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Anyone just starting the tww?

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Bas27 · 04/07/2018 19:39

Hi all!
Either 1dpo or on ovulation day here! Been trying smep this month but hoping for a few lovely ladies to go through the tww with!
Age: 26
Ttc: #1
Cycle #2

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TrevorJ · 06/07/2018 22:53

@Donna474 So many symptoms are the same as PMS, it's frustrating. Are you temping or testing for O?

oakleywhite · 06/07/2018 22:47

My AF is due on the 22nd but I'll be away for a hen that weekend so planning to test on 12dpo (17th) which is 5 days early but FRER says it's 96% accurate at 5 days early.
I wouldn't be able to wait until after the hen to test!! I'm only 1 dpo right now, fml!! 😂

donna474 · 06/07/2018 22:19

3 dpo for me. Cycle 6 for first baby. Have been off contraception for 6 months and now seem to be getting pregnancy symptoms just before period which is super irritating when trying not to convince myself I'm pregnant! Can't wait to see everyone's results after tww!

TrevorJ · 06/07/2018 20:54

@Baz27 @Charlotte1x from what I've read it's its 8-10 days before implantation before that your body doesn't know if its pregnant or just going through the motions.

TrevorJ · 06/07/2018 20:51

It doesn't help that my phone has clocked on to what is going on so doesn't stop showing me baby and pregnancy related adverts!

TrevorJ · 06/07/2018 20:49

Really need this right now. I'm obsessing so hard!
Age:31
TTC #1
Cycle: 3

Its only kind of cycle 3, cycle 2 proper. First time I've done any tracking and decided to go for the cheaply ovulation test strips from amazon. According to them I ovulated on CD 19/20, we didn't BD on those days last month so it kind of makes sense. Glad I know now although its didn't tie in perfectly with CM but hey ho. Just worried bow that my lutenal phase isn't long enough as I only have an average 30 day cycle. The amazon box came with 10 hgc test so I think I'll start them from dpo 10 or so and then get a proper one at the end of that if still no AF.

I've actually quite enjoyed testing makes me feel more in charge. That is after the days when there was no second line!

Charlotte1x · 06/07/2018 20:36

@Bas27 only 5 so it’s very unlikely... in fact the twinges are getting that frequent that I don’t know if it’s a sign AF is going to show very early. I usually get mild twinges for quite a few days before AF arrives. Which would mean I ovulated earlier than I thought and potentially missed my chance anyway... really need to try and stop thinking about all this! Lol. We will drive ourselves crazy x

Bas27 · 06/07/2018 19:26

@Charlotte1x thanks for the sympathy ❤️
How many dpo did you say you were? I think from about 6 it's reasonable to get some symptoms.
I'm only on 2...

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Charlotte1x · 06/07/2018 18:13

Hi @TheMagicTorch ! Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. My fingers are crossed that this is the month for you. For us all hopefully!

Oh @Bas27 - how do you know you’ve definitely got a bug? It’s so hard not to symptom spot isn’t it :( try and preoccupy yourself with other things if you can. I’m one to talk though, I’ve been googling every tiny symptom I’ve had! I’ve had period like cramps in my lower back and never usually would at this stage of my cycle, immediately started hoping it’s some sort of implantation pain but I really need to try and preoccupy my mind! At this rate I’ll end up imagining pains! Xx

Bas27 · 06/07/2018 17:50

Hi all, checking in for today. Welcome if you're new to the thread!
Am 2dpo today and in a very similar position to you @purplestar9 - only difference is I'm 26.
@TheMagicTorch nice to see you over from the smep board.

Our house is up for sale and we had some viewings tonight. I was running around like a crazy person tidying and have cramps (like when you run too much) found out my mum (who I saw this morning) has come down with a bug! So now worried about having that and if it will hinder my chances of implantation...
I read that basically most eggs will become fertilised if you bd at the right time.
The reason behind the low chance of pregnancy is only 1/3 implant. The rest are flushed.

I also had ewcm last Saturday... but this was the only day of my cycle this happen and didn't get +opk until Tuesday... my brain is going haywire "what if the tests got it wrong?!" My boobs are already sore. ( I think they do this at ov though... even though it's been 3 days) "maybe what I thought was ovulation pain was actually implantation"
Ridiculous I know. I have a goddamn bug.

