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AF late but 2 BFN?

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Rollerball84 · 07/08/2018 18:52

I feel as though I’m loosing my mind! Did the deed on the last day of my period and the following day now period is late this month. I’ve tested twice and both BFN. I’m not a regular charter of my cycles but I know they’re usually in and around 28-30 days. I’m now 2 days late, no usual pms symptoms and had a little cramping yesterday morning but felt different to period cramps? Can anyone tell me if they or others have gone through this and got their BFP? Slim chance I know with doing the deed so close after period ending. Thank you in advance Smile

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Rollerball84 · 10/08/2018 16:16

I was with my GP this morning who is almost sure that I am along with the symptoms I’m having. She did a test which was negative also but gave me two to bring home and to test again in 7 days. She said that everything adds up to me being pregnant even with DTD straight after my period. So I’m holding out hope, but also weighing up that it might not be so I’m not dreadfully disappointed if AF arrives. Smile

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SoozC · 10/08/2018 14:43

About 7 months into ttc I had a cycle where I was 5 days "late" for no apparent reason, despite every other cycle being like clockwork. Could have been a chemical (although I never had a bfp), maybe I ovulated later than I thought for some reason, who knows? It's unfortunate when ttc but generally if you're late and still getting bfns then chances are you're not pregnant. Hopefully you'll be the exception though!

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Rollerball84 · 10/08/2018 10:19

Made an appointment with my GP this morning. Still no AF and still BFN. It’s so unlike me to be this late (cd33 today). Anyone else have any updates?

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Rollerball84 · 09/08/2018 12:00

@firsttime36 sorry to hear that. I hope next month is your month Flowers

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KVS14 · 09/08/2018 07:45

@FirstTime36 at least you know and can try again this cycle. Flowers

KVS14 · 09/08/2018 07:43

No, I last tested at 8 days late. Giving it until 14 days late in case AF just wanted to be really late?

FirstTime36 · 09/08/2018 06:59

AF arrived bright and early this morning :( At least I can get on with a new cycle and try again!! Good luck to you ladies who are still in this month fingers cross d for you all xxx

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Rollerball84 · 08/08/2018 22:08

Are you testing every three days? I think I’ll give testing a miss tomorrow and the following day and go again on Friday. If nothing arrives between now and then.

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KVS14 · 08/08/2018 22:06

I am trying to keep busy so I don’t obsessively google. Only three days until another test to check.

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Rollerball84 · 08/08/2018 21:54

Between work and DS my mind is pretty occupied but there are times throughout the day when I’m obsessive about it. I’m
Trawling through threads and google searching to see different scenarios! It’s exhausting Shock

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KVS14 · 08/08/2018 19:30

I'm 11 days late and last test at 8 days late it was bfn! Going to test again on Sunday! Avoiding googling (yeah right Hmm) as I don't want to get my hopes up. How are you keeping your mind from getting too hopeful? Xx

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Rollerball84 · 08/08/2018 19:02

Sounds as though you’ve a better chance than me Firsttime36. Don’t they say to test again in 3 days in AF hasn’t arrived by then? Everything crossed for you! X

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FirstTime36 · 08/08/2018 18:35

Hi! I’m currently 3 days late and had a BFN today, we DTD on cycle day 12 which I though was too early to catch ovulation this month. We’ve been trying to conceive off and on for about a year now and I’m really hoping I’m pregnant! Has anyone had anything similar and when do you think I should re-test? Thanks in advance :)

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Rollerball84 · 08/08/2018 10:12

With DS I found out at 6 weeks, so maybe it’ll be the same this time round too? Hopefully! Thanks so much for your message Firsttime17 x

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firsttime17 · 08/08/2018 09:58

I had countless negative tests but only got my positive around 5/6 weeks pregnant even though I was testing from 5 days before period was due... in my mind I knew I was because I just felt it! Good luck xx

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Rollerball84 · 08/08/2018 09:40

Thanks ladies, I think you could be right. No sign of AF this morning and another BFN. Confused

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Elderflower78 · 07/08/2018 23:29

This happened to me but unfortunately ended in chemical pregnancy. Hopefully you get a proper bfp or just late though.

Kez99xo · 07/08/2018 23:18

I dont think your pregnant as you ovulate around 14 days after ur peirod if u have a regular cycle, prob jst late x

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