Anyone just starting the tww?

Thanks ladies. I think he's been putting it iff because my first lot came back fine so it's scaring him to get his arse in gear. I get it. I put off doing mine for a bit too because I didn't want to feel like i was the broken one.
As I said to him, it could be he's fine and I've got some blockage needing fixing. Or we could both be fine and very unlucky.

Sorry to hear that @FSlater
Still early though so there’s hope yet! X

BFN this morning at 9dpo 😔

@Maisypops of course you're annoyed, I would be furious.

Feeling crampy now but I'm not sure if its physcosymatic after the BFN this morning. I'm also being an absolute b*tc# with DH. Want to know one way or another...

@BlueArtemis sounds like we really are in the same boat! When I’ve had really bad back cramps there are times when I think ‘this isn’t normal for me, surely I must be pregnant’ and then other times I’ve convinced AF will arrive.
Not feeling too optimistic today, I’m testing Monday morning but I feel sure that AF is going to arrive between now and then.

Hugs to you @MaisyPops - speak to DH about this, he can’t keep putting this off when it’s so important to you both xx

Congratulations bas.

I'm out... again.

That's us on 2 years with no contraception now and no baby. We can't move forward until DH sorts himself out and gets his sperm analysis and he's been putting it off for 6 months since my firsr round of tests confirmed ovation and normal cycles. He keeps saying he must do it but then doesn't. It's really annoying me.

Congrats @Bas27, so excited for you!  @Charlotte1x I feel your pain, I'm testing tomorrow and I'm alternating between being sure I'm pregnant and sure I'm not!! I've been driving myself crazy with symptom spotting all week, I must have had every "symptom" in the book (or more likely I've imagined that I had!). I've also had lots of AF-like cramps so I'm really hoping she doesn't turn up I'll be 13-14dpo tomorrow so hopefully I'll get a clear answer...

Thank you lovelies @mumplanner, @Charlotte1x
Having a lazy day today and then off to a music festival tomorrow so hoping to cheer myself up. Thanks for all the Support lovelies.

Good luck @Charlotte hopefully they're BFP twinges and not AF 🤞🤞🤞

@mumplanner thanks for your support, it’s killing me too 😂 I think deep down though I know it’s gonna be a BFN so I’m just prolonging the inevitable and really should put myself out my misery! I’m just waiting because I know AF is going to show at some point and that will feel less disappointing than doing the test xx

@Bas27 congratulations!

Another BFN for me this morning too ☹️ still really nauseous and crampy though, not sure if I just have a stomach bug so might try and get hold of a FRER today just to check.

@FlapJackered he's on a health kick now so hopefully in three months time his sperm will be better swimmers too! Fingers crossed for us both!

Hugs to you @TheMagicTorch xx

Sorry to hear that @TheMagicTorch - make sure you treat yourself this weekend x

@Bas27 congratulations again! That's a fab line!

Not even a squinter for me this morning 😕 stark white at 12dpo. Can't help but be disappointed.

Wow @Bas27 congratulations! Definite positive - looks just like mine did 😊.
@Charlotte1x - the suspense is killing me - you’re a far stronger woman than I am!
@TrevorJ - I got BFNs on a variety of different ones and then a BFP on an FRER first x

@Bas27 Congratulations!!! 🎉🥂
Amazing news! That is an unmistakable line!
Have you had any symptoms at all?
Thanks, I suppose all I need is one sperm preferably without multiple heads or tails!

@TrevorJ - thank you, that is a good way to look at it! Good luck testing today!

@donna474 that's amazing that your partner had a miracle baby and a good sign that it can happen naturally. Fx'd for you!
It's difficult not to let these things worry us isn't it.

@Baz27 Congratulations that's a BFP for sure. I just got a bfn with the internet ones. May go and buy some FRERs today.

@Bas27 congrats! that's a very clear line! 🎉 I tested last night at 10dpo and BFN, I don't feel anything other than I had the pinching sensation on 7DPO so counting myself out this cycle I think.

I’m 12 DPO this morning and still don’t dare test :( I want to but then don’t want to, because it’s it’s a BFP I’m going to be so disappointed. Got symptoms of AF arriving, apart from very tender nipples and a soreness in my lower back which I needed paracetamol for again last night. X

Wow a definite line, didn’t even have to open the pic! Congrats to you @Bas27 !
💐💐💐💐 x

It's so weird isnt it @bas27 one minute I think I'm in and the next out. I used FRER. And using FRER again in the morning. I should be 12dpo tomorrow so I know I'm not out until AF but to be honest if it's a BFN tomorrow I'll count myself out. Fingers crossed for you tomorrow lovely 🤞🤞

@bas27 I second that entire second message! Tested today (only 8dpo haha...) and BFN. Like so negative. Haha. Going to wait until Monday. Can’t decide if I think I’m pregnant or building up to period. Trying my absolute best to forget about it until AF but it’s hard!! X