Trying for baby 😢

Take a frer babyboo ckearblue digitals often show not pregnant very early on.

Ttc for approx 6 months (since stopping the pill). My last period was 17th May and it's now day 32 of my cycle. My cycle has regulated to 31 days but last month my period was late and started on CD 33. I went on the have sharp pains on my left side and cramps after ovulation and brown spotting at 11&12dpo (4 days before my predicted period). I thought my period was actually going to start..my cramps were very strong but nothing now and AF is due today/tomorrow. I have tested 2 days after this possible implantation bleed and got a BFN(using clear blue digital)

Q1- if you are late one month are you late the next?
Q2- do i have to wait after an IB to test? could I be pregnant still?

It's fathers day today and was hoping to suprise my hubby but instead I have been left disappointed

help please...any stories of hope are welcome!

@anon20something hope you’re okay, keep your chin up and ignore any people who are telling you it’s not valid for you to feel sad. But don’t lose hope, it can and may happen for you. X

Hi OP
We have been trying for 6 months too which i know isnt very long and understand why some people are making comments. But i defo cried my heart out when i came on yesterday so i just wanted to let you know your not alone in feeling like this after a short period of time. If anything like me i wanted to wait until after married to have kids and therefore whilst only been TTC 6 months. Ive been ready for a family more than a year. Stay postive!

for you op

Sorry you have been looking for support and received snarky comments as well.

No it’s not a competition but 6 months is only 50% chance 1 father’s day missed

Try 8 long long years

It’s shit after years of trying and ectopics etc.. I’m sure you’ll be fine OP x

No it isn't a competition, but realistically the op wouldn't have been a parent by now based on when they ttc. This was originally posted in infertility. The op does not fit the definition of infertile. I think that's what a couple of people reacted to...

I'm not having a go at the op. Days like this are shit. But it was a bit strange to find this in infertility. Again, your expectations just need lowering a bit...

You will get your chances ...

It's not a competition of who is the most miserable. Days like this can be tough for anyone who wants to be pregnant/have their own child but doesn't/can't, whether they've been trying six months or six years.

Thinking of everyone who is having a tough day.

Really 6 months ? Sorry can't be sympathetic we tried 5 years before we had our first, that was heart breaking and no Father's Day / Mother's Day we're not happy d

Yes I find father and Mother's Day shit. I find Facebook shit because it's all baby photos. A lot of life is shit when you can't start the family you want. 6 months isn't long in the ttc world. You are only slightly more likely to be pregnant than not. Lower your expectations...

Aww big hugs

I tried 8 years for my eldest had 6 years fertility treatment every mother’s day I’d feel empty cheated was worse

I lost my youngest daughter at 5 months pregnant to sepsis 3 years ago and I’m not sure should I get my husband her daddy a card each year or let it slide what’s the right thing to do ?

Tru focus on other things I found when I hit a new job moved house and had an IVF appointment a adoption meeting my whole be all and end all for havhng a baby went and I fell pregnant
She’s now 22 and has 3 children and I have an 18 and 13 year old too

Just try make a life and try not to over focus xx