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purplestar9 · 06/07/2018 17:46

Hi @TheMagicTorch
Sorry to hear about your hard time last cycle, hopefully this cycle is more positive for you!
I'm still suffering with almost daily headaches since about 2 weeks after stopping the pill (so this has been for about 5-6 weeks now), really hoping they calm down soon!
Has anyone else suffered with headaches after stopping the pill? X

TheMagicTorch · 06/07/2018 16:41

Hi everyone
Age: 29
TTC Baby 1, Cycle 4
5dpo, AF due 17th July and determined not to early test - had a horrible time with an early miscarriage/chemical at 4 weeks last cycle.

Tried SMEP this month too, went really well and used OPKs for the first time.
Good luck everyone ❤️

tollie00 · 06/07/2018 15:22

@Charlotte1x eeek AF due for me on 15th!!
I bought some clearblue about 2 weeks ago when we decided to start ttc, then last week after looking online I bought some FRER, now I realise I will definitely lose my testing willpower after feeling this crazy at 5dpo that today I bought some cheaper (£1 ea, pack of 6) early results ones from Amazon.

This is going to get expensive.

Mumplanner · 06/07/2018 14:37

I have to admit I’ve gone crazy on the tests - which is crazy as I don’t know how many days post ovulation or pre AF I am! I’m fairly sure I won’t be getting my BFP this month, which is hard after all my ‘symptom spotting’, I was feeling like I would. I think it’s going to be a tough day when AF does arrive. @2018isanewyear - you’re definitely right not to keep tests in the house! I definitely can’t be trusted around them

Charlotte1x · 06/07/2018 14:08

Hi @purplestar9 ! X
@tollie00 I’ve decided I’m gonna test on 16th July I think, unless AF comes first. That’ll be 13/14 DPO so I’m hoping if it’s positive it would be quite clear! If I had the ‘is it a line or not?’ situation I think I’d be an anxious wreck! Will be so hard to resist though. What about you? X

purplestar9 · 06/07/2018 13:55

Hello, can I join?
Age: 27
TTC #1
Cycle #2
I think I'm 2 DPO but I'm not 100% when I ovulated as I think it was late last month.
I'm going to try not to test until my AF is late as I wasted a few last month!
Wishing you all good luck!

tollie00 · 06/07/2018 13:38

@2018isanewyear enjoy your spa day!

How many dpo is everyone planning to test?

2018isanewyear · 06/07/2018 08:45

I have a spa day today with my friend if that can't take my mind off the TWW nothing can

Charlotte1x · 06/07/2018 07:43

Hi @oakley !
Yep patience is something I’m trying to learn too. So hard not to get hopes up though! X

oakleywhite · 06/07/2018 07:42

Hi all,
Just starting my very first 2ww.
I'm 29, cycle 1 and 1dpo.
I know realistically the chances are against me on month one, but I feel like the crazy side of my brain is convinced it'll happen straight away! I need to learn patience with this journey.

Blinkys · 06/07/2018 01:57

@BlueArtemis a glass or two so early shouldn't affect the baby surely? It's not connected to your blood yet just travelling down. Of course don't get blackout drunk but if it's going to stress you out then I wouldn't feel bad nursing a glass or two all night if I were you.

Fingers crossed everyone!

MrsT1983 · 06/07/2018 00:37

Hi, can I join too please? Ttc #2, 1st cycle, think i’m 2dpo today. Not sure I can wait another 8-10 days to test, it feels sooo far away! I’m already imaginary symptom spotting......

2018isanewyear · 05/07/2018 19:04

Hopefully ladies! I'm loosing my mind which is very unlike me!

Before mc I was the positive one and DH the negative one but it's now the opposite and I would love to get my old self backHmm

Fingers crossed for everyone Thanks

Bas27 · 05/07/2018 18:49

Wow! Welcome to all the new ladies added! Everyone is in slightly different places so we should hopefully get a line of bfps!
Myself and DH started out pretty chill but only on cycle 2 now and have gone off the deep end. 0-60 in 1.2 seconds. 😂
It will be great to see all of the bfps coming in! 🤞

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Charlotte1x · 05/07/2018 18:34

@tollie00 I’m only on cycle 1 and feel a bit crazy! Hope it doesn’t get worse lol.

@2018isanewyear sorry to hear about your mc 💐 fingers crossed this is your cycle! TTC can be so mentally and physically draining can’t it xx

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