Over 40 ttc - August baby dust for me!

Nope i did but then i got neg tried a dig clear blue neg still got positive cheepo strips tried this got
A faint line x

MEGAN - did you use the same type of pregnancy test each time?

This is from a book called is your body baby friendly by Alan E Beer

Thought id had a chemical because i had a positive but then negitive this is my first positive in a few days

Just popping in - hello newbies. Need to have a big catch up on everything that’s been happening! Gutted to read Cookie and Eloisa updates . Chemical pregnancies are just so cruel- I’ve actually lost count of how many I’ve had. My miscarriage total is past 11 or 12 now
the majority of which were early losses but I had two mc at 14 weeks. Life just seems so cruel sometimes. I did read something today and I’ll try and photograph it and post. It certainly perked me up and hope it will you ladies

MEGAN - that looks like a positive to me!

Oppinions ?

Anyone 10dpo with no symptoms? Up until yesterday i was hopeful with mild ache on my left side, slightly headachy, peeing tiny amounts often. Today nothing!! Af is 4 days away...any ideas from your own experiences would lift my spirits xx

Imagine waiting 2 weeks without testing, that's hilarious!!
And not going to happen ever. Who does that?!

Thanks @Orchid222 xx

I got very kindly reprimanded by the early pregnancy unit this morning. They told me to try and wait 2 weeks after my missed period before I test. Lovely thought but I don't think that's gonna happen.

What the midwife did say though was that half of her clients were over 40 if that's any reassurance for any of you.

Thanks xx I can't believe it, 2 losses in 2 months. I'm just heartbroken. But DP has been a star and we had a good chat tonight, he wants to help do whatever he can to make this work out.

So sorry cookie and user, thinking of you ladies, this ttc is just so hard.....

@CookieWaffle and @user1483961132 , so sorry! Been through a MmC recently, I can only imagine how you're feeling right now. 😢

So sorry to hear your news Cookie and Eloisa, I know that crushing feeling of seeing the hpt line getting fainter - it's soul destroying .
@cleozeta I started bleeding at 5 weeks exactly so pretty early on, if I hadn't got my bfp at 13dpo I'd have just thought my period was late! That'll teach me for testing too early >< xx

Oh no Eloisa, so sorry it's happened to you too. When will we get a break

Thanks ladies for your support and sorry to you @user1483961132 :( xx

I bought some more tests but I'm a little scared to use them. I don't want to see that single line...

Just catching up with this mega busy thread. Welcome Wimsy and Dora and Auntie! And since this welcome to all the other newbies!
Mellon.. Sorry AF got you in the end. I was wondering whether you were going thru what i did with DS when i didn't realise i was preg for 12 weeks!!
User/Eloisa.. I do remember you! Wow..huge congrats! I'm 46 and it gives me hope. I'm currently expecting AF in 4 days and sure she'll strike. I'm at the point of giving up but when i hear about such amazing stories as yours i think i'll give it a bit longer!

Ohhh noooo not you as well @user1483961132 😞😞😞😞😞 sending big hugs all around 💕💕💕💕

hey Cookie, me too. It's rough isn't it. I've had really light bleeding today - hardly anything but then I did another test to check and the line had faded right away. So think it's a cp for me too. Much love. xx

@CookieWaffle I'm so sorry. I have everything crossed for you. Two in as many months would be cruel indeed.

I hope you're doing ok

Oh no cookie, so sorry to hear that. How gutting. We don't have it easy here do we

Raffey - how far along were you when you mc?
I think the 3 week thing isn't quite right, as I had definite AF 2 weeks after bleeding stopped, as I ovulated at the end of the brown bleed (confirmed at scan).
Have you taken a hpt to confirm mc is complete?

@cleozeta sorry yes my bleeding has started 2.5 weeks after my miscarriage started. To be honest I couldn’t tell you the date I actually miscarried because all I had was a seven day period-like bleed commencing on 30/07/18 - I had no pain and to my knowledge didn’t actually pass anything .. As miscarriages go, I got off very lightly I believe! I’m thinking this is ongoing miscarriage, I’ve read it can’t be af unless you’ve had at least a three week clear period of no bleeding since mc ><
I’ll see if my cycles return to normal after af, if not I think I’ll get some opk’s as I don’t want to miss any chances! Hubby works away during the week which doesn’t help, he’s often not around at optimum ttc time grrrr!
@CookieWaffle oh no has the bleeding got heavier/darker? It could be nothing, I was obsessively Googling 'bleeding in early pregnancy' a few weeks ago and there are so many other things that could be causing it (implantation, cervical abrasion, subchorionic haematoma etc.) - fingers crossed it's nothing serious! x

@Chatbash72 had slight bleed yesterday, looked just like what I expected implantation to be. Now I have period like bleeding and strong cramps. Been to doc, I have a scan in 2 weeks but I'm not hopeful. Feels just like a normal period.

Cookie that's just awful, are you sure?

Spotted opk's in a cheap shop so thought I'd see what happens with them - not quite as dark test line just now and am cd14 so hopeful tomorrow will be better but did manage dtd last night and hopeful tomorrow or Sat too so timing could be bang on. Fx.

Ooh @CookieWaffle 😞😞😞😞 are you sure???? Could it just be implantation bleeding 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