Nutty TTCers thread #3!

@MrsV2018 nxt month for a couple of days..ive got the gynaeo nxt mnth aswell seems soo far away. I feel like shit tbh how are u?

@thisisouryrfx18 that sounds lovely.. when are you going? How you feeling? When's your next appointment at the doctors?

Booked a little boat trip for me and OH were going way up north and staying for a couple of nights sumthin to look forward to we badly need it..how are u all today?! X

@MrsV2018 im the same age lol yh i get it i put it off for soo long ask any of the girls ive spoke to on here..its scarey thinking theres something wrong but i think ive just accepted it now. Dnt get me wrong i get down about all this ttc crap but i feel like i just want a solution now x the worst thought i think now is unexplained infertility or being told they cant do anything uuugghh

Yeah you're right.. the sooner I go the better and we aren't getting any younger. I'll be 34 soon so age really isn't on my side but do you think maybe it will happen next month...ever the optimist!! After almost 2 years though maybe I need to just face my fears and go for further tests

@MrsV2018 yh its gd hes positive but tbh i look back on puttin the tests off and i regret not goin sooner i feel like i wasted too much time but obvs yous have to do what feels right for yous if yous want to wait then wait x

Bye ladies :) hope you all get your BFP asap!!!

I spoke to OH half again late last night as couldn't sleep and he wants to wait another month before we go back to docs. He said let's just try another run of it. I like that he's so positive but I don't know if he sees the disappointment every month the same way I do. Hope you guys are ok?

@MrsV2018 dnt b silly it actually helps me to know im not alone x maybe waiting until ur afs late is a gd idea seeing that bfn is soo depressing..let me know how ur OH gets on if he goes to the doc ❤

Thanks for mentioning about the infertility threads I wouldn't have thought about those!

Symptoms for AF have gone except bloating/constipation, wee witch still hasn't arrived!

How are you all keeping?

@thisisouryrfx18 best of luck next week.. no I don't think I'm going to test now. Don't think there's any point. I'm due AF on Thursday so I might wait until Friday now. I don't actually think I am pregnant. I'm sorry you're on a downer. Bet I'm not helping you feel any better.. sorry about that

@MrsV2018 i know its a depressing thought but its not like what ud think as i said theres loads of ppl on there diagnosed with problems that can b corrected with meds etc and ppl like us still trying to figure out why it hasnt happened yet. Not too great i thought going out for lunch and having a couple of drinks would cheer me up but now im back in the house feel like im on a downer..roll on nxt wk its my fertile wk might help me feel like im being proactive. How are u? R u testing again tomorrow? X

@thisisouryrfx18 oh ok. I might have a look at the infertility threads then but it's just that word doesn't sound too nice. How are you anyway?

@MrsV2018 dnt take this the wrong way but u should go on some of the infertility threads(not saying we are) but there are loads of ppl in our postion, just starting investigations and they give great advice x

@MrsV2018 its defo scarey my OH was dreading it. But i feel as if the only gd thing about gettin tests done is in a small ur taking the control back. If i get told everythings fine at the gynaeo i think im goin to look into a private scan i know somethings up and i want to get to the bottom of it! I dnt care what anyone says when we ve been ttc for this long clearly somethings up and i want it fixed xx i would defo get him a SA

@thisisouryrfx18 we've only been for blood tests and apart from low vitamin D they said it was all ok. Spoke to OH about going back to docs and he has agreed but just really scared about it

@MrsV2018 i know hun i wish i could say sumthing to make u feel better all i can say is i totally get it x did u say ud been for tests etc? Im just expecting the gynaeo to tel me we need ivf for one thing or another im just trying to prepare for it, then if we dnt need it its a relief..my heads all over the place with this crap! ❤

Yep just need to support each other but it's hard when you see people get pregnant and they say it happened the first month of trying.. and then when I speak to them they just don't understand where I'm coming from and say it will happen. They don't know that

Hopefully we're in next month. OH came back last night and we agreed to wait for a bit. 57 days from last AF is not healthy. But definitely appreciating the support, hope you're both okay.

@MrsV2018 its soo tough isnt it?! Hang in there x ive not been charting my temps and ive been forgetting to take my vits we re still trying and i ll dtd as much as we can in my fw but i feel the same how much more are we meant to take its soo unfair! @cmdoran1991 u said ur goin to the docs arent u? I think its the best thing especially with ur af being soo late. We just need to try and support one another ladies x

Still no AF, BFN.

Feel ya there :(

I'm 11dpo and did a test this morning... surprise surprise got a BFN!!!!!

Don't know how much longer I can go through this

@cmdoran1991 no you don't sound selfish at all.. completely feel the same anytime I hear pregnancy news.. it's been a long journey and just feel like it won't happen

@thisisouryrfx18 I feel less bad now.

Anyone else have a full day of twitchy dull af cramp/twinge on their right side? Somethings telling me it's a cyst.

Sorry I keep rambling on btw mind has been in over drive with ttc. So I appreciate you ladies for putting up with it x

@cmdoran1991 and @MrsV2018 i think we re entitled to feel pissed off bottom line is if the tables were turned theyd feel the same