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TTC after pregnancy loss- thread 23 🐧🐧

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Boboelephant · 30/06/2018 11:58

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Here's the new thread. This is a lovely supportive thread for anyone who has suffered the loss of a much wanted baby. Affectionately known as the penguin huddle- this is the place to survive the ups and downs of this crazy journey.

Kicking off with a roll call:

Boboelephant
Age: 35
TTC #2
DS 2.5
MMC at 10 weeks in December 2017. Ectopic rupture in November 2016.
Cycle 6 post MC. Trying since September 2016.

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HidCat · 01/07/2018 10:26

@dreaminofholidays it's still early days yet. I'd normally say try to stay positive but apparently writing off your cycle is the way to go lol

@Gillead2029 so sorry for your loss but 🤞for a new pregnancy.

@TedLife I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling. I hope you have plenty of support at home.

@Mistymeow welcome back. I hope you get some answers soon and that your rainbow is right around the corner.

Mistymeow · 01/07/2018 09:45

I missed the last thread as I was on holiday. Congrats to those with your bfps. Sorry to those who have recently joined. Sending lots of hugs.

34 ttc #1
MMC April (9 weeks)
Ttc since 2016 (DH starting fertility treatment this month)
3rd cycle since mmc

I think I had a second anovulatory cycle (no thermal shift and late af). Will see what happens this cycle but will go to the doctors if things are still not right.

sweetpea0318 · 01/07/2018 08:55

@MrsLCW hahaha! 😂

YellowDaffodils86 · 01/07/2018 08:53

@MrsLCW haha that phrase was said alot to me too, a couple of years ago, when we bought our house! But for you its so true!! Congratulations, hope its a sticky healthy bean.

@Lovemysparkle wow congratulations, so nice to read. Congratulations on your wedding too. I agree, @littleemma1 is goes so fast, try to take time to soak it it.
So you were not going to ttc before wedding, but obviously dtd, did you do that in what you thought was outside fw?
Its fuuny how it happens when you dont try!

TedLife · 01/07/2018 08:50

TedLife
32, TTC #1
MMC at 8 weeks after heartbeat on scan. Not discovered until 11weeks in May 2018
On cd3, 2nd cycle post MC
TTC since Feb 2018

AF is here and I can't stop crying.

Gillead2029 · 01/07/2018 08:38

Am I too late for the roll call?

I'm 26, have had one miscarriage 4 and a bit weeks ago (at 11 weeks) and now I'm waiting to find out why my tests are suddenly positive 😫

MrsLCW · 01/07/2018 08:33

@sweetpea0318 if I had £1 for every time I'd heard that phrase this past few weeks 😂😂 gonna have to hide my smirk from now on when people say it 😂

dreaminofholidays · 01/07/2018 08:31

Huge congratulations to @lovemysparkle and @mrslwc. Lovely news.

I did a FRER this morning at 11dpo & got a BFN. I think AF will arrive this week. xx

robin78 · 01/07/2018 08:29

@mrslcw wow! Great news!! July is getting off to great start on the thread.

sweetpea0318 · 01/07/2018 08:28

Thanks @robin78 and @boboelephant. Reassuring to hear other's experiences. Keeping fingers crossed that it's just going to be a late one this month. Can't help but feel down about it though. I've done my first headspace this morning though so trying to claw back some semblance of calm and positivity.

@MrsLCW congratulations! Lovely news. New house new baby as my mum always says to me! Xx

TinyPaws · 01/07/2018 08:28

@MrsLCW Oooh, congrats!

MrsLCW · 01/07/2018 08:26

Thanks @HidCat I know, we only managed to DTD twice in June with hubby being away then having AF when he was home 😂 he even joked and asked who the Dad is 😂😂
@Boboelephant I've absolutely EVERYTHING crossed for you lovely!!!
Xxx

0lapislazuli · 01/07/2018 08:25

Hi everyone, joining for the first time.

Age: 35
TTC: no 2
Over the past year, had chemical pregnancy, missed miscarriage and a loss.

First cycle since loss and have no idea where I am in my cycle!

Boboelephant · 01/07/2018 08:23

Oh @MrsLCW congratulations hun!!! What lovely news ❤❤ so happy for you!! My due date is next week, I hope I get my little miracle too.

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HidCat · 01/07/2018 08:22

@MrsLCW congratulations! That's fab! I can't believe both you and @Lovemysparkle had basically written off a cycle only to get bfp!

Blondcat · 01/07/2018 08:15

Wow great news to wake up to this morning!
Congratulations @lovemysparkle on both the wedding and bfn. And also @mrslcw.
Fx for sticky beans xxx

MrsLCW · 01/07/2018 08:15

Huge congrats to everyone with their BFPs 😘😘
What a morning indeed! X

littleemma1 · 01/07/2018 08:13

Another one!! What an amazing morning!! Congratulations @MrsLCW xxx

Boboelephant · 01/07/2018 08:11

@charlyn so sorry to hear about your ectopic. I had one too and it was terrifying. Have the docs given you the all clear to try again after one af? If so that is good news. I had to wait 3 months which felt like an age!

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Martydog · 01/07/2018 08:10

Just place marking
Ttc number 2
Miscarriage Oct 17 at 6.5 weeks
Mmc May 18 7.5 weeks
Husband away until 30 July so not ttc this month.

Laney79 · 01/07/2018 08:09

More good news! Congrats @MrsLCW that's wonderful!

This thread feels very lucky this morning and full of positive baby vibes!

Boboelephant · 01/07/2018 08:06

@strawberrye sorry for bfn but it's still early especially on an IC!
@sweetpea0318 yep happened to me. First 2 cycles were day 17 and 16 and 3rd cycle day 22! Its frustrating but just keep testing. Fx it happens soon.

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MrsLCW · 01/07/2018 08:04

Hello lovely lovely ladies!

So sorry I've been mega quiet, we've been moving! Hubby made me do a test on thurs morning before we started moving boxes etc and I was so shocked to see a BFP 3 days before AF was due. It was the day after a hugely emotional what should have been Penny's due date 😢 I like to think she's sent a little brother or sister to help dry some of our tears.

Lots of love to you all
Xxx

robin78 · 01/07/2018 07:59

@sweetpea0318 this has happened to me. Last cycle I think I didn’t ovulate and then this cycle (I know strictly speaking if you don’t.ovulate it’s all one cycle but I had a bleed roughly the same time as AF) I thought the same thing was happening. Lo and behold I got the positive opk (static smiley on the digi) on day 22. Before my last mc I usually ovulated day 16/17 so this is very late. So I have had both no ov and late ov. I hope it is just late for you! I think it is worth keeping testing just in case...

Jessabean · 01/07/2018 07:59

Forgot to put I'm 29 🙄 always forget something!

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