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Anyone around 9 dpo?

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lavenderlove · 29/07/2018 19:00

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle Sad

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2mummie5 · 01/08/2018 21:03

I can see a faint line @sachabloom . Fingers crossed for the morning xx

ChaosMoon · 01/08/2018 20:57

Oh wow, fingers crossed for the morning @sachabloom!

sachabloom · 01/08/2018 20:47

@lavenderlove yeah I've got one left! Will let you know how it looks in the morning, for some reason I haven't got much faith!

Thank you xxx

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lavenderlove · 01/08/2018 19:54

@sachabloom glad there's nothing wrong, that must have been a relief for you! And I can definitely see a line there!! Have you got another one to do in the morning?

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sachabloom · 01/08/2018 19:03

@lavenderlove cycle 4, no not actually for TTC. My doctor thought she saw something in my bloods that made it look like I was going infertile (and that's the only info she gave me!). But when I went to the hospital the nurse was quite perplexed by it and happy that nothing was wrong xx

sachabloom · 01/08/2018 19:01

@lavenderlove well I bloody caved and so did he!!😩 no idea what to make of these!

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lavenderlove · 01/08/2018 18:33

Good idea @sachabloom I think I'll ask my DH to do the same.
And I thought the same, I am 24 and have a child conceived from missing a couple of pills so I assumed i would get caught the first month I tried.
Did you go for tests specifically for TTC? What cycle are you on?

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sachabloom · 01/08/2018 15:23

@lavenderlove yeah definitely! I've just told DH to hide the tests because I'm only going to end up in a grump! It's so annoying, I swore I'd be super chilled out.

I'm 25 so I figured it would just happen tbh. Although I went for tests on Monday at the hospital and they all came back clear, and the nurse said she could see my ovary had fired this month so that's definitely a positive xx

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lavenderlove · 01/08/2018 15:11

@ChaosMoon it is torture. I keep putting myself in a mood every morning so I'm going to stay away now until I'm officially late

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lavenderlove · 01/08/2018 15:09

@sachabloom hope AF doesn't arrive for you! I'm due Saturday so we can be moody together on Sunday if she arrives for us both

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lavenderlove · 01/08/2018 15:07

@Akasia if this month feels different to the rest that could be a good sign! It's so stressful isn't it. Wish I was one of them people who could think "it will happen when it happens" but I'm 100% not haha. Yeh I'm hoping it was too early but we will see, I feel like AF is approaching to be honest Sad

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sachabloom · 01/08/2018 15:04

@ChaosMoon thank you for understanding, do feel a bit of a dragon! Although it's nice coz I have been trying for so long I'm quite in the know about policies etc so I've been able to help her as this was not a planned pregnancy so she wasn't as prepared.

Been having bad cramps all day and for me this is usual AF symptoms but I have two FRER at home so I might do one tomorrow morning 😂xx

ChaosMoon · 01/08/2018 14:07

@sachabloom that sucks, however pleased for her you also are. One of my best friends just announced she's having her second. Caught first time, again. And yes I'm happy for her. But...

This could still be your month though!

ChaosMoon · 01/08/2018 14:00

@Akasia a woman on another thread just got her bfp and this was her first month without any symptoms too. You never know!

@lavenderlove that sounds wise off you can do it. Sometimes poas feels like I'm adding a layer of torture. Which is why DH talked me out of testing this morning.

sachabloom · 01/08/2018 13:48

The girl who sits next to me at work just told me she's pregnant. Tbh I am buzzing for her coz she's an amazing girl, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little bit sad I couldn't say "yeah me too!" 😞 bad day today!

sachabloom · 01/08/2018 13:10

@Lubilu28 I think I've messed it up and I think I'm actually only 9DPO today. I'm a bit confused this month as I've had some interesting opks. So at the earliest I'm 11DPO, latest 9.

Trying to not get my hopes up but it's hard! Xx

charliefarli · 01/08/2018 12:32

Im 9dpo. 4th cycle. Getting cramps. I think that probably means AF is on the way which really sucks as I thought we had timed DTD perfectly this month. Sigh.

Lubilu28 · 01/08/2018 11:52

@sachabloom how many dpo are u??

I’m holding out getting tests till next week! I’m only 5dpo but I’m getting the same dull cramps and painful bbs!! Hoping these are all positive signs but I’m pretty sure it’s just my body getting ready for af :(

This tww is going so slow!!

sachabloom · 01/08/2018 11:22

Congratulations @Bellafreud

Did you have any symptoms xx

sachabloom · 01/08/2018 11:10

A bit fed up today, after cramping since ovulation and getting my hopes up that I meant implantation. I now seem to be getting my normal pre Af cramps. I know I shouldn't give up hope yet but it's hard not to!

I've got some FRER so I think I'll test tomorrow with FMU and see. AF due Sunday xxx

Akasia · 01/08/2018 09:55

@Bellafreud congratulations on your BFP 💐
@lavenderlove now I am 10 dpo, still peeing on sticks like crazy 😔 done a frer at work yesterday and bfn.
This is my 4th cycle ttc and first one where I am not experiencing any symptoms at all!! Usually a week or so before af I get sore boobs and cramping but this time nothing.. if only I knew how stressful ttc is I would of started waaay earlier.
Sorry to hear about your bfn, but if af is due Saturday it might be too early for testing so fingers crossed for you 🤞

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lavenderlove · 01/08/2018 09:44

@Squ1ggle so rubbish, I'm sick of thinking about it!

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Squ1ggle · 01/08/2018 09:34

It's rubbish isn't it @lavenderlove.

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lavenderlove · 01/08/2018 09:22

Did another cheapie test today and BFN Sad going to try and stop testing now and just see if AF turns up on Saturday

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Squ1ggle · 01/08/2018 07:30

AF due today or tomorrow I think

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