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Anyone around 9 dpo?

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lavenderlove · 29/07/2018 19:00

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle Sad

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TaeLovexD · 05/08/2018 15:28

2mummie5
I really admire your willpower..!!

Only reason I'm not testing is cause I have no tests. Grin
Ik as soon as I go to work on Tuesday Imma stop at the pharmacy.. BlushBlush

2mummie5 · 05/08/2018 14:06

@lavenderlove and @veeboo sorry to her that AF has arrived...fx for next month xxx

My wife and i have just been discussing doing a test in the morning but we have talked ourselves out of it. So Tuesday is.
Xx

teacuptale · 05/08/2018 14:01

Nicola, that sounds very promising!

Nicola345 · 05/08/2018 13:46

@positivejade.... I took a picture then threw it away, then realised it didnt save.so i will have to wait until morning again then post

TaeLovexD · 05/08/2018 13:45

Sorry to hear that @lavenderlove and @veeboo
Fx for a BFP next month.

AF hasn't arrived yet. But I have a dull ache in my back and sore nipples for 2 days now(my boobs dont bother me at all really)
I'm getting irritated, I really think my cycle is longer this month but if AF coming its like "Come right now Ms."Angry

positivejade · 05/08/2018 13:39

@Nicola345 A lines a line! Any pictures?

Nicola345 · 05/08/2018 13:36

Hi im 9dpo and tested yesterday and noticed the faintest of lines, tested again first thing this morning and its more visible. Do you think i could be pregnant.

lavenderlove · 05/08/2018 12:17

Thank you @positivejade @veeboo @teacuptale @Thethreeandme . Feeling really disappointed but will just try and focus on the next cycle now. Good idea about treating myself, I will have a few gins tonight now I know I can haha.

Good luck to you all! Sorry af arrived for you too @veeboo Hopefully this cycle will be our month!

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Thethreeandme · 05/08/2018 11:46

@lavenderlove that's so sad I'm sorry.. I'm on cycle 3 now and trying to relax.. I'm 8 days dpo and we did 11th.. I'm having zero symptoms like.. nada. I keep feeling my boobs as that's the first thing to go but they feel fine stupid things. Just like all of you.. have to wait 😔 xx

teacuptale · 05/08/2018 11:22

Sorry to hear that lavenderlove. If you can, treat yourself to something. When I ttc, I give myself a consolation present when af appears, such as a book or a big bar of chocolate. As disappointing as it is, this is cd 1 and a fresh start! That’s what I tell myself when af appears.

veeboo · 05/08/2018 11:22

Ah @lavenderlove sorry to hear that and snap AF has arrived here too. Note to self...if it feels like period pain it probably is. At least I'm learning which of my apps is most reliable! Clue got it spot on.

positivejade · 05/08/2018 11:03

@lavenderlove Sorry to hear that! Be sure to spoil yourself today and as you say, onto the next! You'll get your bfp ❤️

lavenderlove · 05/08/2018 10:57

Af has shown for me today, i'm absolutely gutted Sad but on to cycle 3...

Good luck to everyone, hope you all get your BFP's this month. I'll be sticking around to see how everyone gets on!

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positivejade · 05/08/2018 10:16

@lavenderlove No I'm never late! I'm either bang on time or a couple of days early, it's very strange! But the whole time I'm late I have a glimmer of hope, it's tiny but it's there 😍

positivejade · 05/08/2018 10:14

It's so strange how our bodies play tricks on us! Sometimes I think to myself, did I even feel all this before TTC?

8 days late and counting! And no BFP!
Hope I either get a positive or she visits soon! Keeping myself from all the good things in life just in case! 🍷

Will call the doctors on Monday, I know there's a lot that can throw off a cycle so they probably won't say much, but my friend has just been told she has a cyst on her ovary so wouldn't want to leave it too long.

Haven't told my partner yet as I don't want
to get his hopes up! So it's nice to talk on here, thank you for reading ❤️

veeboo · 05/08/2018 09:22

No idea what happened there...should say cramping!*

veeboo · 05/08/2018 09:22

Hi ladies! Still here and still cramping. 13dpo today. AF due tomorrow (or maybe Tuesday according to ovia). I'm not testing...not having any tests in the house helping with this. I'm just confused by the continued ctsmoing. Normally I'd get a day or two then a gap before AF. It's so hard not to think too much of it...

dreaminofholidays · 05/08/2018 08:09

@2mummie5 it is very confusing how these things come and go.

I am going to try and just see if AF shows. If these tests work off a 14 day luteal phase anyway there may be no point in me testing early anyway.

It is all so confusing x

teacuptale · 05/08/2018 08:03

BFN this morning and still no af. I think stress is pushing back af. Hope you all have better luck.

spottypyjamas · 05/08/2018 07:59

@dreaminofholidays af due today and 99% sure she will be here, but I've accepted it for this mo th now so onto the next one.

Sorry about the Bfn defo still hope though as you are early still. I say this every month but I really need to stop testing so early. That one i did at 10dpo that looked positive was so hard to deal with when it wasn't.

Good look to everyone else with their fingers crossed still. Hopefully some more bfps due x

2mummie5 · 05/08/2018 07:48

@dreaminofholidays you managed to cover off what you missed on the thread better than I could! Apologies to those i missed

I'm feeling ok, no signs of anything so far today yet. The sore (.)(.) I had a few days ago have gone now... the pains/aches have gone. So i don't really know what to think now!

I'll just try and stay positive and I'll hopefully know on Tuesday one way or the other.

Maybe you should try and hold off a few days then test again if no AF xxx

dreaminofholidays · 05/08/2018 07:36

@thethreeandme @spottypyjamas any news?

@chaosmoon congratulations, love seeing BFPs!

@2mummie5 I have everything crossed you for you and think you've got amazing will power to wait until Tuesday! how are you feeling?

@blitzen sorry for the BFN but as others say, it is still early for a BFP. It's unfortunately a waiting game.

@positivejade @lavenderlove @teacuptale I hope you all get answers soon. The 2ww sucks enough without having it extend for longer.

@mommybear1 It is so hard to resist the temptation to test. I think hold out for longer if you, if you can't, then do what makes you feel happier

@TaelovexD I'm also due AF Monday. Fingers crossed she doesn't need to pay us a visit.

Sorry for saying hello and then running, yesterday was manic. I got a BFN as expected. I got my static smiley a week ago on Friday and apparently ovulation is between 24-48 hours after that so Saturday was way too early to test.

I haven't been tracking cycles for long but from the couple of months I have done AF is likely to show Monday which is a very very short luteal phase so maybe it will be a longer cycle this month. I just hate all the unknowns and the waiting! xxx

2mummie5 · 05/08/2018 07:21

Hi to the jpiners of the thread. I think I missed quite a bit yesterday but good luck to each and every one of you. Hopefully this thread will see some BFPs over the next few days.

I've just made myself go to the loo without picking up a test on route! I was tempted to waste the IC but then thought better of it.

2 more sleeps. ...

@lavenderlove and @TaeLovexD @teacuptale all the stress of ttc plays havoc with our cycles doesn't it! Just to add to the stress! Xx

lavenderlove · 04/08/2018 21:18

Hi @TaeLovexD seems to be the case that our cycles mess up when we're TTC! Good luck I hope af doesn't turn up for you on Monday.

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lavenderlove · 04/08/2018 21:18

Hi @TaeLovexD seems to be the case that our cycles mess up when we're TTC! Good luck I hope af doesn't turn up for you on Monday.

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