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Anyone else waiting to test?

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NoseringGirl · 18/06/2018 11:25

I'm 8DPO today and am probably going to test on Thursday (trying to hold off until then anyway!)
Anyone else planning to test around that time? I have a 10 day LP so testing then should give me warning about whether AF is coming or not.
I'm obsessively symptom spotting even though I'm aware that pre AF symptoms and pregnancy symptoms are pretty much the same at this point.
It'll be DC3 for us if all goes well but I'm still just as excitable TTC this time around Blush

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mumontherunnn · 25/07/2018 08:57

Amazing!!!! Congratulations @BeeKeeping that's fantastic news!!!! Happy and healthy pregnancy to you.

I'm 5 days late and still bfn- someone stole af!

BeeKeeping · 25/07/2018 08:29

I know this thread has been quiet for a while but just wanted to update you.... BFP! So excited!

Anyone else waiting to test?
NoseringGirl · 02/07/2018 23:40

Oh I plan to tell my lot at length about the struggles I had TTC them, carrying them and birthing them. They will hear all about my suffering 🤣

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mumontherunnn · 02/07/2018 22:29

Haha oh god @NoseringGirl I don't want to smell weird or end up a cough syrup addict 🙈😂

The things we do and our babies will never know how crazy we got just so they could be here.

NoseringGirl · 02/07/2018 22:25

I tried the cough syrup (well I managed to get it in pill form) a couple of months ago and it just made me smell weird! I didn't notice a difference in CM but I know a lot of people swear by it! I think the dose needs to be quite high though.

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mumontherunnn · 02/07/2018 21:14

I STILL have AF the bitch will just not FO!! Aaarrrrgggghhhh

I actually went to the go today to ask to get bloods done as my opks, temps, cycles and AF are all over the place sigh

Never mind, my lucky DH will just need to put up with dtd every other day all month just in case 😂.

Bought some preseed this month and was reading that robutisin cough syrup can help with cm - any other weird and wacky things going on n your households this month?

HidCat · 28/06/2018 07:08

Hi ladies, 6dpo here. Holding out to test til 10dpo at least. Last pregnancy got my bfp at 10dpo so thought that's worth a try.

@Melbabes6 I can't see anything but it's still early so fx it changes to positive for you.

@Doglady28 and @mumontherunnn sorry you're out this month.

@BeeKeeping fair play to your friend for being chilled out enough not to track for 4 years! Most people I know go nuts within about 3 cycles. Hope ivf goes well for her.

Doglady28 · 28/06/2018 06:31

Hi all, didn't need the FRER as AF turned up. I'm ok with that thoigh ad I can now start to track my cycle properly. Hope you are all well. Let's see what July/August
brings xxx

BeeKeeping · 26/06/2018 17:03

I think the one step measure HcG that’s 10 miu or above and the FRER are 6.3.. so definitely more sensitive. I can’t see anything on that picture but I am squinting in the sunshine! Fingers crossed for you 🤞🐝x

Melbabes6 · 26/06/2018 15:05

Can't decide if there's a faint line or not Hmm 9dpo

How does a frer compare to one step!?

Anyone else waiting to test?
mumontherunnn · 26/06/2018 12:23

@Doglady28 how did you get on with frer?
Crossing myfingers for you.

I'm Defo out now WineThanksCake

mumontherunnn · 24/06/2018 21:36

AF due tomorrow, I know the witch is on her way, I have consumed my body weight in chocolate today and felt like ripping everyone's head off Blush.

So I have been trying to convince myself that a summer baby is the way to go so that should hopefully keep me sane for a while 🙈.

Why would you NOT temp? I find that a bit weird, unless you have clockwork cycles or crack ovulation you would think you would either be dtd every single day (sod that!) or get your timing right by tracking O

mumontherunnn · 24/06/2018 21:31

Yup @Doglady28 I would go for a frer too, just to be sure.

mostimproved · 24/06/2018 15:54

@Doglady28 I would say get a FRER to put your mind at ease, they are much better than the ICs.

