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Anyone around 9 dpo?

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lavenderlove · 29/07/2018 19:00

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle Sad

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Akasia · 15/11/2018 16:14

OMG, @thethreeandme I am thrilled for you! You had so much going on you deserved some good news.
@lavanderlove this should teach us to be more patient and to not test early 🙈

Thethreeandme · 15/11/2018 15:28

Sorry my shakey fingers aren't making much sense lol hope you can figure that message out lol, now jist to tell oh, no idea how to do it because he'd said let's get all my tests out the way and make sure I'm healthy first xx

Thethreeandme · 15/11/2018 15:27

@lavenderlove thank you so much!! I tested last Thursday and Friday before slicing! Them No t3sted on Tuesday with some cheap ones, tested last night bfn then tjat one this morning that was so so faint after 20 mins then about an hour ago and tjat was faint to start but got darker! And I'm not 6 days overdue! This is cycle 8 for me , I'll keep everything crossed for you . And yea I stopped taking mine maybe ask hubby to cone off for a few months. To be honest I didn't have such bad anxiety when I came off them but I do habe my first session of CBT on Friday xx

lavenderlove · 15/11/2018 15:10

@Thethreeandme that's what my dh is onSad and oh my gosh!!! Congratulations! I'm so happy for you. Gives me hope that you've only just got your BFP! Have you tested at all between Friday and now? X

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Thethreeandme · 15/11/2018 14:33

@lavenderlove I was on sertrolene and they said it can effect fertility so I stopped taking them.. and I'm pretty sure I have a bfp now... xxx

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lavenderlove · 15/11/2018 14:13

@Thethreeandme i know what you mean. See what tomorrow brings but fingers crossed for you!! And thanks. I feel like I'm out this month. I'm due af tomorrow so we shall see. My husbands gonna go to the doctors next week to chat about his anxiety meds as I've read they can reduce fertility so just want to check x

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Thethreeandme · 15/11/2018 12:43

Don't worry too much I'm 6 days late and only getting faint line! Xx

Thethreeandme · 15/11/2018 12:43

@lavenderlove I know I just don't want to get my hopes up lol, I'll test again in the morning I think, it's confusing because I'm still spotting brown from the procedure! Just need to know lol xx

lavenderlove · 15/11/2018 12:28

Oh and also I've done a frer this morning at 13dpo and BFN Sad

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lavenderlove · 15/11/2018 12:22

@Thethreeandme glad you've sorted things. That looks promising to me as it looks pretty strong for an evap!! Hold your wee and do another one! Haha x

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Thethreeandme · 15/11/2018 09:21

@Akasia yes I have 2 more of those tests but will get a frer for the morning, I have felt extremely sick this last week but it may be because of my procedure. Will let you k ow xc

Akasia · 15/11/2018 08:41

@thethreeandme glad you've sorted things out with your hub.

I would re test with a frer maybe. It's not very clear in the picture if the line has colour or is grey-ish. As it's after 15 mins I would say don't get excited, retest and 🤞

Keep us updated x

Thethreeandme · 15/11/2018 06:27

Ok, I'm trying not to over think it because it says don't read after 10 mins and it's been like 15 , it didn't come up at first but I looked at it then stuck it in the drawer thinking what's the point it'll stay bfn. Now, obv ill do another tomorrow but wjat do we think.. should I call down.. are we thinking evap line xx

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Thethreeandme · 14/11/2018 17:31

Sorry I've not been on in a while, been a bit stressed! Me and my partner are better now sorted a lot out. I'm now 5 days late bfn though. I guess it's because of lletz but it's driving me mad cus I've felt nauseous for a week and my boobs are killing. So basically my body is just reading me!! How's everyone else getting on xx

lavenderlove · 12/11/2018 17:31

@Thethreeandme thats not fair, I don't think anyone would be in the greatest mood with everything you've got going on! Hopefully he will realise that quickly and apologise. Must be stressful him leaving so much x

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Thethreeandme · 11/11/2018 21:41

Yes treatment all done, because I've been in such a shitty mood my partner has just left . Said he can't take it any more he's not happy and this time he's gone for good. I have been horrible to be around this week so I can't blame him but I feel so sick, hormones are all over the place, not sure what to do now!

lavenderlove · 11/11/2018 17:17

@Thethreeandme I hope you're ok? Glad you've had your treatment though. I hope your results come back all clear.
I'm due af on Friday, not even feeling the urge to test this month as I don't feel pregnant at all. Going to try and wait until at least Saturday to test x

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Thethreeandme · 09/11/2018 21:05

@Akasia update. I just had a total melt down. I think the events of today really have upset me. I feel like a non functioning female. I've calmed down now. But thank you for your reassuring words. I was over reacting lol xxx

Akasia · 09/11/2018 20:53

@thethreeandme I know someone who was going through something similar, had a few miscarriages pre op and lo and behold couple of months after she healed fell pregnant and it's a sticky one this time. So maybe you'll relax a bit during this time and it will happen when you'll least expect it.
And um, it's good in a way that your other half is erm, enjoying himself. Old sperm is not good sperm, got to keep them little guys fresh 😀

Thethreeandme · 09/11/2018 18:23

Hi, I'm ok bit weird feeling, I think now it's all done in sad I'm not pregnant again. But I suppose it's for the best until I get my results! Don't know if I'm letting my mind run away with me but I can't have sex for 4 to 6 weeks and I know it's unreasonable but I'd like my partner gives it also. And I'm certain he treated himself in the shower and I'm upset and angry can someome twll me if I'm being unreasonable or crazy cus of today and hormones cc sorry for tmi xx

BLS1983 · 09/11/2018 15:13

Thanks @Thethreeandme day 39
Now 🙄. How are you? X

Thethreeandme · 09/11/2018 11:51

@dreaminofholidays hi, thanks for replying, I had high grade cells, I've just had local anaesthetic and part if thebcervix cut away and sealed. Results in 3 weeks aparently. They said I'm not pregnant but it won't effect ttc may habe to habe extra monitoring however wjen I do become pregnant as cervix is weakened. It's so achy now! Xc

dreaminofholidays · 09/11/2018 09:28

@thethreeandme What were your changes in your letter? I had a colcoscopy in the summer. I had borderline changes, all they did was take a look and redo my smear. Was fine to have sex afterwards. They were all super lovely

They won't do it until 16 weeks if you are pregnant though.

How did your test go this morning?

xxx

Thethreeandme · 08/11/2018 19:27

@BLS1983 yes I suppose so. So exciting about your news though keeping everything crossed for you, keep us posted in the morning!@!! Xx

BLS1983 · 08/11/2018 18:05

Oh no sorry I haven't hun. Hope it goes well. Try not to think too much and it will be over before you know it x

2 days late according to all. Going go test sat morning as would love to be able to surprise dh on one of our very rare nights out. Was bfn yesterday morning with a FR X

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