Nutty TTCers thread #3!

@thisisouryrfx18 DS is 5 and we haven't been preventing since we had him but no BFP yet!! Moved into new home and upped the ante 16 months ago. Ds asking for a sibling so got referred by GP. I know it can happen but I'm so impatient 😥😀 🤞 for healthy sperm 🎈🌼

@SoBoredOfWaiting just wanted to say I can see the line 🤞🤞 for you!!!

@IsAnyoneElseMissingCheese @thisisouryrfx18 @DaisyMay25 thank you, inverted and couldn't see much, so thinking it is probably an evap line. Ah well, not out til AF appears eh!
@HidCat thank you, and yes having a lovely holiday thanks! Out here with friends and trying to take my mind off of the weird test!
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Hope you are all having a good day!

@Angelmiracle thanks hun its the not knowing how long this will go on for isnt it?fx everything goes well at SA for u and me lol how long have u been ttc? @HidCat me too im going out at the wkend bet u i dnt drink and get af late on mon!

@SoBoredOfWaiting I see a shadow of some sort, hopefully a better line will appear in a couple of days!

@Angelmiracle it's annoying isn't it? I usually get a static on CD11 which is what I am today, I'm thinking I'm two days behind for some reason.

@SoBoredOfWaiting I. An see a line but cant tell if there's any colour. Worth a retest to be sure. Hope you're having a fab holiday!

@thisisouryrfx18 the limbo is the worst. I hope you get a definitive answer either way in the next couple of days.

Delurking to say congratulations to @lolacola13 wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy 🎉🤞

@DaisyMay25 Im exactly the same. Finally got a flashing smiley this morning but it was static this time last month cd18 😕 Had better peak v soon 🤞

@thisisouryrfx18 I know how you feel. I have secondary infertility. I was blaming myself coz of my pcos the last 5 years but bloods internal scans and hsg all show I'm healthy and ovulating!! Waiting DH SA appt...we both now think it's him but it also might not be. 🤞 keep at it you will get there!!

@DaisyMay25 thats gd + 2morro hopefully..@HidCat ive not got af yet im 12dpo but my temps have dropped like they always do right before it so i would bet money itl come fri or sat

I was just thinking that@SoBoredOfWaiting invert it that always helps x

@thisisouryrfx18 sorry that AF came 😩 but glad you hear you are getting some answers.

@DaisyMay25 Hope you get a +ive soon!

Love to everyone else not mentioned, hope you are all ok

Well girls I genuinely think I am going mad! In Spain, had some weird ass symptoms going on so took an early test. AF due Saturday and had just an odd shadow on the test- do you girls think it is an evap line? Can you see it or am I in fact going mad? Lol. Thinking I will retest Saturday if AF doesn't come?

@thisisouryrfx18 I'm so sorry Hun. Big hugs. I can't spell Gynaecologist either (thank you auto correct), I just say Gyno.

@thisisouryrfx18 oh no! How many dpo are you?

I finally got a flashing smiley this morning so hoping it'll be positive in a couple of days

Aaanndd im out again!

@R7589 i know i always think the worst case scenarios lol thanx @MrsV2018 its gd to talk to ppl who v been through it and get its such a head fuck @DaisyMay25 fx u get a +2morro hun our bodies like to rebel i think! Ive got a referral to gynaecologist (i really need to find out how u spell that lol) and OH has SA on the 12th so just pushing forward and hoping for the best xx

Thanks @lolacola13 and @HidCat thanks i ll b alrite x sorry dnt want to bring the mood down just worrying, we ll keep trying no matter what lol like i said 11dpo atm

@thisisouryrfx18 it's the same once I've used that past few months and I've got same results each month. Maybe the heat has messed me up. Hopefully I see some sort of smiley face soon!

That's great news! What's the next step for you then?

@thisisouryrfx18 I had the same feeling when I was told my bloods were normal. Sounds really bad but I kindof wished something came out of it and then I would know why it wasn't happening and get it sorted but I just think now that it's good because hopefully nothing is wrong and that this is my month xx

@thisisouryrfx18 that's great news hun - gets you 1 step closer to getting answers. Try not to worry too much about other factors at the moment. It's one less thing on the list to get checked and that's a good thing!

@thisisouryrfx18 that's good news. Try not to overthink the what ifs. Just keep at it whilst they rule things out. Hope you're ok?

@thisisouryrfx18 great news hun!!! Don't panic if it is dh , many things can be treated lifestyle etc , today is a good day! X

The results r in drum roll and my bloods are normal they said, so assuming i ovulate..dnt know how to feel fot itd b a relief but feel all over the place. What if its oh is that harder to treat? or what if its unexplained infertility? i just dnt know still on limbo..

Congratulations to you both @HidCat @lolacola13 🎉🎉

@TheMagicTorch I had been taking 75mg every other day during tww to keep my blood thin supposed to help aid implantation , dunno if it helped or not but fingers crossed . Still taking it but have heard so many reports that it shouldn't be taken after u get a bfp and then so many that day oh the fertility docs have everyone on it etc to Aid blood flow do growing embryo , not sure what to think/do... I do know of a neighbor who had three miscarriages and then was put on it .

@HidCat i completely get it hun i was thinking the other day ive been ttc for soo long now would i b xcited if i got a bfp..i know it sounds crazy but i dnt think i would b i wouldnt b able to relax. Not that i dnt want a bfp but itd feel too gd to b tru prob. Everythings looking gd soo far tho so try and keep busy the nxt couple of days but we all know hard that is x