anne, bean and Miami, it's wonderful to come on here and see good news.
I'm sat waiting for a call from EPU to see if my HCG is rising.

Munchies89 · 05/09/2018 16:06

That's really positive bean Smile x

beanhunter · 05/09/2018 16:02

Measured 7+6. Should be 8 so think that’s ok? No cause for bleeding.

Munchies89 · 05/09/2018 15:56

That's great news @bean. Are the dates/measurements any better?
Glad you're having a lovely time @Hopefulforourrainbow xx

Labmum · 05/09/2018 15:55

@beanhunter thats good news, hows things looking for dates? Could they see a cause of the bleeding?

@Anne that's wonderful news, congratulations.

beanhunter · 05/09/2018 15:24

So some how it’s still there. Don’t know what today’s bleeding is all about. Next scan next weds.

Hopefulforourrainbow · 05/09/2018 15:21

Very quick catch up. So happy for you both @Anne and @Miami.
Thinking of you @bean.
We're having a great time in the sun! So nice to have some time together.

Munchies89 · 05/09/2018 13:36

Congratulations @Anne

Good luck @bean xxx

beanhunter · 05/09/2018 12:59

And now I’m bleeding again.

Lauraliverpool · 05/09/2018 12:57

@beanhunter sending you lots of love and luck to you. Xxxx

Lauraliverpool · 05/09/2018 12:55

That's wonderful!! @AnneLovesGilbert 😘 xxxx

MissPMA · 05/09/2018 12:53

Fantastic news @anne!
Keeping everything crossed for you @bean xx

AnneLovesGilbert · 05/09/2018 12:51

Oh bean, sending all the thoughts and love to you. Massive hand squeeze. Will check in, remember we’re all behind you x

beanhunter · 05/09/2018 12:49

Congratulations Anne xx

I’m very nervously waiting to head off to my appt. absolutely convinced it’ll be another mmc.

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Miami81 · 05/09/2018 12:46

Oh amazing. I'm impressed that you didn't puke. Well done. Enjoy it.
13 weeks. Woohoo.

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AnneLovesGilbert · 05/09/2018 12:42

It did! Nearly puked with the stress before hand but all good. They put me at 13 weeks, two arms, two legs and a face Smile

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