Doglady28 · 24/06/2018 12:50

Hey everyone. So im now 6 days late and no BFP but I've only been using IC
Should I get a FRER or should I accept that it's negative? Just want AF to arrive!!!

NoseringGirl · 23/06/2018 17:56

If you search BBT thermometer on amazon there's a few on there, quite cheap too! It needs to be two decimal places so it picks up some thermal shifts.

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BeeKeeping · 23/06/2018 17:41

I wonder if the difference is being on mumsnet? Makes tracking seem much more mainstream? Although if you were undergoing tests for fertility and asking about IVF you would think the dr would want to know that you’ve tried everything first?! Crazy.

I popped into my local pharmacy to buy a thermometer but think I’ve got the wrong type as it only measures to 1 decimal place. Any recommendations for good ones? Also surprised they didn’t sell mooncups. And stocked up on litres of canisten as my fanny is on fire 😫 which would be a disaster for ttc this month.

🐝x

mostimproved · 23/06/2018 15:12

@Beekeeping I did SMEP this month and tracked temp and CM and used OPKs - I felt it made me feel more in control of the process and the temping really helps confirm you ovulated. I thought everyone did these things when ttc these days to be honest, nothing extreme about it!

NoseringGirl · 23/06/2018 12:32

Very true @BeeKeeping!
I'd be shocked at your friend as well, I don't think temping and tracking cycles is that radical is it?! I don't think I could stop now even if I wanted to, menopause is the only thing that'll come between me and my FF charts Grin

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winterwarmers · 23/06/2018 11:22

bfn on clearblue digi af 3 days late now

BeeKeeping · 23/06/2018 10:39

The good news is that @mumontherun @changingagain @prembabymum and @noseringGirl we get to keep each other company next month too. I think that there’s definitely a sense of catharsis when the witch actually arrives and there’s no more wondering. CD1 is much more positive than CD40whatthehellisgoingon?....

I’m going to try a rough version of SMEP next month and start temping. I was saying this to a friend of mine who has been ttc for almost 4 years and is now on the waiting list for IVF. She was SHOCKED that I would do something as dramatic as taking my temperature every day and timing sex. I was shocked that she’d rather have IVF than timed sex?! Couldn’t really say that to her though... but venting here...

Hope you all have a great weekend 🐝x

NoseringGirl · 23/06/2018 08:49

Sorry to hear that @mumontherunnn! No amount of rational thinking takes away the sadness of BFN. Really hoping you get that BFP soon! When is AF due? You're not technically out until she shows!

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mumontherunnn · 23/06/2018 08:30

I'm out Sad. Tested this morning, even though I promised I wouldn't but I caved.

I should be relieved as we have a big family event next week and trying to cover not drinking would have been a nightmare but I'm not, I'm sad.

I would love a summer baby so I know I should be holding off but I just have this crazy obsession and all rational thought has left the building.

Ah well it will be August before we have another shot as DH is away with work next month at that time. Fingers crossed for August

Xxx

NoseringGirl · 22/06/2018 09:23

@BeeKeeping that sounds frustrating! Anything from a 10-16 day LP is within the range of normal. You can ovulate 12-36 hours after a positive OPK so it could just be that you're closer to the end of that.
The other possibility is that some people will get multiple LH surges. So their body heats up to ovulate and they'll get a positive OPK. Then for whatever reason, ovulation doesn't occur and the body starts gearing up again.
OPKs alone drove me mad (I have PCOS which means my LH can be elevated without ovulation) and I find temping helps me track a lot more accurately.

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BeeKeeping · 22/06/2018 09:07

Aahhhh! Getting fed up now. Still no period today and another BFN. Don’t know what to think. Is it likely that I have a ridiculously long luteal phase? I’m on 15dpo.. or that I maybe didn’t ovulate? Or not when I got my peak OPK. I was tracking the week of the 3rd seeing it get gradually more positive and then definite peak on the 6th (with all the other signs ewcm, high soft cervix etc) it trailed off again after that and I assumed that i had ovulated on the 7th. What the actual fuck! 😖 🐝x

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