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Any older mums had a successful pregnancy after 2 mmcs??

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bearsmom · 21/05/2007 17:27

I'm 42 and have just had my second missed miscarriage in less than twelve months. I really thought the one I had last year was a one-off but both babies died at 7 weeks so a pattern seems to be developing. With the mmc last year I found out the baby had died at a scan at 10 weeks and had the actual mc the following week, and with this one I found out at a scan last week when I should have been 9 weeks pg and I'm now waiting for the pregnancy to mc naturally as I don't want to take the pills or have a D&C if I can help it.
Are there any older mums reading this who had a successful pregnancy after mmcs? Did you try anything in particular to maintain the pregnancy? (I don't smoke, didn't drink during the pg, I eat healthily and take my folic acid and multivits). I have a ds and have read that women who have sons as their first child tend to have more mcs than those who have girls. Has anyone had the immunoglobulin injections I've read about to try and combat this? Sorry, I'm probably clutching at straws here, and perhaps, as the radiographer suggested, I'm too old, but I don't want ds to be an only and want to do anything I can to make our next try successful (have never had any problem getting pg, it's staying pg that seems to be the problem). Thanks for reading.

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VictorVictoria · 22/05/2007 09:13

Hi bearsmom

I am in exactly the same position as you. I am 39, one DS who is 23 months and have had two miscarriages in the last 6 months.

I am lucky enough to have Lesley Regan as my consultant who assures me that it is very unlikely to be the start of a current miscarriage problem given that I have carried a successful pregnancy to term. Its just that the olser you are, the chance of miscarriage increases. Afriend of mine has just had a baby aged 42 after 3 miscarriages. she had all the tests and it was concluded that there was nothing wrong except her age.
Good luck and never give up hope

bearsmom · 22/05/2007 09:09

Thanks to all of you for posting, it's good to know that having 2 consecutive mcs doesn't mean I'll never carry another baby to term and your stories have left me feeling much more positive about trying again.

Muminfife - congratulations! All the best with the birth.

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fryalot · 21/05/2007 18:24

I had 2 mcs after dd1.

I now have 3 lovely children, albeit with a ten year age gap between numbers 1 and 2.

I was 34 when I had dd1 and 36 when I had ds.

I wish you the very very best of luck

Muminfife · 21/05/2007 18:19

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Nightynight · 21/05/2007 18:14

I was 36 when dd2 was born, after 2 miscarriages in less than a year, similar to yours.

after 2 mc's it is hard to believe that you will ever have another baby, but many women have done - good luck.

bearsmom · 21/05/2007 18:01

Thanks feedmenow. MN has been a great help to me, only discovered it a few months ago, and wish I'd known about it last year.

Hoping someone out there has some good advice/inspiring stories for me ...

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feedmenow · 21/05/2007 17:31

I'm afraid I have no idea, but just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss and that I hope someone knowledgable comes along soon to offer some advice.