Anyone around 9 dpo?

Ladies, I'm getting so nervous about tomorrow. Has anyone had their cervix cut away, I'm worried about the numbing injecti9n into my cervix and they've said no sex for 6 weeks to heal. Can only use pads and no baths. I'm fine with surgery I've had my boobs done and a kidney removed lol but this one is really freaking me out xcx

@Akasia yes I will ask them, at my blood test for kidney I did mention it but she said to ask the st for colposcopy.
@blitzen no update yet, my appointment is on Friday. I got a bfn on Tuesday so looking like I won't get a bfp but I do want to absolutely make sure before procedure. I'll let you all know Friday! I'm worried there will be complications and I'll end up with a hysterectomy or something.. worst case I know but xx

Thanks @Akasia I'm due af today according to app and had negative fr this morning so not looking good for me :-( xx

Ps any update @thethree? X

Thanks, @Akasia. Good to hear from you. I am doing okay this week (13w but measuring 12+2) but the week was off to a stressful start as I had some bleeding on Monday, which is still ongoing. I have calmed down a lot since having a scan on Monday afternoon and speaking to a lovely doctor. However, I don't like the situation. Everything with baby seemed fine and it was amazing to see an incredibly wriggly baby on screen. Official scan next week so basically hoping it will be okay.

Good luck for this month! X

@lavender, is your oh any better? X

Wow, had lots of catching up to do!
First of all, massive congratulations @squ1ggle. Nice to come back to such good news.
@spottypijamas @blitzen @dreaminofholidays how are you ladies feeling now? Have either of you started showing?
@lavanderlove @thethreeandme @BLS1983 🤞 still for you. This is a very lucky thread, one day it will rub off on us as well.
@thethreeandme sorry to hear you're going through this uncertain period. I agree with the other ladies, retest with frer before the appt and in the event that you get your bfp have a good chat with your dr to weigh in pros and cons. I sincerely hope it all goes well for you.
I had a month off from ttc and, oh, how great it's been not temping, charting, poas-ing like crazy.
I am now ready to try again and only cd8 and stressing. Have pre seed, opks, and a very regimented sex calendar at the ready, pleaseeee this be the month!!

@lavenderlove yes that might be a good idea. Wish I drank at the moment lol xx

Hi ladies, I slightly misjudged I'm actually 9dpo today approx , did a test half hpur ago bfn, I known I shouldn't test early but I don't want to go for this procedure on Friday if I don't know .. just incase . Really don't know what to do. I don't want to cancel incase I'm not pregnant and risk health but I don't wanna go if I might be and risk a baby! Arrrgh I'm hoping they might want to test me Friday morning and it will show if I am or not .. has anyone else got a bfp between 9 and 13dpo? Xx

@blitzen yes I thought this would be the case it can't be safe to mess with the cervix especially in early pregnancy!

Hello @thethree, the midwife told me not to have a smear when pregnant. But if you get a bfp you need medical advice before making a decision either way.

ALL LADIES ADVICE NEEDED!!! I feel very crampy today at 10dpo . I had a smear last Tuesday so it may be that. I'm due to have some cervix cut away next Friday. If i get a bfp before then should I cancel and have treatment after baby born or risk it and have it. I know it's a lot of ifs and buts, I'm just swimming in questions and I don't want to risk a miscarriage but I obv don't want to get ill xxx

Good luck for this month, @lavender xx

Woohoo! Congratulations, @squ1ggle! Amazing news.

Hope all other ladies are doing well too x

@lavenderlove no I'm not charting anything at the moment it's too much stress, I just know approx when I ovulate and hope for the best. I've just had the results if my smear this afternoon and I have abnormal cells again so hoping that's not effecting my chances xx

It was number 4 officially but probably 5 or 6 really as we'd been sort of trying but not trying for a couple of months

@lavenderlove I'm 5dpo I'm in such a happy place this month, would love it if it could be this time but Lord knows lol I am full of a cold and have been for a week though as has my partner 🙄 xx

@Squ1ggle please donstick around we can pick your brains lol.. what cycle did you manage in the end I'm on 7 now boo xxx

Thank you @lavenderlove booked in to see the midwife on the 29th of November, feels ages off tbh but I'm sure it'll come round soon. Sending bfp vibes to you all. I'd like to still hang around if that's ok

Thank you @Thethreeandme I have everything crossed that this cycle is the one for you