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TTC First Baby. Anyone else?! New Post

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Delilah7 · 25/07/2018 20:56

Hi ladies. We reached the max posts!! @BambiOnIce80 I'm feeling ok, just feel abit silly. My flo app says I'm due tomorrow but I am always 28 days and always have cramps which I don't have yet. How about you xx

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Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 20:36

@Virgo89 thank you so much. So nice even strangers understand. Wish my sister could just do that. X

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Virgo89 · 01/08/2018 20:19

@Delilah7 I know exactly how you feel 😔 All the excitement builds up and you can't help but think about all sorts of things and then it comes crashing down. Really sorry you're going through it x

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Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 20:13

@Virgo89 I agree.
Atleast I didn't have one later one. It's just hard. Even though it was the size of a poppy seed it was so exciting and my little baby. X

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Virgo89 · 01/08/2018 20:07

So sorry to hear that @Delilah7 😔 Also sorry that your sister made it about her when clearly this is about you. As hard as it may be, try to remain positive. It happened to me in June and I tried to stay positive thinking that I was "lucky" that it happened early on in the pregnancy as it would have been much worse had it happened later on. Thinking of you ♥️

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Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 19:41

Thank you xx

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Lauren2sim · 01/08/2018 19:23

Oh @delilah7 I'm gutted for you, sending love and light x

Patapouf · 01/08/2018 18:47

Oh Delilah I’m so sorry to hear that Flowers

CrystalBlaze · 01/08/2018 18:40

Oh @Delilah I am so sorry to hear that. Sending lots of love Flowers

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Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 18:08

Time is a great healer. Thanks ladies. Hopefully gonna rest for a while have another normal period and possibly try again... just sucks :( I'm gonna be even more on edge now xx

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CookieWaffle · 01/08/2018 17:41

Oh @Delilah7 I'm so gutted for you, can't imagine how you must feel right now. I'm glad your family have been so supportive. This one may not have stuck but there must've been a good reason why it wasn't meant to be. it'll happen for you another time. Allow yourself some time to grieve and recover first xxx

Hofty · 01/08/2018 17:24

@Delilah7 I have a sister who sounds a lot like that! You have my complete sympathy, such an awful thing to happen to any woman. I don’t really know what to say, other than time is a great healer. I hope that isn’t insensitive Flowers

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Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 17:20

Honestly I really am. Can't tell my grandad now. 😭 my family and especially my brother who didn't even know I was pregnant was supportive. Unfortunately my sister decided to say she had a miscarriage but was never pregnant on pregnancy tests and make it about her.

What am I going to do now 😔

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ChaosMoon · 01/08/2018 17:08

Oh sweetheart, you must be devastated, I'm so sorry. Big hugs.

RanchoRelaxo · 01/08/2018 16:54

So sorry @Delilah7 Flowers gutted for you

Hofty · 01/08/2018 16:49

@Delilah7 I’m so so so incredibly sorry lovely. We’re always here. Take care Flowers x

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Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 16:38

I've been a & e as advised. Unfortunately bleeding got worse and from the wee the test was negative so I'm currently miscarrying.
Please when you ladies are pregnant call up over whatever you're not sure of. I did the best thing. My little poppy seed wasn't ready. Xx

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ChaosMoon · 01/08/2018 16:04

Oh shit. @Delilah7 have you seen a doctor? I'm so sorry you're going through this.

Whowouldhavethoughtit · 01/08/2018 15:58

Oh no @Delilah7 I'm so sorry to hear that :( we are all here for you x

BambiOnIce80 · 01/08/2018 15:49

Oh please no @Delilah7 😰 Why is life so unfair 😟 Sending you huge amounts of love and support.xx

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Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 15:25

Unfortunately I'm miscarrying ladies x

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Bec18x · 01/08/2018 13:40

My ovusense has arrived today so I’ll be trying it out for the next month and see how I get on with it!🤞🏻

CookieWaffle · 01/08/2018 12:55

Hey new ladies! @40cmsanta I lurked for a bit too but now I've got slightly addicted! The power of the Internet strangers!

BambiOnIce80 · 01/08/2018 12:21

@40cmsanta, welcome 🙂 I had my minerva removed in April. I was an exception to the rule though because my periods didn't stop when I was on it (as I said previously, I don't think even a nuclear apocalypse could stop mine!). The point of the coil though is that your fertility should just snap back to whatever is normal for you immediately, so hopefully you won't be waiting long for AF.

@RanchoRelaxo I must admit I did look this month (just because I was feeling queasy and optimistic that this could of been the month 🙄) and it turned out it would have coincided with my birthday... which I wasn't keen on!! I can put that in the list of positives for the fact that AF turned up this cycle 😄

RanchoRelaxo · 01/08/2018 12:09

Hello to all the new posters Smile it is nice to have somewhere to chat, wishing you all speedy journey's
Whowouldhavethoughtit I might use one of the fertility lubes this month, ChaosMoon will be interesting see if it helps!
At the start of a new cycle does anyone else do a check to see what their due date would be if you got pregnant this month? Or is that just me 😂🙈

40cmsanta · 01/08/2018 11:34

I have been watching this thread for a while, and thought I'd stop being a lurker and say "hello" :)

Me and my DH are just starting the journey TTC. I have had my mirena coil removed, we are taking our conception vitamins, and once I have had my first AF post-coil, it will be game on! (I've had no AF for the 9 years I had the coil, so I'm a little anxious it may never return).

I just wanted to thank you all for sharing. It is heartwarming to know that there is a kind support community here. I wish you all the best!

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