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Starting 2ww once again! Who's with me?

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alicepol · 13/07/2018 12:51

Looks like another 2ww for me, anyone else just Starting? I'm only 2DPO so still 12 days to get through!

Age - 25
TTC #2
Cycle 5
CD 16 on a 27 day cycle (usually)
Only 2 DPO
AF due 25th July

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Llanali · 13/08/2018 19:45

I caught first time with my DD, waited eight months to catch with my last one that ended in disaster at the start of the second tri. It’s horrendous this waiting business, I really sympathize. Now on month 10 post MC again :(

Maybe this is our month?

Fingers crossed for your ladies in the tww!!

Wellcome rollerball.

Leighanndancer · 13/08/2018 19:18

I’m finding it had as I caught with my daughter first time and then caught first time again with the little jellybean I miscarried. So 9 months on and im struggling

8DaysAWeek · 13/08/2018 19:17

Ooh halfblood it's so hard to resist sometimes!!

Welcome rollerball. We aren't the most optimistic bunch haha hope you're ok with that!

I'm only 2dpo. Two!!!! I'm not just saying this but I'm SO sure this isn't our month. I'd put money on. Things just don't feel right this month for some reason, my body feels off.

CrystalBlaze · 13/08/2018 17:46

Oh god @Halfblood I am so with you. I am going to try my best to hold out till around Sunday. Think I am 8dpo today.

BasinHaircut · 13/08/2018 17:37

Come join us rollerball. Are you on DPO or still waiting to Ov?

Flowers for those of you on long journeys to the BFP.

halfblood it’s tough isn’t it. We know in our heads that it’s incredibly unlikely that we will get any symptoms in the 2ww, but we still look out for them Grin

TheHalfBloodPrincess · 13/08/2018 17:18

Welcome @rollerball84.

I know I said I wasn’t going to symptom spot, but my boobs are soooo achy today! And I’m shattered! Had to have a nap this afternoon. I’m 7/8dpo and twitching over whether to buy an frer for Saturday 🙈🙈🙈

Rollerball84 · 13/08/2018 17:00

Can I join in? Not on 2ww wait exactly...cd36 and counting? 😫

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alicepol · 13/08/2018 16:28

Don't give up hope girls! Your not out until AF comes! Fx for you both!

5 dpo here and already wanting to test 😂😂 I've been a bit better than last month though so that's good. Probably because I don't feel we've done enough this month but oh well!

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Llanali · 13/08/2018 16:04

You and me both @Leighanndancer.

I’m 13 dpo and it’s totally BFN.

I’m losing hope as I race toward the 2 year mark. It’s torrure.

Leighanndancer · 13/08/2018 12:07

I’m due tomorrow but I tested this morning and bfn don’t think anything will change. Starting to feel very very depressed about it.
Good luck the rest of you ladies

BasinHaircut · 13/08/2018 11:41

Lad yes??? Ladies Grin

BasinHaircut · 13/08/2018 11:41

Morning ladYes!

4-5 DPO here and my nipples are no longer sore. Don’t know what all that was about, I’m guessing hormones. I’ve been on the pill for so long that it could be completely normal around ov time and I’d never have remembered (or known as I wouldn’t have been thinking about ovulation).

I have my best friend’s wedding next week so if I haven’t seen hide not hair of AF by the morning before the wedding (13-14 DPO) then I’ll have to test. But I think I have a short luteal phase (is that what it’s called?) anyway so if AF is coming then she will probably show up around Sunday.

TheHalfBloodPrincess · 12/08/2018 16:56

@llanali my temp stayed up last month and I wasn’t pregnant so please try not to give up hope!

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alicepol · 12/08/2018 16:55

It can still be early then, especially with cheapies! Fx for you, your not out yet!

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Llanali · 12/08/2018 16:06

And I’m testing with 20iu sensitivity cheapies so I suppose maybe it’s just not there yet?

My temp going down worries me though: I think I’m out. I was stupidly excited this month :( this was the month I caught last year.

Llanali · 12/08/2018 16:04

I’ll be 12 dpo tomorrow I think. Possibly 13/14.

Thinking back, I was 7 days late with DD before I tested, and even then the lines were not equal in darkness. Obvious, but not like parallel tramlines.

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alicepol · 12/08/2018 13:34

Welcome back to the tww @8daysaweek 4 2 and 1 days before o sounds good and like you've given yourself a good chance. I only done 1 and 2 days before O, feeling like I've not given it enough of a chance.

How many dpo are you @llanali ? Ovia always tells me I can test on 12 dpo and that can still be quite early for some people! Your not out til AF shows her ugly head! Fx!

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Llanali · 12/08/2018 10:13

Fingers crossed @8DaysAWeek

Thinking of you @Leighanndancer

So ovia app says I can test tomorrow. I tested today :( completely bfn.

If I were pg it would show by now wouldn’t it? My temp has gone down two days in a row now :( still higher than pre ov.

Af not due according to ovia until 18th. Which is a 16/17 day luteal phase.

8DaysAWeek · 12/08/2018 09:36

Got my temp rise this morning so I'm going to assume I O'd yesterday, which is a day or so later than usual. I just hope we've done enough. BD 4, 2 and 1 day before O. Wanted to do it last night but DS put a stop to that.

So, 1dpo. sigh

Leighanndancer · 12/08/2018 09:09

Sounds just like us then

Wish it wasn’t so difficult 😞

3 days until AF due and trying to distract myself as we are on holiday in rainy Devon

Llanali · 11/08/2018 23:49

Yep. I was very ill with mine, had a blood transfusion and a week in hospital. Emergency surgery etc. So I understand the post MC sex issue :(

Plus my husband isn’t as highly sex driven as me. So even once we were passed the MC physically, he doesn’t always want it, let alone every day so I think we often miss the window.

Leighanndancer · 11/08/2018 23:06

It’s not just that. The last thing I wanted was sex and my hubby was scared of coming near me for ages. He doesn’t want to see me go through the heartbreak ever again

Llanali · 11/08/2018 22:32

Its so hard though.

Everyone told me I’d be super fertile after my MC but it’s been 9 cycles and not even a hint of a tiny line.

Leighanndancer · 11/08/2018 22:05

Had to delete the Ovia app as I was getting obsessed

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alicepol · 11/08/2018 21:32

Here we go again girls! 😂

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